I met this one odd pisces guy on a dating site months ago. He asked me out after two hours of sending short e-mails back and forth. I didn't want to go out with him as he was a bit old for my taste (32), but I did put him on my msn just to talk.
He was computer savvy he could see when I would sign on as appear offline, and immediately offline message me. I asked him "how can you see me?" he responded "I can see you,you are online to me." When I would go and eat dinner he would send me messages asking if I'm still on, if I didn't answer after 15-20 minutes he would start panicking and apologising for whatever he did to make me angry. This happened with a few of his e-mails as well.
After two weeks this constant offline messaging I was pissed off enough that I simply blocked and deleted him. (I know, not the best way to end things with someone, but thanks to this site I know I'm not the only leo who just cuts the cord and disappears.) Apparently this made him freak out even more than before, and for the next two months I got a steady stream of all kinds of apology letters on the dating site. I would read and delete them, not answering. The very last letter I got was in January with the subject line reading: "Thats it!". I have never deleted an unread letter, this was my first. Normally I would feel really bad for not reading it, but this one time I laughed for the longest time.
I am aware that some guys don't catch hints, but is this panicking and freaking out "normal" for a pisces?
Serious commitment after two weeks of chating on msn? thats kinda creepy. Incredibly valued maybe because our countries share borders, and our cultures are similar but I can't think of any other reason why he would fall hard for a person he knows very little about. Thats a good point about the offline messaging, but still he would message the very second I would sign in while appearing offline.
I am not boasting, I have no need to. Another thing is I really don't have a lot of dating experience under my belt. When this guy reacted the way he did it came across for me as really odd and possibly obsessive behaviour, so I pulled away even more.
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He was computer savvy he could see when I would sign on as appear offline, and immediately offline message me. I asked him "how can you see me?" he responded "I can see you,you are online to me." When I would go and eat dinner he would send me messages asking if I'm still on, if I didn't answer after 15-20 minutes he would start panicking and apologising for whatever he did to make me angry. This happened with a few of his e-mails as well.
After two weeks this constant offline messaging I was pissed off enough that I simply blocked and deleted him. (I know, not the best way to end things with someone, but thanks to this site I know I'm not the only leo who just cuts the cord and disappears.) Apparently this made him freak out even more than before, and for the next two months I got a steady stream of all kinds of apology letters on the dating site. I would read and delete them, not answering. The very last letter I got was in January with the subject line reading: "Thats it!". I have never deleted an unread letter, this was my first. Normally I would feel really bad for not reading it, but this one time I laughed for the longest time.
I am aware that some guys don't catch hints, but is this panicking and freaking out "normal" for a pisces?