Privacy

Curious to get the fish-tale on your own privacy levels. That is to say, information regarding yourself.
Do you readily share things about yourself, does it take a lot of prying; even with those you consider friends?

How tight lipped are you, and in what regard?

I'm kind of the same as you PHV (are you studying via your avi—?)... personal things to me... there are only 2 people who share access (different things between the two) to certain private parts of my life. The rest of the time - I generally don't get into my personal life with people. I'm an open book when asked (for the most part) - and if not asked, I'm not offering it up.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

Posted by deezie
I'm kind of the same as you PHV (are you studying via your avi—?)... personal things to me... there are only 2 people who share access (different things between the two) to certain private parts of my life. The rest of the time - I generally don't get into my personal life with people. I'm an open book when asked (for the most part) - and if not asked, I'm not offering it up.

Yeah I have 2 friends to blabber all my personal information too lol. It's the safest way to go. I mean, I don't mind sharing, but these days the men act like bitches and the women act like men...therefore, I don't get too personal with just anyone...*shruggs*..
As far as the Avatar, it is kind of a study guide I may reference to everytime I log on. Just the basic system. How you been Deezie?

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Been ok Pee ehCH Vee 🙂 you— How goes school? 99's everywhere?

I was just about to post a thread asking about if you fishies were private haha!

I had a rather long chat with my pisces friend last night. I forgot the store keys so I had to stay there for the night and she came to keep me company even when I said no. We talked about our parents, our lovers, etc things that I would've thought to be private. I can acknowledge on some level sharing tales of the past is fine if we don't talk about the processes but it's almost as if we were just sharing how we came about to 'finding' ourselves and discussing how we feel.

I think it's beautiful. You fishies are just generally awesome and get even more awesome underneath.

I can definitely relate to that with my pisces moon. I've always thought my privacy to myself is an aquarian thing. Much like what's been said here. I'm okay to share but only superficially, revealing my true feelings underneath takes a lot of time and connection. In fact I think in this case I still revealed very little about myself compared to the pisces in question 😛 but let's just say she's a handful of people to hear about my feelings.

It depends. In general, I don't like people knowing what I do, unless what I do is exciting/impersonal. My s/o asked me why my relationship thing was private on fb. I told him, I like it that way. This relationship is between you and I, not you, our friends, and I. Also against pda or things that openly express much other than an outward brick wall of emotionality (Hahaha, I laugh at how sad this is!) I don't like talking to people about my problems simply because no one cares and I consider myself independent, though sometimes I can't help it. I'm the type to talk about myself, but not about things I consider personal. I'm also the type to leave out details if I do happen to share something like that. Keep it short, simple, and problem-free. Though, one thing I've noticed, I'm very open with talking about my past relationships. I have a desire to excitingly tell everything about it to who I'm currently with, and I don't fully understand why. Currently, It doesn't make any sense to me. It seems, though, most I encounter hate talking about that stuff. I guess I should be lucky I haven't had bad experiences in that area or else I might be like that, too.

Posted by deezie
Curious to get the fish-tale on your own privacy levels. That is to say, information regarding yourself.
Do you readily share things about yourself, does it take a lot of prying; even with those you consider friends?

How tight lipped are you, and in what regard?

I'm guarded in the beginning. I have plenty of information about my self that I can share freely without worry, but the more important things.. the 'secrets' I only share when I trust you. I'll divulge the truth little by little, sometimes all at once as a test to see how you can handle it. Once you've proven that I can trust you, you get pretty much full access to the penthouse. All you need to do is ask or just look at me, give me a look of 'what's wrong?' and I'll start talking.

I don't like to lie so I rather say the truth or nothing at all. Betray my trust and you'll have to work for it again.. betray my trust too hard and you'll never get back in. Have a 'friend' right now in rotation who has betrayed me very much, she's feeling the lack of information or any update on my life. Commented on it even but I just cannot let her back in. It's tainted and it'll never go away.

I may be an open book to people who don't hurt me or betray my trust, but don't abuse that or you'll never hear from me again.

I can relate to what most have said, new spin:

Do you find that speaking in truth about the past and being open in that regard is a lot easier than speaking about how you "feel", or about the future? Not sure if that's clear.

I feel pretty open in regards to anything that has already happened, but if someone is trying to crack me open about where I stand on emotions, or anything from present time forward - I'm pretty tightlipped. I wonder if it's because subconciously I know how fickle-wishy-washy-noncommital-anything's possible - one minute detail can change my mind - I am. (Worst. Description. Ever.)

hahah ummmmmmm I totally blame my taking a while to make up my mind on my pisces placements, to be honest.
My aries moon will make me impulsive - and sometimes I let things out that I later regret (and moreso when liquored, but who doesn't do that - I guess with my moon though it's less of a choice I make and just falls out of my brain before I realize what I'm even doing). But for the most part I blame my piscesness for anything I refuse to speak about/let out...

Posted by ninjafish
I share pretty readily... But I do have sag rising conjunct a dignified jupiter, square my sun and sextile mercury. I'm sag-like in this respect - sharing in an honest, and at times somewhat jarringly frank manner. I manage to pull back sometimes a bit more than others, which I imagine is my pisces stellium at work.

I had a very severe psychological breakdown two years back, which necessitated hospitalization. I was basically laid out, raw, "deconstructed", and forced to come clean with regard to my deepest recesses; consequently I've become somewhat habituated to that level of candidness. I was honest and pretty open before then, but since that time it has increased seemingly exponentially.

I respect this HUGE 🙂