When your heart is at war with your brain.

How in the hell do you pisces get your heart to mind it's own fucking business and stay out of the brain's territory?

How do you guys disconnect from situations you know aren't the best and destructive to your soul? Just curious...

I know we are known for swimming away and if your brain is telling you do so but your heart is telling you to just play the infamous martyr role? How do you deal with this inner war?

Generally you don—?t, it deals with you, but the plus side is that I??ve noticed that eventually even our will to sacrifice for another is grinded down. This is the point where others get that feeling that we just "dropped them out of nowhere coldly". People think it happens suddenly but it comes from something that's been brewing underneath the surface for a long time.

I do know a few Pisces though who skip all that unnecessary suffering and just codly place limits from the very begining. I must say I admire and praise their strength.-

Usually I'm the type to not care about such things that I truly do not feel like sharing on dxp at all, so I will refrain from doing so. Under normal situations I would normally just shrug my shoulders and move the hell on and not give two flippy flops and state such is life.

In this situation as much as I try alas I cannot. I don't know why this is the case and I have analyzed this and I have recognized my ingorance in this situation which has lead me to feel the way I do now. I now taking this as a life lesson and realized I have been living in my dream bubble and this illusion has directly resulted in a fractured heart. Something I promised myself would never happen again...yet again I'm left apply plasmic putty to my heart.

I feel like I must break all communication in all forms and yet that thought hurts more than the pain my illusions have brought me. I also recognize that if I do not apply this tactic I will be living in another illusion that I'm fine and can deal with something I truly cannot...not at this point of time. Who knows what the future may hold.

If the current events my life was cast from a movie projector and I was residing in the peanut gallery, I would state that I should of seen this coming and was stupid for my choices, for my own pain. I know this and I'm happy I'm able to recognize this. I will try my best not to repeat the same mistakes as I have done lately.

To be a pisces is wonderful, mystical, whimsical, utterly and ironically blissfully painful. It seems as though the pain we go through (by choice or by accident) seems to make us stronger and at the same time break us apart at a molecular level. I don't know why it's such.

I suppose that`s what it comes down to, setting boundaries at the proper place and time. Not selling yourself short by trading fact for possibility, a notion particularly powerful for a fishs` imagination. Whatever center of gravity has a hold on your imagination must have objectionable traits which prompt your brain to rebell against it.

It`s the "what if" that kills us, allied with the notion that our innermost being can make it happen.-

🙂

Posted by tiki33

Wise words.

Posted by Nemesis
martyrs in relationships are actually manipulators.....

It's true, the very fact that a "what if" exists ?_mplies one is trying to change something we dislike (what our brain rebells against) towards something we find more agreeable, supplicating through our suffering.-

Thank you all of you. You are all very correct and exile (of months and maybe for life if I think that's the best way) is the best elixir for this scenerio. I'm not going to lie it will hurt but I must and will do what's best for me...I need to start doing that. I've been feeling so strong lately until now and I hate this feeling of weakness.

You guys are also correct that I need to figure out what I thought/think he brings to the table and clone that with my own chromosomes. I don't need a man and hate the thought of that... that makes me want to set the world on fire. I just need to instill that within my heart more. I will have to build a cardiac empire to stand against him and any other tresspasser.

This has just been a horrible weak... just awful. At times I think I'm destined to be the old cat lady watching Wheel of fortune in a berkolounger with a hand-made quilt on my lap eating peanut brittle. Lol If that is the case... I can look on the bright side...peanut brittle is pretty tasty ;D

I cant comment about relationship love. I've never been in love so that emotion does not compute. I will add that as I get older I tend to think logically. My heart is in the backseat and has very little say. I know a balance is ideal but for most of my life I let my heart rule, so now I'm letting my mind take center stage and will hopefully find a nice balance with both as time goes on.

Posted by Nemesis

the rest is just hot air, like you are looking for excuses....

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and then came responses that brought forth egos, in talking about superficial bullshit, and that seemed to fit in with the OP's egotistical outlook

I'm sorry let it be and I appreciate your insight....your right in the long run it will help me recognize the red flags much sooner and not let my wishful thinking get in the way.

Oh by the way nem the reason I didn't put the details in it is because I truly don't feel the need to fill in the details just an vague overview...the ones who know the details are the ones I feel close to enough to let them know the details of the situation. I just felt like putting some details in to know how pisces get over certain aspects and how they deal.

If that made sense if not I apologize.

didn't make sense...jeesh...

I haven't heard of him but I'll def look him up...thanks Nem!!

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Posted by Nights22
You losten to the brain because it is smart and the heart is a retard in a helmet.

Are you sure you're not thinking of another part of your body, here? 😛

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Now we know what's on YOUR mind. 😉

Tsk, tsk, tsk... Scorpios... gotta love em 😄

Aww you guys are sweet! I'm still here. I think they yanked it cause Neptune was being risque....bs!! So I have to come up with a new avi. 😢

I'm doing well... well I've moved on from THAT situation onto another one where I'm like wtf really?! I seriously think I'm going to be the cat lady. I already have one so I guess I'll stock up on cats and peanut brittle. *le sigh*

My neptune avi came back, but it looks like my last post was swallowed.

WTH DXP!!! Who ever runs the techinical aspect of this site should be fired and kicked in the arse. Seriously!