Please..

Hello


To all the new & the old dxp members...I have come here once again with i'm sure a fascinating story hoping to recieve a simple solution. Short story long........Been with my boyfriend (Scorpio) about 2 & a half years. We broke up for about 5months. No cheating or anything like that (we lived together)Okay...I leave him (felt he needed to really miss me or see how much he didn't more so just find himself i guess in a way) I moved on the other side of florida with family..Now in the process he couldn't speak to me basically needed to ice me out (he was heartbroken that i actually left he said and would change aka man up and realize what he had) his words but nicer. Just trying to paint you guys a picture so you understand what i'm about to say.... I get a new job, meet new friends hang out with some old ones i have around here and truly just love MY OWN life......we don't really speak except basically once in a blue make sure eachother are alive & we had a dog together .. so of course i want to know all about my babygirl.........OKAY SORRY GETTING TO THE POINT LOL....... (he at this point doesn't believe we are getting back or i'm comming back) which to be quite honest i really didn't see it either..I was enjoying life he expressed he was hoping i would come back n cried but i've been there before and i truly felt it was too soon .. i'm not god and could have been wrong but i was a bit nervous too...no problems n i was okay with it...She actually requested me on facebook which to be honest that pissed me off n i found creepy..So before i jumped to conclusions i called and asked him about it..I called him spoke with him about it..he understood and fixed the situation at once...He said i had every right to be irrated hes was not aware n he would be very upset also (you could hear it in his voice) lol.......okay she goes away i tell him bc i knew what she was about"use a rubber" in a playful way...now it's like 3 months later and we speak on vday (not planned just called him up to about the puppy) and we just were like highschool sweethearts who spoke for 4 hrs straight..it was so sweet...he is now crying n expressing so much love towards me he never has and i FEEL it big time....I then ask him is he with anyone he says no..i too am not with anyone else at this point...we continue to talk open up and just truly bond work our things out and now attatched at the hip..moving back there actually in a couple of weeks.. Now this girl i was

......talking about he tells me the story, the things i wanted to hear & didn't (sexual) ... After i had said if you had or have feelings for her pleae let me know .. didn't tell him why but i would let him be free with her....I could tell he didn't though.... okay so now i see all over her facebook she was really and i mean really obsessed with him n in all honesty probably bc he wasn't that into her ..i could tell (i at this point wanted to ressasure myself before moving back, i hope you guys understand?) so i did my own research lol.....Anyway i find this girl is mimicing everything i say to him on her facebook which she made unprivate, still talking about him and basically stalking the beach area to where he works like shes actually making herself look really bad ..she is not is friend on there n he cut all ties with her before me n him got back due to him finding out she did drugs. Her friend is the only one still on his page and im sure her spy..I seriously feel like i am in highschool all over again and i just can't deal with it. I am here FINALLY to ask you pisces ppl male or female how do i deal with this woman? I have a pisces moon as she is a pisces and as silly as it sounds and im right on her game. She clearly states she can not deal with getting treated like a nobody when he is with his lady again , when him and i end it again according to her they will still be talking...HOW DOES ONE DEAL WITH THIS? I shuld stop looking yes i know be wise and let it go which i prob will but if i do run into her at some point what would you fishies do?? I'm very sorry for such a long letter.

Sorry for all the typos and not making any sense i'm trying to multi - task lol

You set him free when nothing was wrong except for your need for him to come crawling to you because you thought that would make you feel special.

He was clearly distraught and grief-striken that you would toss his feelings aside like that simply because you couldn't handle your own feelings ... and you didn't seem to mind that you hurt him really bad when you did that to him.


Now you have to deal with those consequences, and now you seem to mind.


Game playing doesn't work, Juicy .. you know that. what the fuck were you thinking?

Oh P angel...dear just because i didn't give you the full story doesn't mean your observation is anywhere near true...usually if a person leaves after a longer period of 2 and a half years........something big has to hae been going on and a girl to be SCARED or nervous to be going back into it...........? LOL dear thanks for the advice ...next time though let the other pisces play. P dear....Game playing doesn't work which is why noone plays with you...... =)

NOT of her feelings..........OF the man being the same way....* is what i meant to say

Posted by JuiCy*

Okay...I leave him (felt he needed to really miss me or see how much he didn't more so just find himself i guess in a way) I moved on the other side of florida with family..Now in the process he couldn't speak to me basically needed to ice me out (he was heartbroken that i actually left he said and would change aka man up and realize what he had) his words but nicer.

Whatever ..... you are more than welcome to blame me not getting what you meant, and in for you being the fool in here crying about how your game came back and kicked you in the ass.

Bottom line, Juicy, which you can side-step, you can swing at me, you can yell at the top of your lungs, you can fiegn ignorance from now until dooms day ... but, here's what happened in a nutshell and it's your hell to pay for playing head-games.



You felt like you needed him to come crawling to you to make you feel better .. so you pushed him away .. while away, he found pleasure in another woman .. now you want him back but, he isn't finished loving on his other lady yet ..... so, you're jealous.

Lmao if this pisces is anything like you i'm ready to do a bridge jump now....

I am very curious as to why you feel the need to give negative advice to everyone...—? you do the "blame game" on everyone thinking you are pointing out flaws yet you never answer the question... Side step? I asked you DIRECTLY for an answer, yell? i believe i was not even speaking but typing...and jealous? LOL P c'mon...What are we 10? If you can't give advice please take some xanex n relax a bit....I will stop responding now bc you know damn well you feed off of the drama you innocent lady you!