Should I stay or should I go?

Hello everyone. I would love to hear your thoughts, esp from male pisces out there. My bf of 2 years is confusing me. I'm the only one he wants sexually, but he has lots of close female friends. I don't know if that's enough for me as I need more security but I love him, and trust him but don't want to feel like a mistress. Am I asking for too much? He is flirtatious and attractive. I'm gem, but despite our rep, I want this to last!

Thank you so much for your thoughts. I genuinely don't believe he would cheat physically but fear the emotional love that stems from friendship is lacking because he is getting this from others. I may flirt but he is the onlyman I want to be close to.

Zack, I think you're right, the flirtation is because he's confident. Cheers.

Thomas - I did tell him he totally flipped. So I know better now than to ask him for exclusivity. Then he started seeing these friends on a one to one in ,secret. Though he recently confessed this. I feel guilty coming on here but just wanted other opinions before it gets too much and I do something rash.

Posted by PiscesPosterBoy


If I were you, I would let your insecurities be known to him. Most of us are understanding and if I was in love, I'd take your feelings into account.

He used to be patient and was considerate. Eventually he became defensive and resentful and.couldn't.tolerate my viewpoint. He took it really badly. I understand he is faithful under it all, but wish he understood why it hurts me.

Posted by Femmegem

My bf of 2 years is confusing me.

I'm gem, but despite our rep, I want this to last!

Posted by Femmegem

I did tell him he totally flipped. So I know better now than to ask him for exclusivity.

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No! This is not a fake thread, I am so very grateful for your input guys. I think deep down I know the answer but in his defence I'm his most serious relationship - he literally runs from arguments or stressful responsibility, and I know its taken a lot from him too to work at this. It is bad about the friends situation behind my back but they are just friends, honestly. And I think its good he told me. I just have a problem with the closeness if its stronger than what me and him have.
I have my mood swings too, so in some respect we're as bad as each other and I know we should communicate better.
I realise I need to be more direct and not wimpy. :-)
I'm going to have to, or else we're falling apart anyway.