Room-mates With a Co-Worker?

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Dreamy-Eyez
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Hey Ya'll,
Just the other day, my co-worker whose also the Assistant Manager asked me to be the 3rd roommate to her duplex that her and her Sagittarian fiance are trying to get. She's a Gemini and lately has been doing some very rash things. This fiance that she has? She only knew him for two weeks then later they got engaged. Now she's two weeks pregnant, but has been drinking alcohol and smoking Black n Milds, while supposedly being pregnant. Her behavior has been pretty wild and then she wanted me to live with her. She's my co-worker, but I think that's all I can handle her as. Living with a person changes things, but to me it was all too tempting now that I'm looking for a 1 bedroom apartment. She was only going to have me pay $ 250.00 a month for rent, but then again. I see how her behavior is, and it's pretty immature. She dyed her hair black, driving drunk, talking about quitting her job, and alot of other stupid stuff. My answer? I told her I was going to think about it and let her know something today, but after she was trying to rush me into signing the lease, I told her that I needed a week before I tell her anything. I felt like something wasn't right. Does she thinks I'm some kind of fool?
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Dreamy-Eyez
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Hi Lady M,
Well, when my Libra admirer overheard me talking to a friend about going to a local reggae festival with her, he was all game to be there too. When I was out there, it was packed and it got dark early so trying to find him was like a needle in a haystack. Unfortunately, he never made it to the festival because his dog got sick. He wanted to bring his dog with him at the festival. After he told me that, I was like, "He was going to come alone with his dog?" I thought he was going to have a few friends with him, but I guess that wasn't his intention since he may have wanted to run into me. (It makes sense.) I simply adore this guy and I'm surprised that he still comes only to my line at my job and smiles at me after the gushy note I wrote him. Honestly, though with this guy, things have been kinda strange. For as long as I was working there, he has been consistent in coming mainly thru my line giving me that wide cheshire cat smile. It took some time for me to even notice him and when I did, I get this feeling like as if I've known him from a pastlife or something. (I brushed off that feeling.) I felt like showing appreciation to him for being consistent, so I gave him the usual things that he gets from our store on me. 2 days later, he comes back with a card that said, "You Are Never Alone" with a scripture from Isaiah 58:9 that says, "Then shalt thou call, and the Lord shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, here I am." That really shook me up because I've asked God for forgiveness in all of my prayers, yet I've spoken to him thru my prayers about this guy. To have my Libra admirer bring me this message really scared me and I wrote him a letter telling him of my reaction. I mean, something so small with few words can touch so deeply into someones soul. The next day, he showed up but when he saw me, he smiled again from ear-to-ear like a cheshire cat.I wanted to ask him, "What made you chose that card?" or better yet, "What made him think that I was lonely, for him to want to assure me that I wasn't alone?" He told me that he was trying to turn his life around spiritually. I can understand that from doing time and getting sucked into trouble with his buddies, but a message like that was almost like he was sympathizing thru an assumption of. . . You see, it's a bit puzzling. I feel like he's acting accordingly to my first note that I gave him, because I did tell him that he was "intriguingly beautiful, but I just hoped he wasn't
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I thought he was acting accordingly to my first note when I told him I thought he was "intriguingly beautiful, but I just hoped he wasn't shallow." I think he's trying to show me that he's deep and spiritual and not a shallow pretty boy. For some reason, I feel as if this thing could be mutual because his actions speaks very loud, but he says very few words. I've asked him about getting together, but he suggested that we work something out. My co-worker told me that a young guy with a cap and hair evenly trimmed at the nape of his neck asked her, "So how's my friend Anthony doing?" I knew it was him, and I was happy. I'm just going to be patient and let things unfold the way it'll eventually turn out to be. Besides, good things happens to those who wait. Dreamy-Eyez, out.