Problems with a Pisces ...can anyone help please?!

Hello Fishes, Scorpion here. I am seeking your input on a regrettable situation with an awesome Pisces guy that I started seeing a couple months ago. We clicked like nothing I've ever experienced and all of our time together was great, tons of fun, fabulous communication, amazing chemistry, both of us are slow to trust yet found ourselves telling our deep dark secrets ... yada yada yada. I was leaving the country for months and for that whole time we had an open relationship, but it looked like we were headed for something exclusive when I returned in May. Well, the morning I left to go abroad, I woke up early and used his laptop (with his permission) to print out my boarding pass and I stumbled upon some of his communications with another woman. He had told me he had no interest in other women and hadn't slept with anyone since meeting me, yet here was evidence he had lied about that.??

At that point, my Scorpion self was waaaay more angry about the lie than about the other woman, and I did something pretty uncool, which was to click onto his email account and read more. I found out he had lied to me about two things, both concerning other women, which didn't surprise me because I knew he had a history as a player. I stormed out furious about the lying, my trust in him gone, and wrote him the most vicious scathing letter my Scorpion stinger could produce. I went to the airport concluding that he was a liar and a womanizer and had every intention of cutting it all off, never to speak to him again.

Since then we had some back-and-forth emails, with both of us being defensive and hurt and angry; both of us apologized to the other for our mutual transgressions (me, spying; him, lying) and I said a few times that I knew we had no future together, so goodbye. In our last communication he was very cold and abrupt (even though he had initiated the conversation) and then I admitted I can't seem to let him go no matter how much I try. Since then I have heard nothing from him. The ball is in his court, I am not going to contact him again but I can't stop hoping he will respond to what I said and maybe we can clear the air and mend what has happened.

Any of you Pisceans think this is at all possible? He is very into astrology and has said many times he is a very typical Pisces so your opinions mean a lot to me.

Thanks from a humbled Scorpion with trust issues and a quick-to-deploy stinger.

He probably won't contact for a while, and you should cut him loose, a good Pisces is great and a bad Pisces well you will be trying to get over him for a long time. Get out now before your feeling become more intense, if he called anyway would you want back someone who lied and broke trust with you? Pisces have a way of making themselves seem the like the greatest catches in the wolrd, until you really get them and realize they arent catches at all. Don't be fooled, thetyare eomotionally selfish, capable of being some of the best liars and huge manipulators. RUN

"I was leaving the country for months and for that whole time we had an open relationship"
Oh? Some sort of casual, FWB type thingy?

"but it looked like we were headed for something exclusive when I returned in May."
Apparently not, eh?

Okay.. casual relationship (cuz you're LEAVING soon) was fine with you.. but you actually SET HIM UP to lie to you.. Most guys who are CASUALLY seeing a woman are NOT going to say, "Oh hey... I'm still sexing/chasing other women.. you're cool with that right?".. hell no, he isn't. He'll lose his nookie, so he tells you he's not with anyone else, to keep you dropping dem panties... Yes *gasp* a lot of guys LIE to their casual sex partners, cuz it's easier and cuz it keeps the sex coming. Protect YOURSELVES, ladies.

But THIS is very telling... "but it looked like we were headed for something exclusive".. looked like? LOOKED like? Then you weren't discussing it, you weren't planning it.. you weren't IN an exclusive, committed relationship leading up to this point.. at first, this casual non-committed thing was FINE with you... but suddenly, you start catching feelings, start wanting more, start changing up the UNSPOKEN rules.. and now HE'S responsible for not giving you what you SECRETLY wanted? First of all, you GAVE EXCLUSIVITY to a man WHO WAS NOT YOUR MAN.. GAVE it UNASKED, and ASSUMED he would give it to you too, ASSUMED he was not just feeding you whatever he needed to say to keep having sex with you.

You're a Scorp -- snooping comes easy to you. Whatever. But guys HATE being snooped on - he'll be pissed about that for awhile. Whatever. Lies suck, yes. I HATE liars.. but damn, girl.. you aren't his girlfriend.. why do you think the man should have been giving you what a boyfriend gives you? This isn't cheating.. it's poor communication, and you having secret expectations of a guy.. a guy who ONLY gave you a casual thing, no commitment, and certainly didn't owe you treating you as his girlfriend. You're mad at him cuz you gave more than he did.. big no no.. esp since he didn't ask for that by asking you for a commitment.

So you whip out that stinger and sting him and yourself. Huzzah. You tell him you know there's no future with him.. so why are you holding on? Whatever. It's probably mendable from his end.. but your Scorp trust was broken.. can you recover from that? Or will you just use this as an excuse to snoop and keep tabs on him in the future?

This does not bode well.

Posted by DeadRingerr
Pisces men, not people you can count on for stability or loyalty.

Says the GEMINI! hahahaaaa 😄

*shrug* When a Pisces commits, they tend to take that commitment very seriously. But they can't be expected to do that when there's no commitment.

His behavior within this NON-RELATIONSHIP is not actually "typical" of a Pisces male.. but it IS typical of ANY male in a casual sexual relationship with a woman and regardless of Sun Sign... and typical of ANY female who gets into a FWB thing, catches feelings, goes exclusive (UNASKED), doesn't have the guts to TALK about the situation but sticks her head in the sand hoping his feelings will grow, and just expects HER changing feelings to mean that HIS feeling should/have changed as well, and that he should be giving her all the stuff a boyfriend does and treating her as his girlfriend.

Too many women start out FINE with a casual relationship.. but get in over their heads, catch feelings, then change up the rules and/or get mad that HE didn't modify his behavior.. and most of them don't have the balls to have an open, honest discussion about it, they just expect him to magically KNOW and give her what she wants.. cuz she's giving him all the good stuff that she should be reserving for a man who actually cares about her enough to ask for an exclusive relationship, Pisces or not.

Let's see... my one and only account, 3160 posts since 7.09.09 or 881 days ... 3160/881 = 3.58683 posts per day.

Your latest account, 1892 posts since 9.06.11 or 92 days... 1892/92 = 20.56522 posts per day.

Who talks too much? 😄

I would say leave him alone. He's a liar and he's a womanizer. Would you want a guy like that? I hope not. Apart of you will always wonder if he's full of shit. Yeah, yeah you were wrong for spying but he wasn't lying you wouldn't of went there so. Meh

You know the truth. Going abroad will help you disconnect from him. You can do as you please but honestly is the biggest factor in a relationship. If you have an open relationship WHY LIE? It's stupid open relationships mean you can see other people. If your in a exclusive relationship how would he behave? Can you see him all of a sudden revealing the truth.

Cut your losses and take it as a learning experience move on. You both have trust issues and he's not helping you with that. He's feeding into your non-trusting part of your mentality. You can't have a solid relationship built on lies. I don't care who you are it's not going to work in the long run and then you will feel like you have to be his parole officer asking about everything. Who wants that?

Be happy you know now then later. It's hard and it hurts I get it but there are actually men out there that tells the truth. Seek out Virgos and Aquas. They are the most honest mo-fo's out there.

Posted by bkbella86
He probably won't contact for a while, and you should cut him loose, a good Pisces is great and a bad Pisces well you will be trying to get over him for a long time. Get out now before your feeling become more intense, if he called anyway would you want back someone who lied and broke trust with you? Pisces have a way of making themselves seem the like the greatest catches in the wolrd, until you really get them and realize they arent catches at all. Don't be fooled, thetyare eomotionally selfish, capable of being some of the best liars and huge manipulators. RUN

I agree to this but not all mermaids/mermen suck and are bad sushi. Some of us are emotionally giving in every way and adopt the feelings of our partners and do everything to make them feel better and share in their happiness. Some of us aren't manipulators and liars. Some of us are extremely honest but use tact with our delivery. If we cared about you we will think of your feelings before ours.

If you run across a mermaid/mermen who doesn't put your emotions first. They really don't give 2 pieces about you. Sorry just telling the truth.

I appreciate all your comments and are taking them all on board 100 percent. To clarify, Nefer, we did have a Friends with Benefits type relationship and "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy regarding others. HE was the one constantly talking about us getting into something more committed, I am much more gun-shy about a relationship and had to keep reminding him of that. He proposed that we be totally honest with each other so as to set the stage properly for something more substantial when I got back. Great, of course. He also offered, on his own accord, the info that there were no other women in the picture and made up this complicated lie about a woman he was friends with on Facebook he turned out to be seeing on the side. I had never asked about her, nor did she even show up on my radar. He brought her up, called her a wack job and said he had no idea why she was making suggestive comments on his photos (which i had not seen).There was absolutely no reason he had to lie about her or anyone, I would never have asked. So, in conclusion, I was far, far more pissed about the lying more than the women. I can handle any truth much better than I can handle a lie.

I guess I see all the red flags with this guy and I KNOW he is not right for me, given his willingness to offer a pointless lie (and he was so convincing, too ...another red flag.) but it's just that the damn chemistry was so great and there were so many other things we clicked with, I haven't felt thus way about any man in literally years. I agree that if he never gets in touch with me again I should thank the gods. But oh, man, if he does I hope I have the strength to resist.

Posted by AutumnalChick

.... which didn't surprise me because I knew he had a history as a player.

women who wear big girl panties don't align themselves with men who are players

Little girls trying to wear big girl panties are the ones who usually end up thinking players are cool


No pity for you .... you're laying in the bed you made

...and people who communicate with tired, meaningless cliches are too lazy and unoriginal to think for themselves.
Thanks for the feedback, everyone!

Posted by DeadRingerr
Players are insecure men that have issues with responsibility. Relationships in general.

Amen.

Posted by AutumnalChick
...and people who communicate with tired, meaningless cliches are too lazy and unoriginal to think for themselves.
Thanks for the feedback, everyone!

Wow...I'm impressed. Good job sticking up for yourself. I'm not being sarcastic either. Don't take no kind of shite here on the boards.

Posted by AutumnalChick

.... made up this complicated lie about a woman he was friends with on Facebook he turned out to be seeing on the side.

Wake up call ..... you are the woman on the side.


For some reason, you seem to miss the fact that you aren't his woman .. you are the mistress. If he is seeing a woman, then you are the snatch on the side.


Lucky him ... he has a woman and a bitch

I'm sorry but I can't keep quiet and ignore you anymore...my leo is coming out and I'm listening to jazz so I'll say this...

Your dude must be lucky p-angel he get is c0ck and bitch too. How about you look at your own fucked up life before you start talking about other people's live. Old a $ $ , wrinkled up, dried up high and mighty. Invest in some AA batteries and go to a porn shop pick up a pocket vibrator and have at it. Do us ALL a favor on DXP. I wonder if you husband was homosexual or if you drove him to be done with women all together after living with your ass. I wouldn't doubt if you drove him to be that way.

What's more screwed up... being a woman on the side piece or a woman who's too stupid to leave her husband even when she knows he is homosexual? Hmm. How about you take out your anger on some peanut brittle and wheel of fortune or maybe place your hate where it belongs. I your home, you soggy-breast, cow stomach, self righteous, old timey bitch

That's right I'm calling you out. Fuck it I'm tired of ignoring you and belittle people so you can get your rocks off. Get your rocks off to this bitch. We all know you beating up people is the only way your going to get attention since you can't get it at home. I can understand why your dude doesn't want to get it on with your old stanky ass.

How about this pull up your wrinkly old ass skin from your ankles and jump off a cliff that has jagged edges at the bottom do us all a favor and make the world a better place. I hope you have a cat that will smother you when you sleep. lmfao

I'm tired of everyone being nice to the bitch. I'm not doing so today. I've had it up to here with you nonsensical bullshit for the senile old bitty. I've got you sussed out bitch. Now get your life sussed out.

fucking old ass bitch telling people how to live their lives when this bitch DOESN'T possess the power to leave her OWN homosexual husband. Then calling people ingorant. stupid ass old cow. I hope you choke on your calcium pills or you walker gets stuck on a rock in the middle of the street while a semi truck is speed down your path... stupid cunt faced old dried up bitty. *walks off*

Now bring it...I'm fucking ready for you today. Or are you too scared then hope on as one of your many accounts and then pretend to be someone else sticking up for you.

BRING IT YOU OLD BITCH. It's so fucking on right now. Just because you were around when Jesus walked on the earth doesn't mean you can walk on water. Sort your shit while your cleaning out your depends.

sorry treefrogster and all the other posters that you guys had to read that. But it needed to be said.

Many moons ago, I was dating a guy for a couple, three months... not FWB (in my head, anyway!) but was dumb enough then to be exclusive with a guy without him straight up asking me for a relationship.. I eventually started to suspect maybe he was cheating on me, things weren't adding up, intuition, paranoia, trust issues, whatever you want to call it..

.. imagine my shock when I discovered that *I* was actually the woman on the side - he had a pregnant girlfriend I knew NOTHING about, cuz the man SWORE he wasn't seeing anyone else, his friends never said a word, and I had no evidence to the contrary aside from the intangible niggles! Coulda knocked me over with a feather, such a thing had never happened to me before (to my knowledge haha)... took months to get the bad taste out of my mouth, and my ego certainly took a massive beating before it would believe it REALLY happened. But you better BELIEVE I put on my big girl panties and walked away the minute I saw his true colors, refused every one of his calls, and both times he knocked at my door, I slammed it in his face without a word. I never talked to him again. He showed me what he was and it was unacceptable to me, so what was there to discuss?

So, despite her rough delivery, I can see/consider P-Angel's point of view there. I can see the Message, regardless of the Messenger. So is it now MY turn to be put on blast with a nasty diatribe about how I use DXP to compensate for how much sex my OLD ASS may or may not be getting with my man who may or may not be homosexual, tbird? :/

Nope Nefer...why is that a request?

BTW This was brought on by weeks of me seeing her slam people calling the B's, cun*s, telling people they have no balls and what not. Everyone either ignores her or glorify her saying she is a barrier of truth which is their own opinion which is fine.

This is MY opinion. If you don't like or think is crude, it's fine, but I have a right to show my disgust and cuss just as PA is able to show her disgust and cuss at others. Right. I find it funny how everyone is like I like pa because she lays out how she feels then get say it's not right for others to throw back what was given to others.

I can't remember a time I addressed you Nefer even though I have read your posts. So, I don't know why you think I would attack you. I have noticed lately you been getting into tiffs lately with others. That's your business, so I never got in the middle. I don't know why you feel the need to try to bring attention to yourself thinking I'm going to attack you, but whatever. I don't needlessly attack others for the sake of bringing drama. If you read my posts before you would know that.

I'm not going to apologize for what I wrote to pa, because it's been a long time coming. If you don't understand that fine, but I'm sure others see where I'm coming from. So have a good day. My problem only resides with PA not with you.

What an a-hole..... pisces will hide the ball when its in their court and turn cold. They will listen when you say to not talk to you because they are hurt, embarrassed... and non agressive

Posted by DeadRingerr
Peter Pan syndrome...most stopped growing emotinoaly somewhere along the line. I know of a few men that are in their late forties and have never been married and live with their parents.

My uncle is one of them he is in his mid 50's and just moved out of my grandmas house and got married. I want to be fair but come to think of it, all the Pisces men I know live with their parents right now and don't speak of moving anytime soon.

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Posted by bkbella86
He probably won't contact for a while, and you should cut him loose, a good Pisces is great and a bad Pisces well you will be trying to get over him for a long time. Get out now before your feeling become more intense, if he called anyway would you want back someone who lied and broke trust with you? Pisces have a way of making themselves seem the like the greatest catches in the wolrd, until you really get them and realize they arent catches at all. Don't be fooled, thetyare eomotionally selfish, capable of being some of the best liars and huge manipulators. RUN

I agree to this but not all mermaids/mermen suck and are bad sushi. Some of us are emotionally giving in every way and adopt the feelings of our partners and do everything to make them feel better and share in their happiness. Some of us aren't manipulators and liars. Some of us are extremely honest but use tact with our delivery. If we cared about you we will think of your feelings before ours.

If you run across a mermaid/mermen who doesn't put your emotions first. They really don't give 2 pieces about you. Sorry just telling the truth.

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The thing is they will lead you on, them caring about me isnt the issue because evidently they didnt care otherwise they would have put my feelings first. But the right thing to do is not lead someone on and hurt them intentianlly for you own gain. I don't know many bad Pisces who will spare someones feelings I think they would rather lead you on and play emotional games. Everyone is capable of being bad or doing bad its about making a conscious effort to do good. Thats the right thing to do.

Posted by AutumnalChick

I guess I see all the red flags with this guy and I KNOW he is not right for me, given his willingness to offer a pointless lie (and he was so convincing, too ...another red flag.) but it's just that the damn chemistry was so great and there were so many other things we clicked with, I haven't felt thus way about any man in literally years.

Translation: The joy of suffering with him outwieghs all logical thought, no matter how much of a of piece of ass on the side he treats me, I want him, lock stock and barrel ... because I'd rather be his fool, then lose him.

Posted by DeadRingerr
@Autumn dont worry, pay her no mind, PA is just pissed cus she's neither a dish or the side dish to anyone!!

Oh, I don't worry... I've blocked her, i have no idea what else she said, she can spew all day and I'll never know it. 🙂 makes life so much more pleasant.
I do appreciate the insight and experience and tough luv and feedback from here. Head is more clear today with distance ... and I'm glad Pisces tends to stay gone when you tell em to, Piscarian! Though I would like to meet one who's worthy of a fabulous chick like me... holy gods, that was good stuff even though it was mixed in with all the B.S.

Damn, tbird, you have one hell of a ROAR, remind me never to piss you off 😉

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by DeadRingerr
Peter Pan syndrome...most stopped growing emotinoaly somewhere along the line. I know of a few men that are in their late forties and have never been married and live with their parents.

My uncle is one of them he is in his mid 50's and just moved out of my grandmas house and got married. I want to be fair but come to think of it, all the Pisces men I know live with their parents right now and don't speak of moving anytime soon.

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Oooh. Kay maybe I don't want another Pisces ... :/

Posted by treefrogster

Posted by AutumnalChick
Oooh. Kay maybe I don't want another Pisces ... :/

i'm confused here. i thought you two weren't dating...

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We're not. I was thinking I'd like to meet another Pisces (one who's not a liar/ player/ womanizing mofo) for something real, but ... not if he's living in mama's basement!

I've said it a million times; why oh why do women get involved with pisces men. I love being a Pisces but the men suck ass.

I love when liars get caught and everybody says but you shouldn't be looking through his stuff. Hahaha.

If you don't have something to hide then you won't get caught. Liars always get caught, don't feel bad about finding out the truth. The fact is he was lying to you whether you were "exclusive" or not. He would have done the same if you were committed to each other, I'm sure of it. You won't get honesty or faithfulness from a liar. The fish got fried~

I been seeing one for like 3 months now, it has been draining. Decided to keep my options open, he lives with his parents to at the age of 46, no job, drinks, pops pills and smokes to much weed. When he's not high on something he is a total douche, I can only have a decent conversation with him when he is under the influence of something. I tried to help him but he doesnt want to be helped, so I'm out. Good in bed but that only goes so far. We haven't been talking as much as we use to, kind of weining myself off of him. Since I been doing that he is talking of getting out of his parents house and getting a job, thats great I told him but I would have to see it to believe it. Actually distance is key been doing the same thing myself and feel alot better, people like him can pull you down with them, without you even realizing it. I'm to old to go down that road. I tried!!



The more I read on this forum about pisces men I see a lot of the same patterns with women dealing with them. They all play the shut down game first off. They run and hide instead of deal with what should matter. Get ready it's coming! Sneaky, secretive, always some kind of hidden meaning. They contradict almost everything they say or do. Have no clue what they want out of life or the people involved with them. Most of them have some kind of addiction that they use to escape REALITY. And then use it against the people in their life who are surrounded by them. They live in an imaginary world, that's the reality. Relationships with them are completely draining yet the other party involved feels an endless need to save or be with them (fixers). These are the type of people they seek to drown. They play the helpless victim in life. Always some circumstance holding them back. One minute your their best friend and the next minute your enemy. You'll always do or say something that has wronged them yet they will never take blame or fault. Escape artistst~

Oh and living at home. WOW, just like mine. I accepted his reasons in the beginning but now I see they just can't face life on their own. Mine is buying a house with his mother, poor economy, save money, help each other out. Fair enough! At the time he was single and the economy fell hard. They have seperate living quarters aside from the kitchen. Surely a 40 year old man knows how to draw the line from his mother? That women rules the roost. Not only does she enable him a lonely life she is the host, the queen

Posted by LadyScorpP
@ Glamour

Bad Sushi, eh?

I'm as real as they come. Been dealing with mine a year now, on and off. Ridiculously lost in pisces land, LOL. It's in my nature to save people, and also to stay longer then any rational person would. Capricorn loyalty with some Scorpio possession on the side 😄 I feel a deep connection and love for him. Unfortunately, he's losing me. He said I was "The One" but he hasn't a clue what that is.

Did my time with a Gemini man for 20 years~ Way longer then anyone would put up with him.

@ Autmanlchick- Don't listen to scorned women ( the one's making generalizations because they made f'-uped decisions by choosing the wrong men). I don't think he did this because he's a Pisces, but because he's a play boy like Nefer said. It is what is it, try to detached and USE it for what it is.


*@ T-bird, I don't fault you for handing it to P-demon. To be honest, I am not sure she really exist, probably some 52 year old bald fat guy using the persona as his alter-ego ( did I mention highly disturbed?). So, kudos to you 🙂

Posted by glamour
I love when liars get caught and everybody says but you shouldn't be looking through his stuff. Hahaha.

If you don't have something to hide then you won't get caught. Liars always get caught, don't feel bad about finding out the truth. The fact is he was lying to you whether you were "exclusive" or not. He would have done the same if you were committed to each other, I'm sure of it. You won't get honesty or faithfulness from a liar. The fish got fried~

HAhahahaha! Agreed. I used to be married to a drug addict and had to be in detective mode all the time for self-preservation purposes ... making sure he was staying clean and not doing shizz that would get him (or me) arrested, fired, bankrupted, victimized by sketchy dealers, car impounded, etc.etc.etc. Had he ever been able to stay clean for more than a few months at a time, I would have been able to relax and quit poking into his shizz, but sadly, he couldn't. And whenever I would inevitably find evidence he was shooting up again, stealing from his job, etc. his first response was always HOW DARE YOU GO THROUGH MY STUFF! Yeah, HE was mad at ME for "violating his privacy" while he was putting my life, safety and security in danger with his addiction. Makes sense. (and no, he was not a Pisces, but an Aquarius). I have never minded any of my significant others looking through my personal things, because I never had anything to hide. I would freely give them my online passwords, my purse, credit card statements, everything. It's the people who have something to hide that get upset if you go through their things.

Anyway I hate being in constant spy mode and never want to be that way again. I could feel all those old, ugly emotions simmering up when I looked in the Pisces' email, and exploded when I had that old familiar feeling of smelling smoke, looking for the fire, and finding it. Never again do I want to be that person. If someone doesn't lie to me, he never has to worry about me looking through his personal items.

But this whole experience has NOT turned me off mermen, believe it or not. The dude I was involved with was awesome in many ways, enough to make me think that a *successful*, *independent* , *honest* Pisces dude (because there have got to be some out there) would be a great fish to catch.

Posted by ScorpicaRising
@ Autmanlchick- Don't listen to scorned women ( the one's making generalizations because they made f'-uped decisions by choosing the wrong men). I don't think he did this because he's a Pisces, but because he's a play boy like Nefer said. It is what is it, try to detached and USE it for what it is.

You are wise, O Scorpia!

Yes, this is an astrology forum and there is a common theme that goes on here in the pisces forum if you haven't noticed, LOL.

Right on if you find your perfect mate. I don't believe in perfect anything. People change many times over in life be it circumstances or what not. Everybody comes from a different walk of life. Shit happens, get ready! Doors will always be revolving, nobody really knows what the future holds. Here today, gone tomorrow.

I personally come here to "understand" pisces traits better. Call me an idiot, but I sure as hell see a pattern. Yes we all know there are players out there, no matter what sign. I'd say it's more common then not to find a mismatch. But it's rare to find somebody who deeply touches your soul. They may not always be what you expected, there is also a bad side to what is also good. It's not a choice to love, we can choose to leave but we cannot choose to not love somebody. The heart wants what the heart wants.

Some of us get more crap then we bargained for. Can't take the heat, well then get out. What a routine that is nowadays. Wimper off with your tail between your legs. Talk about a bunch of cowards. Everybody running from one relationship to the next only to fall in the same shit, lol. Nobody has time anymore to work through anything. Nobody want's too truly understand their partner. My way or the highway! There is always somebody pointing the finger to tell you that person isn't right for you. Their usually the first ones next in line complaining the same crap, LMAO.

When I say something I mean it. I don't tell you I love you today and change my mind tomorrow. That doesn't make me insecure or weak. That makes me a hell of a lot stronger then most.

Believe me, I know the good side to pisces. They are quite the charmers~ I happen to love one too~ We are not still together but were not fighting either. ~ We just are~ Who knows what the future holds.

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by DeadRingerr
Peter Pan syndrome...most stopped growing emotinoaly somewhere along the line. I know of a few men that are in their late forties and have never been married and live with their parents.

My uncle is one of them he is in his mid 50's and just moved out of my grandmas house and got married. I want to be fair but come to think of it, all the Pisces men I know live with their parents right now and don't speak of moving anytime soon.

I'm hoping you only know 2 Pisces, max, then.

Otherwise...omg.

Actually, how old are they? If they're all in their early twenties and they're going to college full-time, I can kind of understand. It's not like jobs grow on trees these days.

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What do you consider early twenties?

I'm about to be 26, I wouldn't consider that early 20's
But I'm only including the Pisces I dated/talked to more than a friend

2 of em are about to be 26 like me
One is 41
And the other is about to be 31

If I included my Pisces friends it would be much more.

They really do have an issue moving on their own even some of the woman. My cousin who is a year older than just moved on her own and she told me she was super scared
To do so and that if she weren't about to get married she would still be home, her bday is March 7th. But to hear her say she was scared made me understand more, she's not being a user she is afraid to take that leap, it's a very scary thing going out into the world on your own, you dont want to fail or struggle.

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Posted by bkbella86

They really do have an issue moving on their own even some of the woman. My cousin who is a year older than just moved on her own and she told me she was super scared
To do so and that if she weren't about to get married she would still be home, her bday is March 7th. But to hear her say she was scared made me understand more, she's not being a user she is afraid to take that leap, it's a very scary thing going out into the world on your own, you dont want to fail or struggle.

I've yet to see that day. Currently residing with one parent (Mom) because really.. there's nowhere else for her or I to go ATM. It's how it is for the time being.. and time will tell, eventually.

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No judgments here u gotta do wat u gotta do.

Awwww, crap.

I am the OP and after some very excellent and appreciated feedback on this thread, wrote off the Pisces nev to give him the time of day again.

Except in a weak moment today I sent him a brief message ...I knew he was having oral surgery today that he was anxious about, and so I said I hoped it went well.

No response and I feel like SUCH the jackass.

Goddammit. When am I gonna learn?

Thanks Intrigued ... I still feel stupid but maybe a little less so 😉