Why are people so needy for a relationship?

Okay I can understand some causal meeting of people and then getting on relationship.

But getting out of your shell to just shoot down some people for relationship....errrr....sounds weird. Especially when you start having problems with them, try to fix them up (and relationship itself) then self pity, fuck up, and dunno perhaps even suicide.

What the fuck is going on?

Are you all on drugs or something?

Are you talking to Pisces, specifically, or just anybody?

For some reason, it appears to me as though people have images in thier head about the ideal "partner" and "relationship", which is ok, so long as it's not expected with each new person. And that appears to be a problem . . there is no perfect person, or relationship . . only in the imagination of the brain.

So, you meet someone, they don't fit into your exaggerated and unreasonable expectations, so you begin on trying to change the person into your "Knight in Shining Armor". That person is a fantasy, s/he doesn't exist. So, instead of coming to reality and comprehending that there isn't ANYBODY on this planet who is going to be ideal for you, you just quit relating with them long before it's ever had a chance to succeed.

It's all in our heads, Haffo . . nobody is perfect, so why make out our imaginary "soul mate" to be?

Yes, the self pity . . what a disgrace. Even ones who think they are strong, fall flat on their face . . "Oh, poor me . . look what she did to me. And I tried, I really did. I did everything humanly possible and it just wasn't enough. Ohhhhh, it hurts so bad . . blah, blah, blah . . " Fact is, she couldn't fit the expectation inside the head of what you feel is the ideal person . . then bitch about it, when it's your fault because you expected her to somebody else, instead of who she is.

I know, Haffo . . I don't get it either.