Something Positive For Pisces?

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we are NOT weak and we are NOT doormats.

We are creative and imaginitive and create a magical universe parallel to this one where we escape for a bit of fantasy. What the hell is bad about that?

As for love, we love with all of our hearts and souls and give it 110% if we feel that those emotions will be reciprocated (sp?). What is negative about that? Sure, a lot of the times we love hard for the wrong person and it can be a sad thing in the end, but for the right person, we can create an absolute paradise. the female pisceans really know how to make a man feel like a man. He feels strong and protective with us yet feels like he can be himself showing his vulnerable side without being considered weak or inferior. thats not something men get all the time and it's a great gift to be able to be your complete self with someone. I dont know what male pisceans do for the woman but im sure it's something similar.

now does that sound like something negative to you?

okay yes im a little offended here by the negative publicity that we sensitive fish get... damn it, it's time someone stood up for us! might as well be me. just call me Lil Mermaid the Fish Avenger!
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"We're weak and doormats until we figure out how other people like to prey on our good nature."


So true .. it's just a matter of perspective, is all.

People who are harsh, fixed and in constant need to keep their emotions in check, would view the sensitive Pisces as weak because we allow ourselves to feel, rather than covering them with a steel exterior .. whereas from my perspective, a person who does not allow themselves to embrace their feelings passionately, is actually the weak one, and so grows a controlled exteriour to cover it up so nobody would see and calls it weak.

What people see as being a doormat is our desire of giving and being with/to/inside/beside/for our partners completely .. others who cannot give to a union with such completeness, will instead, walk over because they feel inadequate.

To me, these are positives .. we not only feel completely, we also give those feelings whole-heartedly.
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what kills me is after our supposed mates have called us weak and deemed us insignificant because we feed off our own emotions, when we "disappear" they find themselves feeling lost and alone, without that comforting, safe feeling that they had with us. Then they realize, oh shit, what did i do.

Now that's weak to me. The fact that you could take someone for granted just because they are in touch with their own feelings and then deem them insignificant, refusing to face how you really feel about them, alienating them until they feel the only resort is to leave you. that's weak.
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If a person thinks were weak and doormats because we will lovingly take on their distress, and they dumped it on us .. then if they consider this a weakness, then didn't they just use it?

How would one know we were actually a doormat, unless they walked across it?

If people actually took the time to listen to us .. they would find that we don't take abuse PERIOD .. we will however take on thier love to nurture in whatever way is needed.

If you love a Pisces and hand over your emotions to us to care for them for you .. what kind of disrespect would cause a person to then say we behaved as doormat for taking it? An abuser? Aren't the people who take advantage of others, actually cowards?
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people always think that we are overreacting about something. because in their world we are supposed to take their crap and say nothing. and sometimes we take it and take it and take it until one day it boils over. at that point, we are overreacting. thats not fair. if we have to take our mate's emotions and unhappiness seriously, then shouldnt the do the same. and it isnt a weak characteristic to expect that. it's common respect really. thats the thing, most people who deal with us and take us for granted dont respect us because somewhere along the way, they feel they have the upper hand because they are not as intune with their emotions. they think that makes them stronger. thats bullshit.
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I find that a lot of people are energy vampires and they prey on fish because they are easy to suck dry. the reason for that is once you have passed our grueling test of trust and you actually get us to trust you, we trust you so completely and are actually baffled that you could hurt us. the energy vampires take the love and energy that we put into them and feed on it. it makes them feel good to be around us because we build them up, support them in everything, encourage them to be ambitious and forgive their mistakes. but as DC says, the minute that we have a moment similar where we need someone there for us, we are too clingy or needy or sensitive and we are weak and pathetic blah blah blah, yet at the end of the day when it's on said and done, we are the last ones standing and they are begging for a second chance.

i know that in my experiences i have been depleted completely of my energy to the point where i didnt think i had it in me to keep going. but you know what? i always do. because fish are survivors. we appear weak and emotional and pathetic to some i guess, but we are always left standing. and i for one am proud to be a fish.

PISCES: We arent always what we seem*
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"I continue to read over the internet how Pisces are weak and doormats."

*wow, newbie astrology at its finest* i mean think for a moment; what type of an astrologer or astrologers would say something so insulting and disrespectful, in the first place; let alone think it; how 'absolutely' false, and headache inducing. Anyway, that's all, my personal take on it..

*peace* 🙂
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Message posted by: LilMermaid on 5/2/2007 11:45:29 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.100
people always think that we are overreacting about something. because in their world we are supposed to take their crap and say nothing. and sometimes we take it and take it and take it until one day it boils over. at that point, we are overreacting. thats not fair.

That is so true!

Then they're all surprised, like what was that—
That was me getting angry at you for being inconsiderate or trying to manipulate me.

We aren't weak or doormats. We really are just loving, caring, and supporting individuals. But if pushed too far, you're out. We can only take so much.