Yes Domino, I do Exist

Yes, it is true, I am Ian's imaginary wife. I've seen you give shit to Ian on numerous occasions regarding his "made up" life, so I figured I would clear a few things up.


I am well aware of you and your "photo proof", so here are the imaginary Christmas gifts that Ian gave to me, his imaginary wife. You know, the ones you said he lied about.





I will not post a photo of myself due to the nature of my job, but I don't show up in photos anyway, since I'm imaginary.

And yes, we are indeed having an imaginary baby.

Finally, Ian really does lay imaginary pipe for a living, and he lays it oh so very well :-)

Posted by seavixen2
I just wanna know why someone would think you would lie about having a wife? It's usually the reverse...

beats me sigh why do people lie in general owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao.

OMG!!! This is hilarious!!! Not much changes when your gone from DXP for a while, I see!!!

Hi to Ian's "imaginary" wife!!! And congrats on the "imaginary" child!!!


CLASSIC DXP Moment!!!!

Ok Ian's Imaginary Wife tell me the secret...being a Virgo how did you not over analyze everything your Pisces did or didn't do? Maybe the young ones are easier?! I am actually learning to be much more relaxed thanks to your hubby's advice and a glass of wine!

Hello and thank you to everyone!

Curleymom3:
I must admit, Ian has had a major —mellow out?? effect on me over the years. I used to be —go go go??, loved being around tons of people, worried about EVERYTHING, over thought EVERYTHING and really truly cared what each and every person I knew thought about me. While I still do worry, think to much and care to much about others?? opinions, I am not anywhere near like what I used to do. Ian kind of has a way of putting into perspective what is really important. Because of his personality, he has a real calming effect on me. I really think we balance each other out nicely.

I still over analyze things that Ian does/doesn't do. But after 6.5 years, I have realized that it is all in vain. I will never completely understand why Ian does things unless he tells me himself. Usually I over think it, fret about it and then later find out that it really had nothing to do with what I thought it did. The easiest way to find out, is just to simply ask. The answer will probably be vauge, but it is better than no answer.

I have also learned that some things he does have no reason and that it is nothing to worry about. For example, I am very accustomed to waiting HOURS for a reply text from Ian. It used to drive me nuts! I would sit there thinking about why he didn't want to talk to me, did I make him mad, is he ok . ..blah blah blah. Now I know that if he doesn't have time to reply when he first gets the message, he will forget that he has a message to respond to. It had absolutely nothing to do with me what so ever, he is just a sucky phone person (no offense Ian :-) ).

I will never completey understand everything about my husband, but that is ok. It makes things more interesting that way anyway. I know whenever I need to get in, he will give me the key.

And yes, wine helps greatly :-)

Posted by sortilege85

Posted by curleymom3
being a Virgo how did you not over analyze everything your Pisces did or didn't do? Maybe the young ones are easier?! I am actually learning to be much more relaxed thanks to your hubby's advice and a glass of wine!

You don't, just accept that you guys are different and learn to compliment each other. If he cannot compliment you and satisfy you then leave.

Love is a game, you must play your cards right and if you can't then you wont be able to make it to the next round with them because they will disappear of you will grow frustrated and leave.

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I do agree that you must accept your differences and learn to compliment eachother. It's a fine balance, but it can be acheived if you work at it.

I don't beleive that love is a game though. I think people run into problems when they play love like a game. Love is life, there shouldn't be any "moves" or "plays". If both people are open and honest, then there is nothing to play, nothing to manipulate. In a game you are in it for yourself, you are there to win. Being selfish and winning shouldn't have anything to do with love.

Wow, that was great! You guys are too cute! I guess I am slowly but surely accepting as well. And the texting thing? OMG! That is exactly what I am going through, but like you, have accepted it. But still get sick to my stomach sometimes wondering if I shouldn't have texted him and now he is going to think I'm needy! Screw it! I decided if I want to text the guy I'm going to do it. Ok, maybe not as much as I actually want to, but ya know. I used to think he was a total flake, and he still is, but now I know why and accept it🙂

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Posted by Virgo_Innamorato


I don't beleive that love is a game though. I think people run into problems when they play love like a game. Love is life, there shouldn't be any "moves" or "plays". If both people are open and honest, then there is nothing to play, nothing to manipulate. In a game you are in it for yourself, you are there to win. Being selfish and winning shouldn't have anything to do with love.

... your husband is right you do over-analyze.

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lol

If he's going to get all upset over a few too many texts (I mean, as long as your not sending 50 texts an hour or anything) then he's not the right guy anyway. If I'm feeling needy, I'm positive Ian knows it based on the volume of and content of my texts/phone calls. He needs to know when I'm feeling needy becuase obviously, I need somthing! We communicate quite a bit with texting due to the fact that he works out of town so much. As long as your not crazy about it, text when you want to. Obviously, you don't want to text someone the same question 10 times in a row with no reply, but you know what I mean.

Flakes can be endearing :-)

It's nice to meet you as well Jason :-)

Posted by ianthefish
just her pregnancy hormones getting the best of her... haahaa

its just another ploy for domino to draw attention to himself....

classic really, he accuses me of making up things i say about my life, accusing me of making them up for attention, when in reality all he is doing is trying to seek more attention....

I'm stoked for you two 🙂

Ian, you've mentioned before you work with your hands and building stuff. Any cool projects you're planning on for the rugrat? 🙂

Posted by ianthefish
leolady what is that your rollin? a cadillac?

LOL!!! Ian... you would catch that!! Yes, it's an Escalade.

BTW... its nice to see your wife posting on here. You two seem so incredibly great together! Congrats on your growing family!!!! 🙂

I find it quite ironic, Ian that you say things to him to suggest that he's being an attention whore again, and what's up with him for it ...... and then create a personality in here for him to relish in getting attention.


You don't see that as an odd thing to do?



You attempt to put in his mind that you don't ((((( care )))))) what he thinks, and then again, this thread ...... in place to justify yourself.


I thought you didn't care?







Very odd .................................................................................................

I started this thread, P-Angel, not Ian.

I don't beleive that I have ever called Domino an attention whore and I have never said that I didn't care what he thought.

Obviously it bothered me that he did not beleive some of the things that Ian has stated about his life, or I would not have started this thread.

leave Ian alone, he can do what he wants...Hello wifey, Congrats on your bundle of joy!

Posted by scorpio_chic

Posted by seavixen2
I just wanna know why someone would think you would lie about having a wife? It's usually the reverse...

I'm sayin....! LOL

And why would anyone care so much about someone elses life? Why be so concerned to ask for PROOF? What the hell did I miss— Are you notorious on this site for being a liar in general Ian? Weren't people saying the same thing about that Diary chick, saying that she lied about being married and pregnant?

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I remember her, oh gosh what drama, she could not post without being attacked by someone, it was just something about her stories that didn't completely add up, I never thought she was a liar though, maybe embellished but man some went so far as to get proof just like with Ian.

lol Oh man! DearDiary was a nutcase! lol


I didn't know you were around in those days, Scorpchic.

i dunno, i'm still skeptical.

haha

Posted by ianthefish
this is a fucking war zone here...

and you foot soldiers are diminishing your spirits...

Yep! I never really understood why either. meh

Aww thats a nice pic, LeoLady!

Ian, my question wasn't based around whether your wife is real or not and it has nothing to do with intuition.


I am asking why ..... if you don't care what Domino thinks, that you justify your life to him ... because that equates to = you do care.

I remember your wife saying something to the effect of ... she's been around awhile and so knows the situatin with Domino.


What I find interesting is that IF she has been around ... listening .. then why is it that she's interested in the Domino situatin and NOT the Bella one?



Once it was pointed out to you that people are aware of how you played Bella, you flew off the handle. Then you defended yourself and Bella defended you and her and denied a relationship.

Then you and Bella stopped interacting as much .. which only proves guilt.



And your wife doesn't notice that, doesn't see that .... she sees Domino and actually thinks he is worth defending your honor over .. while being completely ignorant of the fact that you and Bella crossed an emotional line .. seeing that you aren't available to make this emotional crossing with a woman who isn't your wife.



So, I'm not surprised you would think I'm an idiot .. because that's how guilty people talk about others, so people won't notice the truth.

ooooooh Bella lol

j/k

Posted by DyTryin

I knew it... Pisces are a bunch of damn Players!!

Don't tell them that, though ... they won't believe it. However, it is true, they will indeed play a person, and you can usually tell when it's happened because the Fish will then become defensive ... as we see here.

Hi MrsIanTheFish and congrats on your little bundle.

P-Angel,

While I may have had a DXP account for some years now, I have not been "around awhile". I went a good few years without ever even coming to the DXP site. I didn't even know what Ian's screen name was until a few months ago. You make it sound as if I have been on here spying . . . listening to what everyone says. Not the case in the least. Even if I wanted to, I don't have the time to spend hours a day reading everyone's posts. I was aware of the Domino situation because Ian showed me the thread. We laughed about some of the things that were said and that was that. I started this thread more as a joke for Ian than to actually prove anything to Domino. He was out of town and I thought he would find it humorous. I never expected it to turn into this.

Seems to me that you are just trying to get Ian in trouble. Attempting to provoke suspicion so you can cause trouble for Ian in real life as well as on DXP. Unfortunately for you, I'm not the drama type. Your attempts amuse me, but that is all. My relationship with my husband is a bit too strong for a miserable old woman like you to cause any strife in my life. As for "defending Ian's honor". You can bet your ass that I will always be on Ian's side, "defending his honor" to anyone who threatens it, no matter how worthless and insignificant I feel that person is (case in point here).

We agree on one thing though, P-Angel . . . I'm not surprised Ian would think you are an idiot either :-)

Hello LibrasRule and thank you!!!