Sometime I want to just talk about my feelings without being criticized ?

Does any other Pisces feel the same way? do you feel lost in what your trying to get out?

Unfortunately it's the price of being a Fishy. You'll rarely find someone who genuinely understands us. We transcend the scope of regularity and we're wiser beyond our years thank to our old souls.

Who can compare to that? Trolls excluded, naturally.

It's just easier to accept that we're not meant understood. Like one of my fav songs goes:

Although noone understood we were holding back the flood, learning how to dance the rain.
There was more of them than us, now they'll never dance again.

We were holding back the flood, they said we'd never dance again!

yes

If you are lost in what you have to say, which renders you incapable of articulating ... how can you than make accusations that you are being criticized when people cannot understand what you are saying.


Do you expect them to read your mind? ... because that is what it sounds like


First, only talk to people who know you, and know your heart, and know you are lost for words. They aren't going to criticize you.

If you are being criticized, then it's because you're flapping your jaws that have no discernable words to people who don't give a shit.


It's kind of like this thread .... you're here with random people who don't a shit about you. That's pretty fucked up on your part, considering the beef here is that you aren't being taken seriously enough to be heard.


it's like bitching because your eyes hurt, while staring into the sun ... yeah, that's how stupid it looks


So, have enough sense to realize that there are only certain people who actually care about how you feel, and so go talk to those people and not come to a forum full of strangers to cry about being victimized, when you're not being victimized .. you're just being a dumbass in how you're handling it

Posted by Tashibaby
Does any other Pisces feel the same way? do you feel lost in what your trying to get out?

I understand you completely. But I think traditionally speaking we are so good just tempering everything, and being mellow, looking at the big picture and weighing our options...realizing that there is no point in moping around. But then again, a lot depends on your moon, environment and decan. But this transit we are in has allowed me to really put on a new hat, I am more open and honest with my feelings.

I can relate (Im Gemini)

Just know that people arnt going to get on with everyone, I mean !

Yes yes yes...ive just accepted it as time goes on.not everyone will understand.oh well.

But..hey, that lovely warm feeling when someone does! You cant beat it ! ðŸ‘

That is very true. However, the title of this thread doesn't appear to be the subject, rather an emotional reaction of being on the defensive.

The second sentence of the OP looks to be the actual issue, "do you feel lost in what your trying to get out?"

If you can't get out what you want to say, yet, your jaws are flapping, you probably are going to be side-eyed and teased.

Yes, a journal sounds like a good start .. unless you're one of those who can't keep their interest in it. I think there is a current thread going (maybe a week old) in where a Fish is talking about not being able to keep her focus long enough on things to sort herself out.

Most Fish exercise their creative muscle to get their feelings out. If you do that then you will be releasing a lot of the pent up misery of not being able to articulate in words ... so then when you do talk to people, the pressure will be off, and you won't be in a constant state of bursting.

Every Pisces is an artist of some kind. We have to be (see above), or we'd die from intense internal shuttering from such deep feelings being trapped. So, go that angle to relieve the pressure, and you'd be amazed at what came out of you onto that canvas.

Posted by Tashibaby
Does any other Pisces feel the same way? do you feel lost in what your trying to get out?

I just keep it to myself. We all learn from our mistakes (even when we tell our BFF and they don't understand or seem to forget). Talk to yourself. Tell yourself what you would tell someone. This forum is great to do that, but get ready to be dissed by TROLLS!!!!

Something happened to me this past weekend and I thank God it didn't result in a FINAL decision that would have been BAD. I actually got down on my knee and thanked God for the end results. We rely on "man" to make decisions for us, but it really is GOD that makes those for us. I attend mass each and ever Wednesday at work and I cannot wait to give the grace and glory to him when I say my "intentions" before I pray the rosary.

See! I just let it out and ya'll don't know the 7% of what happened to me this past weekend. I cannot even tell my mother NOR BFF for the sake of EMBARASSMENT, finger pointing, the I told you, etc.! I couldn't even rely on my BFF to be DD on Saturday (she lied and said she had to help set up for a party at the same club, yet we made plans days ago). That's okay. I don't need to ask her for anything else (not that I have/do), but being Piscean, when she'd text to go out I'd drop everything for her. Not anymore. We Pisceans learn from our mistakes.

🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva