stuck in a toxic friendship - what do I do??

sorry her moon is in sagittarius, not capricorn.

If you can't stand up for yourself, and have no other choice except to be prey to someone to whom you feel is harming you ..... then you don't really deserve any respect.

"No matter what she does to me, I don't say anything back and just feel pain inside."



People have to sleep in the beds they make ..... this is life. You are asking to be rescued?


You won't even rescue yourself ... what the fuck are expecting someone else to provide to you?





Furthermore, you having this victim mentality seems to be a theme all along .......... oh and, she's not your friend.

You said, "I think that if she acts this way to me, when we are friends, what will she do if we are enemies."

So, you think she is your friend, which she is not. Perhaps, comprehending "what" the word friend means, rather than just reacting to "that" you might think you have a friend .... is the first place you should start in getting your shit together ..... so that you will no longer throw your own damn self under buses.

Another thing you should probably need to know for future relationships, beit, friends or intimates ...... if you think of yourself as a doormat, then this is the energy you are projecting for others to pick up on, which means this is how they are going to treat you.



You get what you deserve ... what you ask for.



If the energy you sending out is signalling to others ............... take advantage of me, I'll let you .................... then they will, regardless of whether you 've known them 1 day or 100 years.



Lord help you if this is the energy you send out to a guy who is a wife-beater.

Oh man kick her ass to the curb. Listen, I've let myself be a doormat before, mostly because of how I was raised. It's not who I am, and after building up confidence I was able to stand up for myself. You sound like your confidence is shot, and that's not cool. You shouldn't take that BS from anybody. She is taking out her problems on you and you allow her to. People will only treat you bad if YOU let them. Trust me as soon as you stand up for yourself and not let stupid idiots get you mad over their little rants or whatever their problems are, they will respect you. Like P-Angel said, if you can't stand up for yourself you don't deserve respect. I don't treat anyone I meet like shit unless I notice they are giving me an attitude, but not everyone is like this. Some people will definitely sniff that out and take advantage. It's up to you girl, you are the captain of your ship. This chick doesn't pay your bills, she isn't a friend, she sounds like a selfish chooch and you shouldn't allow her to treat you like a child. You shouldn't allow ANYONE to treat you like a child point blank period.