Pisces men seem to have

quite some reputation here. And not so positive.

Well... dated a Gemini for almost 2 years. Ended finally this april. She said she has kind of lost interest, but remembers the good times. Ohh I guess thats ok then. She was a lot of fun talking to though. Now all I have to do is get over this.

And ofcourse start talking to other women. Aproaching women and starting up a conversation—? Now thats a scary thought...

Cheers!

Ooops! Created two topics. Sorry, new to the board.

Im just curious what are you trying to say?
are YOU a pisces male ?
im a little confused.

If you are pisces male,
I wouldnt suggest another gemini i case you didnt already know.
Its a tragic match and im speaking from expierience not from an astrological view.
Im sure its workable no doubt every relationship is But* gem and pisceans need stable reliable partners,
and 8 or 9 times out of ten both are not very stable or reliable.

but good luck in your relations.


-mike

Yep I am one. The problem is that even though you know that astrologically speaking, pisces and gemini are not compatible, I thought I could some how make this work. I guess my jealousy got the better of me. My bad.

Thanks for replying man.

Cheers!

They do.
Hmmm ... My pisces boyfriend ex-girlfriend was a Gemini...
They broke up because she was too free and chose her friends over him

geminis arent bad people there just to out there so to sepak,.....phsically and mentally,.
I being pisces ,.....am very attracted to single love in life,.....just one and almost all of my love attention goes to that one person. thats all i think thats why scorpio psices relations almost always result in life long happiness.....because there both highy true to each other,....and they compliment each other maybe even better than a cancer pisces relationship.
I find cancers unattractive in thier mentallity.
i dont think scorpios get enough talk about there outgoing lovable side.
every scorpio i met have great sense od humor and love to laugh with me....and they enjoy opening up.
none ever talks about that.

so for you scorpio or cancer girl would be a good match astrologiclly speaking...

Or of course taurus or capricorn isnt bad either.
even dare i say Aries?!?!

hehe

🙂~


-mike

"They broke up because she was too free and chose her friends over him".

Exactly. I kept trying to tell her that who was more important. I cancelled meetings/outings with my friends so many times, just to be with her. But when it came to her, she said she is maintaining a social balance. —?? And when she saw I am jealous about her meeting her other male friends(singly) without me (not me being present), she didn't even had the guts to tell me that "yes I will meet them no matter how you feel". She told me, ohh I wont. And then actually kept meeting them while telling me she was meeting her parents, etc.

I am not saying she is going to bed with them or something, but why the lying. Plus I always feel how nice it is to be together with someone. Then why cant we be together to meet her friends. I mean I dont have many female friends, but when I meet the few I do have, I never insisted on meeting them alone, even for a cup of coffee. And never lied to her saying I am meeting someone else or doing something else, while I meet them.

But it is also rediculous to ask for sunsign everytime I meet someone. How do I do that?

Me and Aquarius,
Me: "Hey, nice to meet you. BTW, whats you sunsign?"
She: "ummm... aquarius, I think"
Me: "eeeeeek!!!" thrall sees ghost, turns white and runs away.

While me and scorpion,
Me: "Hey, nice to meet you. BTW, whats you sunsign?"
She: "ohhh... err.. scorpion?"
Me: "Yeahhhhhh... ok, just two kids. Ohh and sunday morning I get to read the sports page first"

But I guess you all have a point. Other than the sunsign, does planet positions in any of the other houses give an idea which signs I am more compatible with?

Well Thrall, the Venus and Mars signs are used to determine the "love" of your relationship and the moon "emotions" are also factors in determining compatibility.

I wish my Pisces man was like you, he's always standing me up for his friends...Maybe I should hook him up with your gemini and they will get along famously!

Mike&Hisdreams...why or what you you find about Cancer mentality that is unattractive, just curious...

Cancerlady

I don't know if this will be helpful or not but here goes my two cents.I agree with other people on the board.Dating a gemini is not a good idea unless you yourself have a lot of gemini characteristics,i.e. planets in gemini and such.Its not like I don't like them...they are very likable people when they want to be...I just no longer date them mainly for 2 reasons,

a. I'm a good listener but I want to be with someone who will once in a while listen to me too.
b. Most of the gemini people I have met so far were lets say "very free with the truth". They had their own version of everything for everyone. A little too tricky
for me to handle. ( no offense intended...I know I have met only a few ...rest of them are probably not like that...but I don't want to go down the same path again.)

its not just geminis...air signs are hard for a water sign. i actually have a lot of friends that are air signs and my ex is a libra. friends are always more important it seems. from my experience they do lie alot....or more like omitting key information. my buddy is an aquarius...we were supposed to play golf one day but instead of telling his gemini girlfriend thats what he was doing he said he was going to work. well of course he ran into her mom on the way to the course and was made to scramble and lie some more. we never did play....fucking crazy. i was so pissed at his lack of balls.lol

my ex always said that she told me everything but i felt like it was the edited version. not to say that water signs or any other sign wont lie but it seems so natural for them.

Ohh yes the lying. Legendary. But later I used to somehow understand when she was lying, well lets say 70 to 80 percent of the time I did. Somehow out of a couple of sentences, when the puzzle didnot fit. First I tried confronting, then later I thought if I just smiled and went with the flow, maybe someday she will stop lying, but at the end I just gave up.

Hi cancerlady, I am not so well versed with astrology, but I tried using the free chart generator at http://astro-software.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal and here is what I got. Does this mean I am more compatible with taurus even though pisces are more compatible with cancer or scorpio?


Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Pisces 8.34
Moon Taurus 10.54
Mercury Pisces 2.57 R
Venus Capricorn 29.29
Mars Gemini 0.04
Jupiter Aquarius 27.54
Saturn Gemini 27.47
Uranus Libra 27.27 R
Neptune Sagittarius 9.35
Pluto Libra 6.12 R
Lilith Capricorn 21.49
Asc node Sagittarius 25.46

Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant Virgo 22.13
II Libra 20.54
III Scorpio 21.25
IV Sagittarius 22.15
V Capricorn 22.51
VI Aquarius 23.05
VII Pisces 22.13
VIII Aries 20.54
IX Taurus 21.25
Midheaven Gemini 22.15
XI Cancer 22.51
XII Leo 23.05

This pretty much looks greek to me.

Plus you said "Venus and Mars signs are used to determine the "love" of your relationship"

Venus is in capricorn while mars is in gemini. My God, there is earth, water, air, even there is a leo in XII house, fire. I feel like some elemental geek. Actually I am pretty confused right now. Is this sort of a chart common or am I like one of those who have no hope what so ever? And why is my mid-heaven Gemini? Why? WHY— Does it mean I have to lie my way to heaven or something? OK Apart from jokes, does this sort of chart has any future?

Ohh and thankyou all again for replying.

Thrall...Here's some helpful info for ya!

PISCES MAN
He is very emotional and always allow himself to be very emotional. He can
have a good night sleep and be in a good mood, and less than few hours at
work he can be very moody. He does not understand things or try to
understand things easily. If you notice him carefully, you will notice what
kind of moods he is in.

He is a thinker and able to do well at work and always succeed. His normal
gestures mean he always look at other people faults, but he will not talk
about it. He has the ability to know your thought and able to tell you what
you are thinking about.

He can mostly memorize all his anger, his loves. They are his important
secrets and he will keep them to himself and will never let you know. He is
not a very ambition man and careless about his position in society. Wealth
does not drawn his attention, because he is not greedy man and as well he
thinks money is not something that will last. He could be very careless
about his future. He does not like to fight against all odds, but instead
following the stream and make life easier. Sometimes because he likes to
take an easy path, which cause him very unsteady future.

He is kind and slightly lazy, but it is his cute character. He hates rules
and regulations. He will never look down on people. He is a polite guy and
can be very aggressive when he is mad. He loves to think that he lives in a
beautiful world and surround by nice people, so if he finds his world is
cruel and not what he expects, he will live in his world instead.

His other charm is that he is a funny guy, and it is his real weapon. He can
tease you and yet make it looks like one of his joke. Even when he is sad,
he still has that funny face, so you could hardly tell if he is mad or
depress. He likes to hide his feeling and help other people especially those
who need friend or lonely.

He will be everything that you want and everything you do not want. He has a
chance to make it as much as a chance to fail. He can determine to make it
work and can do it well, except he tends to lost his energy with other
important things, that's how he miss many of his good opportunity.

He can be happy and content by himself. What he think is important is not
"Love" ,but firm status and stability. He has plenty of love for you.

He is a good speaker, as much as he is a good listener. When he is with you,
he wants to be happy. He understand his partner's emotional. He likes to
take a long rest and sometimes being alone. If he needs to be alone, try not
to disturb him.

He is a sensitive, quiet , shy and easily hurt. He wants to feel worthy. He
can be mad and noisy, but once he calm down, he will be that happy person
again. He is not a jealous or possessive guy, and if he feels jealous he
will hide it. He has many friends of both sex, and he care about his
friends. He likes to have lots of friends, so you can not get jealous or
else you will loose him. He likes beautiful things, so if a pretty woman
walk by he will look ,so do not get mad at him knowing this fact.

When he is lonely or feeling sad, be close to comfort him. He does not like
to take advice,so if you want him to listen or to follow your advice, you
have to act as a good sample for him first. He likes a cheery and a smart
woman. If you treat him like he is your special person, then he will be that
special person for you. He will trust you if he is in love, but try not to
over doing it and spoil him too much. You have to know yourself worth all
the time too.

and more...

The Taurus Moon is a positive and practical Moon. This Moon possesses a sharp artistic sense but is deliberate in reaching decisions. The Taurus Moon tends not to be aggressive but instead, is rather good-natured, accenting the need for security and the necessity of saving for "a rainy day." However, this Moon may also be prideful, stubborn and jealous.

In general, those with the Moon in Taurus are, in a word, conservative. They tend to fear anything outside the norm. However, they are deeply moved by things of beauty. Totally lacking in impulsive behavior, such individuals strive for success in a conservative manner and by investing much hard work into the process. Nevertheless, those with the Moon in Taurus tend to attract good company and usually end up with more than their fair share of wealth. In fact, no matter what type of work these individuals undertake, they will usually receive a financial reward in the end...even if the vocation is not considered by others to be worthy of the individual's abilities or standing in the community. Neither of which usually bothers those governed by the Moon in Taurus, whose occupation is often surrounded by something of an aura of mystery in any event. Moon in Taurus people harbor a love for things that are old and well-established. They are generally sociable souls and actually quite sensual in nature, although there is a tendency toward the materialistic in terms of relationships. These individuals often possess a good speaking and/or singing voice and have a natural attraction to the theater. Moon in Taurus persons enjoy making new friends and like to join clubs or other social circles. Emotionally stable and strong, these individuals form loyal bonds of friendship, but any change is usually perceived as a threat and may lead to the revealing of a somewhat jealous streak. These people will go to any lengths to preserve what they already possess and have even been known to test relationships to find out whether they will stand up to the challenge. Stability and continuity are vital to the Moon in Taurus person, together with a desire for traditional values and the occasional outmoded way of being. It is necessary for the Moon in Taurus individual to feel very secure and he or she will put up with more than most in preference to giving up at the first encountered hurdle.

keep reading...

Mercury in Pisces


Mercury in Pisces are gentle communicators with a soft touch that is pleasing and warm. Some of them come across in an almost poetic way. Not given to bother too much with details, these individuals tend to sponge up the feelings and moods of their environment. The information they extract from their surroundings can be unusual and certainly unique. For some, it is heavily skewed in the direction of emotion and feeling.
They're generally lovely listeners and, when you get them talking, warm conversationalists. When it comes to communicating, they're moody, and this extends to their letters and emails too. It's a kind of odd thing ? you never know when they'll be in a quiet mood or a yakking state. These individuals don't compete for air time, but they can talk up a storm when they're in the right frame of mind. Predicting when that will be can be difficult, though. Mercury in Pisces is tactful because they don't want to offend others in any way. They feel out their audience and sometimes search for what they think others want to hear. Yes, Mercury in Pisces can fib. It's not that they are malicious?they simply want others to be comfortable.

These people come across as dreamy and indirect. It can be hard to pin them down to any one belief or decision. It's not that they want to drive you crazy or anything?it's just that Mercury in Pisces takes in so much information from the world and their open-mindedness prevents them from taking a stance for too long. They have an unusual aversion to cold facts and hard decisions. Driven more by intuition than facts, these people avoid list-making and the like. Others might think them disorganized but they have an uncanny knack of finding things nonetheless. There is a tendency to avoid detail work or tying up loose ends, not to mention the mind drifting off to Never-Never Land.

Mercury in Pisces is tuned in to all the nuances of subjects and environments. They pick up on subtleties of all kinds, so what they lack in organization they make up for with insight. When the Sun Sign is Aries, much of the brashness and directness of Aries is considerably toned down with Mercury in Pisces. Aquarius Sun people with this position are artistic and humane.

Mercury in Pisces people are often vague and indirect in their communications with others. If they learn to express themselves with more clarity, they'll find that a lot of the problems they can encounter with misunderstandings will lessen. Their impressionable nature can make them an easy target at times. Their plans may seem too dreamy and unrealistic to more practical sorts, lacking the details that make them seem more attainable. But Mercury in Pisces' vision is extraordinary, and their leaps of faith are admirable.

And so on...

Venus in Capricorn


Venus in Capricorn people will try to win your heart by displaying self-control, presence of mind, and responsible behavior. These lovers want you to know they are goal-oriented, witty, savvy, and controlled. Nobody can get the best of them. They want you to see just how competent they are. They like some measure of predictability in their relationships as they are cautious in love.
Venus in Capricorn men and women project an aura of competency and their loner-like behavior can be attractive, in a cool way. They don't go gaa-gaa over love, or at least they don't express as much. Their lovers may complain that Venus in Capricorns are a little too practical and deliberate. Certainly, they can come across as lacking in warmth and spontaneity. Truth is, they can be rather romantic souls who yearn for a partner to share their lives with. Others' image of their relationship matters to them. They are conservative and willing to commit. Venus in Capricorn people are attracted to serious, goal-oriented lovers. They are a little shy in matters of the heart, but they don't want you to know it. If you like knowing where your relationship is headed, you'll be mighty pleased with Venus in Capricorn. These people plan ahead in love, and, unlike Venus in Pisces, they will let you know exactly where they (and the relationship) are headed.

Pleasing Venus in Capricorn involves showing them you are practical and realistic. They want to impress you with the things they do. Appreciate their "saving for a rainy day" attitude, and be aware that they want to show you off in a quiet way.

And Lastly...

Mars in Gemini


Mars is the planet that rules our drive and passions. In the mutable air sign of Gemini, Mars is a little scattered and unfocused. Easily bored, Mars in Gemini natives need a fresh change of pace frequently just to keep energy levels up. It's a somewhat odd thing, really. When there's nothing much to do, these natives are exhausted. But if there's plenty of interesting things on their agenda, Mars in Gemini natives can be powerhouses! More than most people, these individuals have a physical reaction to boredom.
Besides possessing a passion for words, when Mars in Gemini natives get angry or fired up, they use words as their "weapon". Angry words?some of the most incisive and sarcastic ones?can fly around with the more energetic natives. Others simply talk things through?energetically! Whatever the case may be, Mars in Gemini natives need to get everything off their chests when they're fired up.

In fact, debates are a Mars in Gemini specialty. These natives draw on their sharp wit to win arguments. In general, they can be talkative sorts, sometimes bordering on verbal diarrhea. Those whose charts show more reserve only become chatty when they're worked up about something or the other.

Some people with this position of Mars are quite fidgety. They have much nervous energy. In general, their nervousness and restlessness are at the root of plenty of physical ups and downs. When they're on edge, they can be nitpicky.

Many Mars in Gemini natives channel their energy through their hands. Gemini, after all, rules the hands; and these people often express energy through musical instruments and the like?even video games. Many are attracted to puzzles and games as diversions.

These natives are very adaptable, often thriving on change. They often take up many projects at once, spreading themselves thin at times. Sustained interest is not especially common with this position of Mars. Most will benefit from attempting to focus their energies rather than scattering them. However, their versatility and disdain for routine generally means Mars in Gemini natives are busy people.

NOW...

What does this mean for you?

Well I can TOTALLY understand why you are the Pisces that you are...in my book with all that earth in your chart...you are EXACTLY they type of Pisces I wish mine was...STABLE!

Okay, as far as love goes, you are not as hard to pin down as most other Pisces men because you have a Taurus moon (Earth signs are the stabilizers of the zodiac) which gives you a better hold on your crazy emotions and helps you to rationalize situations more rather than react purely on how you feel. The Capricorn Venus also adds to your decision making abilities as far as love...not as flighty or scared of "love" or committment. As a matter of fact, I think all Pisces deep down CRAVE the committment of a dedicated partner, they are just scared of the consequences of losing freedom as well as heartbreak. You on the other hand, are not as reluctant to settle down although it may take a while for the person to prove their worth to you. I bet you rarely cheat on your partner also...Correct me if I am wrong.

Now since Mercury (communication planet) is in detriment you probably don't communicate very well, especially having a Pisces sun...I guess because you can read everyone else's mind, you expect them to read yours as well! No seriously...Having Mars in Gemini MIGHT help, but I doubt it because you have so many other planets holding down your communication skills. I bet you were attracted to the gemini woman because of this planet (Mars is how you go after what you want) She probably always kept you entertained, but the entertainment was not exclusive to you...The Taurus Moon, Pisces Sun, and Cappy Venus in combo cannot bear to be "second" to others. The jealous streak comes out!

I'm not even going into the rest of it because I do have a job LOL and it would take me too long...holla back if you have questions

Cancerlady/CancerMamaDeuce

WOW cancerlady, thats a lot of info. And I read all of it here in work 😛

Yep I crave for commitment too, infact I would only like a serious relationship. And I dont cheat on partners, not even rarely, not that I had very many partners to cheat on in the first place. Lies, well depends, sometimes it can be exaggaretion of something or sometimes it could be a little understatement of something. Maybe I spent 100 euros on shirts and later said ohh I only spent about 70 or so just to avoid something like "you are spending to much". But they are really related to such buying of simple things or how much I need a 20 inch TFT for World of Warcraft, while telling how a big screen is important for programming. But Never never cheat, and never about whom I met, etc. They are realy related to very small little things. I guess the bigger problem with me is saving money and not spontanious spending 😢

Ohh and I lied about the price of an expensive present I gave her on her birthday, saying it was not that expensive at all. Thats because I hate money talks in relationships. They make you look so cheap. Well technically they are lies, but whether they are cheating or not, I leave it upto you to decide.

As for scared about loosing my freedom... freedom to do what? Freedom is really a percieved term. Or maybe its the feeling of not being free because there is someone wonderful in your life? Think about the term "my better half". The person who coined that term was not very sad about his "better half" taking away his freedom, otherwise he would have said "my worse half", wouldn't he.

"I bet you were attracted to the gemini woman because of this planet (Mars is how you go after what you want) She probably always kept you entertained, but the entertainment was not exclusive to you"

You are right again. Probably because she was witty, funny, understood most of my (subtle)jokes and was fun to be with. But I am jealous, yes, and I like being second to none, true.

Here is a crazy thought, maybe some women be rather proud that his man is jealous about her, I mean think like, "Ohhh my God, I am actually so so much important to him." Ok that was a crazy thought indeed. No one likes jealousy.

Well now I have to get back to work. Thanks for replying... though I would love to hear the "rest" of what you think. Its interesting thing astrology, but somewhat complex. And sometimes contradictory, thats because I guess a person might act differently based on the situation.

Cheers!

Well, to me it seems like he is... in love. So did he actually say he has a girlfriend and just wants to have a light relationship with you, or did he say he knows other girls as friends. I mean if I have a girlfriend, I wouldnt exactly be having any relationship with anyone else, be it light or heavy.

In my case atleast, when in love with someone, I am thinking about her constantly. I mean not always consciously... sometime you just suddenly realise. Its like whenever you are driving, or doing something... its like other than the moment of a different thought, say at that moment when you are thinking about your bank ATM pin or something, and as soon as you type in the pin, again she is there. A bit spooky 😄 . So the point is, in such a case he will obviously think of calling you when he picks up the phone, or obviously think of you when he is going out of town and so on.

It is possible that he told you (rather agreed with you?) to keep the relationship light. Maybe he just didnot want to scare you away, you know burden of relationship sort of thing.

So why will he not tell you that he is in love with you, wants to marry you, have kids, blah blah blah? The obvious reason will be(well in my case, atleast) - how does he know that you have feelings for him like he does for you. What if after he tells you, you think, "ohh my God, this guy is getting serious, I dont want to get into such a thing, lets start avoiding him by not answering to his calls so often, etc.". Then he will loose whatever he has now. Who would want that?

Ok, that was what he might be thinking, and this is just a hypothesis, and we are not trying to pass a value judgement on whether it is wrong or right, even if he is thinking that way. Sometimes this behaviour is wrongly percieved as "ohh they are scared to commit". No they are NOT scared to commit. They are scared to tell you because they are scared of loosing you. And that no way means he is chickening out. He just values you so high that the simple risk(of telling you and finding out the outcome) seems too high to him.

Maybe you should make some small moves and see if he is responding possitively. But if he is getting upset on you not replying to his calls, etc. that should be a pretty good feedback for you to start with. But as far as I know, light relationships, atleast with me, doesn't work. I might say yes to a light relationship, but that would be because I just want to be as close to the woman(I am constantly thinking off) as possible without the risk of loosing her.

Ofcourse all this makes sense if you want a serious relationship too. In such a case, you should really make some small moves and see if he is responding possitively.

And lastly, every man is different, pisces or no pisces. So the way I think and do what I do, could be completely different from him. Please take that into account.

The cousin thing shouldn't be a problem. If he already knows, you dont need to mention that again, or dont talk too much about your ex. No need to make him feel competitive, insecure, or being compared with someone. If he is the love of your life, dont unnecessarily make him feel bad.

Cheers!

Without my taurus and two caps im sure ide be all over the freaking place.
but im usually very calm straight forward blunt and practical, and i distance myself from bad people...
and im super faithful, and i think im pretty good at making money and keeping it but im still working on building better ways to keep my money, and people say im veruy direct and intense but who knows where the heck that came from.
certainly i had a differnt upbringing, ive had a very VERY shaky messed up , up and down, good to bad than nback to good,
solitary eighteen years, I rarely relate to anyone even close to my age,...and find myself carrying or even the main figure in conversations with older wiser people instead of being a stupid teenager.
I grew up with no dad no money at least not for me and having to stand up for myself alot,
none ever really helped me or held my hand so people say that changed me (my close freinds)
say im stern protective and defensive of myself or close freinds and i can sense a phony from a mile away,
i think this might raise problems in love being pisces, im shy and sensitive but people think im not because i seem confident and proud,
when im in public but im different behind closed doors i become a silent dreamer but if somone knocks on my door or calls i get disturbed and feel back to my public face,....
the earth signs also make me more practical as i said before,
and all together im not a tipical pisces at all really as i thought before,
my capricorn freind told me he wanted to meet another pisces guy to see how similar we were,
and he said him to me was like night and day,
hes already doubting astrology again because of it.......


well thats my two or three cents...
dont know how it relates but im bored and i needed to say all that.


-mike