@cameragirl
19 Years
when will it stop?
"I have asked the higher powers repeatedly - to get this person out of my life if he doesn't belong there for a good reason. Yet he keeps coming back!!!"
Repeatedly?
To no avail?
::scratches head::
Repeatedly?
To no avail?
::scratches head::
Yes on both counts!!
After a year .....
I would just say, "NO" .. when he asks, and move on to a man who cares.
I would just say, "NO" .. when he asks, and move on to a man who cares.
Actually, I take that back .. I wouldn't wait a year.
I would have jetted rather quickly .. but, I'm a Pisces .. soooooooo
I would have jetted rather quickly .. but, I'm a Pisces .. soooooooo
This is just one inconsiderate and selfish man who HAPPENS to be a pisces. Pisces are polite and considerate by nature. This guy is an exception and giving the rest of us a blackeye. Take P-Angels advise; ***I would just say, "NO" .. when he asks, and move on to a man who cares.***
If he really wanted to be with you..........he'd MAKE time. And there wouldn't be any excuses again and again and.........Sweetie, sorry to say this but.. "he's just not that into you."
***I just always feel like an afterthought *** BINGO!! Your intuition is correct! Listen to it and act accordingly.
If he really wanted to be with you..........he'd MAKE time. And there wouldn't be any excuses again and again and.........Sweetie, sorry to say this but.. "he's just not that into you."
***I just always feel like an afterthought *** BINGO!! Your intuition is correct! Listen to it and act accordingly.
"How do you get a Pisces to commit to do something ?"
Generally, you can't. I learned that the hard way.
If you shade it in their altered vision of fantasy, you may have a chance. But that's assuming you can dig them on that level. Often times, they won't tell you everything going on upstairs because they're afraid it'll hurt you.
Generally, you can't. I learned that the hard way.
If you shade it in their altered vision of fantasy, you may have a chance. But that's assuming you can dig them on that level. Often times, they won't tell you everything going on upstairs because they're afraid it'll hurt you.
templeofjaguar I completely agree with you except this is not a relationship - it's just casual
The scary part is - most times he is very considerate and accomodating and chivalrous
my ONLY problem is this and his lack of memory. I basically gave up months ago and keep blowing him off until he asked me to go away for the weekend. So, I guess it's back to blowing him off.
" If you shade it in their altered vision of fantasy, you may have a chance. But that's assuming you can dig them on that level. Often times, they won't tell you everything going on upstairs because they're afraid it'll hurt you."
How do you shade give me an answer in their vision of fantasy ? LOL - I can fantasize with the best of them but not sure how that fits into a yes or no answer - I dig him on a very deep level but it's just casual between us. I just don't get it if he's not that into me why he keeps contacting me.
The scary part is - most times he is very considerate and accomodating and chivalrous
my ONLY problem is this and his lack of memory. I basically gave up months ago and keep blowing him off until he asked me to go away for the weekend. So, I guess it's back to blowing him off.
" If you shade it in their altered vision of fantasy, you may have a chance. But that's assuming you can dig them on that level. Often times, they won't tell you everything going on upstairs because they're afraid it'll hurt you."
How do you shade give me an answer in their vision of fantasy ? LOL - I can fantasize with the best of them but not sure how that fits into a yes or no answer - I dig him on a very deep level but it's just casual between us. I just don't get it if he's not that into me why he keeps contacting me.
"He will promise you the earth and deliver you a tiny square patch of turf. "
Why limit it to he? I think this applies to the female Fishies as well.
Why limit it to he? I think this applies to the female Fishies as well.
wow - you have all given me a lot of insight !
Bijou - his mercury and possibly his ascendant are in aqua. I'm not quite sure how not getting together would hurt me less than actually getting together.Well I think you're right - the fantasy of this is safer for me than the reality - which is why I like that it is casual - I'm not good at relationships.
I know he had his heart broken years ago and he does talk about it - maybe that's what is holding him back - but I have never once mentioned anything serious, never make demands etc.
So DePtHcHArG3 are you saying that in general that you or pisces are unreliable?
Bijou - his mercury and possibly his ascendant are in aqua. I'm not quite sure how not getting together would hurt me less than actually getting together.Well I think you're right - the fantasy of this is safer for me than the reality - which is why I like that it is casual - I'm not good at relationships.
I know he had his heart broken years ago and he does talk about it - maybe that's what is holding him back - but I have never once mentioned anything serious, never make demands etc.
So DePtHcHArG3 are you saying that in general that you or pisces are unreliable?
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I've known his guy through a friend for many years - he used to date my friends coworker - I would run into him from time to time
well about a year ago he asked me on a date. He didn't want anything serious which was fine with me at the time. We get along really well, have a great time together and I feel very close to him - when I'm with him. The thing that annoys me most about him is the fact that he will ask me to do things and NEVER get back to me about it. He's asked me to go to concerts, away for the weekend, out to dinner - none of which ever happen. The only thing that we ever actually did was go on our first date and he came to visit down at the beach one weekend. We also hang out at his house from time to time or meet spur of the moment. I have asked the higher powers repeatedly - to get this person out of my life if he doesn't belong there for a good reason. Yet he keeps coming back!!! Recently he asked me to go away with him for the weekend , but he had to check his work schedule first - I waited 5 days - finally I sent him an email asking him if he fell off the planet. In any case he had to work that weekend - which is fine - but just TELL ME.
How do you get a Pisces to commit to do something ? I just always feel like an afterthought - I know they need a lot of space - so do I , but why bother asking me if you have no intention of going through with it?
Any adice into the male pisces is appreciated.