why are guys so confusing?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by shayshay01277 on Thursday, December 15, 2011 and has 11 replies.

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@shayshay01277
14 Years

pretty much this guy told me he liked me and asked me out on a date. I froze and hesitated because I wasn't sure if he was serious. later on I asked him if he was serious he smiled ,nodded, and asked if I was angry @ him and i
said no...then he continued to say I talk about you all the time and his friend got down on one knee and said its an honor to meet u. this happened last week.

today I told him after class that I needed to talk to Him *** keep in mind he was with his friends the whole time*** I was like drew I need to speak to you all the while he was interrupting me introducing me to all his friends. I said drew do you still wanna go out w/ me and he smiled and said no, your mean to me! he was saying something but his friends kept interuppting so I was about to leave for class and he was walking away so I called out yes or no...then he smiled and shouted never! and I walked away...was he kidding. ..and why did he act like that....please help!!!!

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@shayshay01277
14 Years

Posted by piranhaparadiise
he was showing off in front of his friends...trying to look cool to them...you know cocky

guys are so weird...i was kinda put off because i FINALLY got up the nerve to ask him about it and he acts like a d-bag maybe the timing was off because he was around everyone.

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@shayshay01277
14 Years

do you think it was desperate of me to ask him if he still wanted to go out...honestly i just wanted to know..and he asked me out first..

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@shayshay01277
14 Years

he's the type that likes to joke around...so to make sure there wasnt false hope..i asked and he confirmed he was serious.
when i asked him about it earlier today i wasnt thinking about us being alone...he was just there and it was an in the moment type thing..bad timing =)idk what to do from here on...im kinda put off he acted that way infront of his friends tho.

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@XV2
14 YearsPisces

It would seem like he sensed that you really like him, and the fact that you froze and hesitated confirms that. From there on he was cocky and played around with you because he felt he could get away with it. It would seem logical to let this one go, but these sorts of things are notoriously illogical no? 🙂

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@Robd
14 Years

Well I have to agree with everyone else as far as him probably kidding from the sound of it. I will say that it's POSSIBLE that he really does like and just isn't sure if he really wants to take it to dating (Pisces are so confused, I know from experience). I wouldn't really count on it though...