When a Pisces man opens up to you

Hey all,

I've been on and off with a certain Pisces male for about 6 mo. We dated once, he wasn't ready for anything serious so we stopped talking for a while. We tried again for a second time and it was the same outcome. He says he wants a relationship but enjoys being single. I told him that there will be someone out there for him that will change his mind, but I didn't think that person was me.

He comes around now and again and we hang out as friends. I know I'm playing with fire because feelings on my end are creeping back in. We had awesome chemistry from the start, are extremely comfortable around each other, enjoy each other's company... etc. but it appears as if he keeps his distance from me emotionally. That is, until last night.

By chance, we ran into each other while out and ended up going home together. We talked all night and he shared some things with me that he never has before about his personal life. It was like I was speaking to a different person because usually he's usually very emotionally distant. He was tearing at one point, which completely broke my heart.

Today he became distant again, but I'm trying to guard my heart and keep my distance as well. My question is, what happens to you Pisces when you open up to someone like that? Does it overwhelm you? Does it mean anything in terms of who you're speaking with? Is he trying to "start again" with me?

Input would be appreciated! Thank you in advance!

was he drunk?

Normally if I open up to someone, ill hibernate for a while coz I feel weird after that

But ur guy seems like he doesn't know what he wants

Posted by LimitedX
just emotional toilet water

hahhaha. love.

Posted by BaitedFish
Normally if I open up to someone, ill hibernate for a while coz I feel weird after that

But ur guy seems like he doesn't know what he wants

I would agree. I Can put up a wall too. But I at least reach out to apologize for the emotional load I just dropped off in their laps. Or at least say hello. Sounds like he's not mature yet either. If you did get into a relationship with him he'd expect you to do the work I bet.. not much effort on his part.

Think about what parts about him that are attractive, find it in someone else keep it moving.

Hey guys, thanks for your replies. He wasn't drunk lol. But I agree, he seems to be somewhat wishy washy when it comes to relationships.

LOL emotional toilet water. Awesome.

I dont open up to just anybody. I mean i will talk to people but still keep important things to myself and avoid question. to actually open up doesn't happen often. I only do so to someone I am extremely close to and trust a lot.

So sounds like a good sign to me.

Or if you're drunk.... right?

lol nevermind - when I first read her response... I could have sworn my eyes saw that "he was drunk"

upon further inspection, I see that I missed the 'n't'

I have the loosest lips while drunk, and tighter than tupperware when sober.
And allllllllllways with the regret when it's the former.

I do talk a lot more when im drunk but its never anything of substance 😛

Its just a case of the rambles.

Well Im still as laid back drunk as I am sober but I tend to ramble on and on prolly saying nonsense. Tho that could just be my judgy virgo rising thinking thats how I am

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
I do talk a lot more when im drunk but its never anything of substance 😛

haha I'm an "Elaine Peach Schnapps" liability when I get booze in me.

Ask and ye shall receive...

Posted by Nemesis

missing in action is not an uncommon consequence. neither is it uncommon to go into a phase of "digesting" an experience. some need to let intimacy sink in. an overdose can be toxic.

it took my pisces man two weeks to digest and sink in, but when he came back he was worth waiting for one million times and all the sleepless nights. A real prince charming, ready to do just about anything for me, sensitive to my needs, very happy and fulfilled himself. It's like in the process he decided I was the one for him and everything started being very simple in his eyes. I guess I will never know what happened and when it happened

Posted by LeoGemini11
Hey all,
He says he wants a relationship but enjoys being single. I told him that there will be someone out there for him that will change his mind, but I didn't think that person was me.

Translation: A FWB without the committment at the present time. A committment with someone else in the future. The FWB offer was declined. No room for compromise. It was all or nothing with you. He needed another approach.

Posted by LeoGemini11
It was like I was speaking to a different person because usually he's usually very emotionally distant. He was tearing at one point, which completely broke my heart.

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He's using the pseudo-empathetic approach. He's hoping to reel you in without the committment. Listen objectively, offer genuine advice, and then keep it pushing....