When you're REALLY interested in someone...

What are the obvious signs?



AND??_where is your Venus?

Venus Aries

It's weird cause while I can be flirty in real life, if I'm REALLY interested in someone I will avoid them like the plague. I will feel completely intimidated by them, and not be able to maintain conversation/eye contact. I??ll just be a babbling fool.

The biggest sign is if I can't really speak to him, but he??ll always catch me *dreamily* watching him when I walk past, and quickly look away if he notices. And I will always try to find ways to be near him.

Everybody welcome😄

Venus in Pisces

I want to look into you and absorb you, be absorbed in return.

Posted by iceredrobot
Venus Aries

It's weird cause while I can be flirty in real life, if I'm REALLY interested in someone I will avoid them like the plague. I will feel completely intimidated by them, and not be able to maintain conversation/eye contact. I??ll just be a babbling fool.

Interesting. I would say I am one of those impatient, impulsive Venus in Aries types who just dives right in. The feeling of being intimidated comes once I've developed some sort of emotional connection with them, although I think that's more to do with panic than anything else.

I have to say, I love my Gem Moon when it comes to flirting/chatting to guys it works a treat, usually because even when I am nervous I can't keep my mouth shut. Most seem to find it endearing.......at least initially lol.

Venus Pisces

Obvious signs? None than that i can think of

Ill make a move (ask for phone number then date) if i cant do that ill move on.

So all those times chicks had intense eye contact with me in public places actually meant they were attracted? hmmm...

Is there any instance when chicks just look intensely into your eyes but it has NOTHING to do with attraction?

I was in a museum in Germany and walked into one of the expo. rooms, as I was walking in this chick surprised me by just staring directly into my eyes for a couple of seconds. The surprise of it made me look down, but then I thought "fuck that" and I called her on it, I looked straight into her eyes again for what felt like the longest time... 2, 3 seconds? Then she looked down and her female friend prompted her to go to the next room. I went my own way and when I was done seeing everything I went to the lobby, where I saw her, I thought I??d introduce myself, and as she walked past I tried to make eye-contact so that I could walk up and say hi, and it seemed like she was about to but then forced herself to look down at the floor instead. That was that :/

Posted by aquaj
In the past I have sauntered right up to a hottie on the subway and handed a note to him that read "Text me if you are single" right before getting off.

On my birthday two years ago I was feeling bold and tapped this hot guy on the shoulder in a club. We danced the rest of the night away and then he was my Valentine's day date the following weekend.

I dunno, I just take my pick and we go from there.

Oh I love that in a woman! haha.

Btw, venus in aries here.

VENUS IN LEO (MARS IN LEO too)


I just pounce raaaaaaaaawrrrrr..immediately! the girl doesnt even have time to react to my charming display of chivalry, humour and undivided attention. I even walk towards them cat-like and all!

If the girl doesnt smile back, then no deal though..I'll be gone as fast as I came, on to the next one 😄

I'm pretty overt when I like someone. I will usually just tell them and ask them point blank if they feel the same way. I dont want to waste time otherwise. I think it has a lot more to do with the whole chart though rather then Venus.

My game is no game😉

Sun Pisces, Venus in Taurus: I'll get really shy. I'm used to admiring from afar so if I like a guy I'll get really quiet (when I do talk it's stumbled) and I'll give short bursts of eye contact then look away and smile. I'll usually fidget with my hands or clothing i.e. scarf. If he's close I might back away a bit then get even more shy. Usually I'm an extrovert and give total eye contact. When I'm around someone I really like I usually become the opposite of what I normally am. Now the more and more I feel comfortable around the person I will be like my normal self...full eye contact and nothing but jibber jabber and jokes BUT I would be more touchy feely (holding hands, gentle pats on the arm or placing my hand on his heart). I will flirt by teasing...nothing bad I just not the batting my eyes and flipping my hair type of girl.

@xv2: I would say she was interested 🙂

Venus in Sag

I'll come right out and say it - actually, more like, motion you over (or grab you by the shirt if I must), give you a kiss and then tell you.

Posted by Slicks
Venus Gemini

I become more open and friendly, basically I turn my swag on when when I like someone. I read the signs, our chemistry and wait for the right moment before asking her out, without leaving it too long. If that doesn't work out, on to the next one and off we go again.

I'm Venus in gem too

The swag never turns off 😉

damn am I the only venus in taurus person here? Jeez...I feel left out and special at the same time. lol

Venus in Aries.. if I like you, you know it cuz I told you so.
I'm just that bold and fearless about it, like my heart's never been broken.

Venus in Capricorn

I find a way to get in with them on a personal level. I want to know what they're about and get to the nitty gritty. The deep stuff. I am very attracted to those who are ambitious or good with business. I'll try to keep connected with them by getting their number or adding them on facebook. Then from there I'll encourage going out somewhere though I want them to be the ones who suggest going out..I just gently guide it in that direction.