Should I bring up that him not being a big texter bothers me? Or just let things be?

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allyouneedisloveandwine
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I’ve been seeing this man (a colleague) for 3 months now and he was very clingy the first month we were seeing each other. His clinginess faded a little bit recently when things got busy at work. I know I shouldn’t take it personally and I do understand him (he’s a very busy guy), that’s why I just let him be since we’re very much okay when we’re together.

Last Friday, he introduced me as his girlfriend to some people (I’ve met his family and other friends during our first month dating) and he brought up that he was very serious with me, etc. I slept over the same night, just cuddled before sleeping and had hot sex the next morning. Haha. The next 2 days, we didn’t communicate much. And it’s always like this in between days we see each other especially on weekends. Weekends he's normally just at home or sometimes out at night. We rarely plan things on weekends. Should I bring up that I’d appreciate it if he texts at least if he’s home or about his plans for the day? Not looking for a conversation. I just want him to update me if he got home safe when he's out. He does this sometimes, but not consistently. I’m just worried, cause he’s going home to his country for over a month.

*I'm a cancer, he's a pisces