Pisces 'virgin' seeking help

Hi

I'm a Scorp, and I'm new to these boards. The reason I'm here is that I'm also new to the world of Pisces. I'm not sure that I know any! Except for this one guy....

So: this man works in the same area as me. We have spoken once. I made a joke, he got it. Good start. Other than that, we have simply locked eyes. Several times. And I know that is no basis for a relationship at all....but the eye locking was intense. I did the Scorp thing of some light-hearted stalking and found that he's a)single and b)a pisces. I just cannot explain why I need to connect with this guy but I do. My question is: how on earth do you approach a pisces man? Or would I scare the hell out of him if I did?

I have absolutely no idea if the usual direct methods would be helpful or horrific for this guy. My previous relationships have been with earth and air (big mistake!) signs. I'd appreciate any guidance from any pisces people (or any scorps who've managed to track down their own lovely pisces). I'm way out of my depth!

Posted by ScorpyCharlotte

I made a joke, he got it. Good start. Other than that, we have simply locked eyes. Several times. And I know that is no basis for a relationship at all....but the eye locking was intense.

You are correct when you assess that they eye locking is no basis for a relationship, because Pisces people do it to everybody when they "get" the other person. So, you aren't special in this aspect. The moment he gets someone else, he'll lock their eyes with them too.

The charm of Pisces is that we provide attention. We don't half listen, half recognize ... like with your case, he 'got' what you said, so his natural inclination is to it fully register into your awareness that he just gave you his full undivided attention.

Doing that is normal for a Fish ... and he'll do it everytime he gets you.

Posted by ScorpyCharlotte

I just cannot explain why I need to connect with this guy but I do. My question is: how on earth do you approach a pisces man?

The same way. Let him see that you gave him your full attention and not half-assly. Notice, and let him see that you notice. Pisces people are extremely aware of their surroundings .. we have to be since we are dependent upon them for our influence .... so, the first thing you want to do is make sure he knows that you notice him. By doing the same thing = full attention when he says something.

Posted by ScorpyCharlotte

My previous relationships have been with earth and air (big mistake!) signs.

When you too get to the talking stage, make damn sure you don't say anything like that. Pisces people are experiencers, and we love every relationship we've ever had, no matter the outcome .. so, if you tell him that then he might think that he's on trial during the whole relationship on you judgeing whether he would be a mistake or not ... and that could cause him to walk away from you even if he likes you.

Posted by ScorpyCharlotte

I'm way out of my depth!

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Yes, you are out of your depth, every person is .... but, since you're a Scorpio, you have the ability to dive that deep if you mean to.

So: this man works in the same area as me. !

Is this an opportunity to ask him for advice on how to do something, or a project of some sort that you can work together on?

Just be yourself, dont be pretense.

There are exceptions to every rule... I am Pisces who was envolved with a Scorpio and all we did was fight(except when we were in bed)He was very jealous and controlling.That was years ago and I don't want another one.

he's probably interested in you already, you just have to nurture that. maybe in a friends way first, that's less threatening and gives you more to build on. usually, pisces and scorpios have an excellent rapport, so good luck 😉