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fallen50
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8 Years

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So I met a Pisces man a month ago, things are going well. I really like him a lot

He has not mentioned anything about his feelings towards me except a couple weeks ago to tell me he really liked me and loved spending time with me. Also said that he is not sure where this might be going but he felt good when he was with me and that I made him feel warm and safe in my arms. We have kinda been thru some things in the short time we have known each other, the day after we n\met I lost a very close friend of mine in a motorcycle accident, then just a couple days ago he lost his nephew.

He does not text much, but never lets more than 2 days go by without seeing me. He is very hard to read and our good nights have gone from Goodnight Beautiful, to good night my angel, then now it is good night my love.

Since I cannot read him I am unsure what to think, we are not officially a couple (I dont think) but again unsure.

Without actually asking how do I know what he feels and what he wants?
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Srslyscorpio
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8 YearsScorpio

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It's clear that he really cares about you and it sounds like he's probably in love with you. Just allow things to carry on as they are now and they'll most likely naturally and gracefully grow into a defined relationship. I've noticed that Pisces don't often feel the compulsion to "declare" things. I actually asked my boyfriend after like 2 or 3 months into us dating, "So, we're in a relationship, right?" And he was like, "Of course we are, I thought you already knew." Haha.

I did, but I just felt like it needed to be straight forwardly stated, lol, I don't know if that's a fixed sign thing or what.

But yeah, chances are he already views you as being his girlfriend- just hasn't been labeled or stated outright yet.
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P-Angel
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20 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

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Sounds like you're giving pets names way too much credit to begin with. Whether it's beautiful, love, baby, or whatever .. they're all the same in meaning - just a name of fondness. So, firstly, stop trying to make more out of the pet names than what's intended.

Second, you don't have to be verbally told how he feels or what he thinks. Already, you are trying to smother any chances you have at this forming naturally by trying to mold his intentions by words he speaks.

that's a killer that most women do to men and end up losing. It's only been a month .. a person doesn't even on what they feel at this point, so for you to be trying to force a definition is dumb, so stop it.



third, and most importantly ..... the typical Pisces will expect you to use your intuition. If you have to be told rather than use your senses, then the Fish usually recoils away regardless of how they feel or what they want. Every person was born with the ability to pick up on vibes, and the ability to feel the waves and undertones .... and the Fish will expect you to use them. If he has to tell you how he feels, when he's being obvious that he likes you ... then he will become disillusioned and swim away.
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Moonbutter
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Posted by P-Angel
Sounds like you're giving pets names way too much credit to begin with. Whether it's beautiful, love, baby, or whatever .. they're all the same in meaning - just a name of fondness. So, firstly, stop trying to make more out of the pet names than what's intended.

Second, you don't have to be verbally told how he feels or what he thinks. Already, you are trying to smother any chances you have at this forming naturally by trying to mold his intentions by words he speaks.

that's a killer that most women do to men and end up losing. It's only been a month .. a person doesn't even on what they feel at this point, so for you to be trying to force a definition is dumb, so stop it.



third, and most importantly ..... the typical Pisces will expect you to use your intuition. If you have to be told rather than use your senses, then the Fish usually recoils away regardless of how they feel or what they want. Every person was born with the ability to pick up on vibes, and the ability to feel the waves and undertones .... and the Fish will expect you to use them. If he has to tell you how he feels, when he's being obvious that he likes you ... then he will become disillusioned and swim away.
Good advice ?