Dapadon
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Scorpio man only contacts me if I pull back. Why?
Posted by dixieI'm not chasing him. I'm just very straightforward if I like someone. Apparently the courting process and relationships, in general, are treated like games in today's society.
Why would he if you're chasing him?
On another note, being myself, I'm just getting tired of "chasing" him as you call it. I just hope he comes around more when I stop reaching out.
Posted by dixieMy Venus is in Capricorn. His is in Sagittarius. How does it play into all of it?
No...you don't understand him is all. Venus in Sag.
Posted by dixieNo. Not yet. We met on tinder about two weeks ago. Conversations with him are great. He just doesn't initiate that often unless I pull back.
Have you met him in person? If so how is your interaction there?
Personally as long as conversation is fulfilling, I don't care who starts it
You're on the back burner and he doesn't value you. He only remembers you're in his life when he's bored or he feels he might lose you. He gives you just enough attention to make you feel like there might be something going on and then pulls away. It is one of many emotionally abusive tactics men use to trick unsuspecting women out of their time and energy.
It is ill advised to continue playing this game. He is going to wear your spirit down and before you know it you will be angry and deeply hurt that he treats you this way.
Scorpio men don't particularly value the love and energy Pisces women put into them.
It is ill advised to continue playing this game. He is going to wear your spirit down and before you know it you will be angry and deeply hurt that he treats you this way.
Scorpio men don't particularly value the love and energy Pisces women put into them.
Sagittarius placements in general are bad news :p
Posted by dixie
Awe KK...I disagree
maybe the last part was harsh. I feel like the rest is true tho. Especially when two people are looking for different things and one person is too much of a coward to break things off. Its one of several unhealthy dating norms that have formed since technology has come into play in the realm of dating.
Posted by dixiePosted by KaptainKhaos2 weeks is nothing....especially when you're talking about getting to know a scorpio. ..jsPosted by dixie
Awe KK...I disagree
maybe the last part was harsh. I feel like the rest is true tho. Especially when two people are looking for different things and one person is too much of a coward to break things off. Its one of several unhealthy dating norms that have formed since technology has come into play in the realm of dating.click to expand
true, true.
Perhaps I came on abit strong, but I definitely think op needs to take note of this behavior. Especially considering its happening so soon.
Posted by dixiePosted by KaptainKhaosNah...people love to hate a scorpio man...that stinger is for realPosted by dixiePosted by KaptainKhaos2 weeks is nothing....especially when you're talking about getting to know a scorpio. ..jsPosted by dixie
Awe KK...I disagree
maybe the last part was harsh. I feel like the rest is true tho. Especially when two people are looking for different things and one person is too much of a coward to break things off. Its one of several unhealthy dating norms that have formed since technology has come into play in the realm of dating.
true, true.
Perhaps I came on abit strong, but I definitely think op needs to take note of this behavior. Especially considering its happening so soon.click to expand
I love Scorps doe
I'm just Ray Charles to their bullshit. ŽŽŽŽŽ I'll bit that stinger off n make me a sammich.
Posted by KaptainKhaosThe part about being "on the back burner"- possibly...we haven't met in person. The rest all sounded like big generalizations. I've met some really cool Scorpio men in the past. This is why I assumed this would be a sure shot this time around but maybe not.
You're on the back burner and he doesn't value you. He only remembers you're in his life when he's bored or he feels he might lose you. He gives you just enough attention to make you feel like there might be something going on and then pulls away. It is one of many emotionally abusive tactics men use to trick unsuspecting women out of their time and energy.
It is ill advised to continue playing this game. He is going to wear your spirit down and before you know it you will be angry and deeply hurt that he treats you this way.
Scorpio men don't particularly value the love and energy Pisces women put into them.
After reading everyone's posts and doing my own research about Scorpio men and men, in general, I think it's simply "he's just not that into me". His loss. I look forward to meeting someone better in my future.
Posted by Dapadon
After reading everyone's posts and doing my own research about Scorpio men and men, in general, I think it's simply "he's just not that into me". His loss. I look forward to meeting someone better in my future.
Mature way of handling it. I think you should consider what Dixie is saying too. I personally am not fond of men that treat me the way you described scorp dude is, so I'd probably do the same. Chase no man. There are plenty out there that will treat you right out the door.
Posted by DapadonDamn...she did the Pisces fade away with the quickness. Lol ha ha ha FYI Venus in Sagittarius are so unpredictable. Going forward wait for them to put in enough effort to make you comfortable before focusing on just them. By the way....I'm a Pisces sun/Venus in Capricorn too. That fade away is REAL shit. Lol ha ha ha ha LOVE IT!
After reading everyone's posts and doing my own research about Scorpio men and men, in general, I think it's simply "he's just not that into me". His loss. I look forward to meeting someone better in my future.
I told my Scorp boyfriend this weekend, either make the effort to give me back what I put into this relationship or leave me alone. You don't have to love me, but you WILL have to let me go. I thought he was going to break up with me. Instead he drove three hours and showed up at my house at 7am after working a 12 hour shift and has been on point with his communication, even after I acted like a brat. Just for insight, this morning he said, "you're being very sensitive, but I like it because you're such a hard ass and I don't get that sensitivity from you often". I was shocked.
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