Advice for Virgo...about a Scorpio Man

Back again---Geez, Here I thought I was understanding things. I'm virgo and he's scorpio--we've been together 3 years--we live together. The Scorpios well-known sexuality/sensuality--not sure what's happened to my guy. I know that I never initiate sex and this is a HUGE sore spot for him..But Good God--now it's like we're seeing who's going to hold out the longest. To me, a man who waits 2-3 weeks--something isn't right. He tells me he loves me, he is affectionate--holds hands and hugs me when I get in from work etc..Says sex is fantastic but is tired of being the "starter" -- he's really trying to prove a point here and I'm getting fed up..and wondering? Know what I mean?--things were never like this before and now it's been like this for some time. Am I being irrational? I have a feeling you all will agree with his point...

I normally don't start things (im a virgo too), but it's not intentional. I'm just passivev like that. If the problem he has is that you ever initiate sex though, its not going to be solved by you not initiating sex. he probably feels like you are just agreeing when he wants to have sex instead of you really wanting to have sex. I mean, I know how you feel cause I'm the same way, but if you're getting frustrated, just have sex with him. and if you needed any other incentive, the two of you being pent up for weeks will probably result in the most explosive sex ever.

Maybe his moon sign is Capricorn (as a Cap I know that if I'm in a relationship I'm not feeling then I just won't give in to it as much as I would like to) - or his Venus (what sign he loves like) - it's possible - if you go to alabe.com/freechart and type in his birthdate and where he was born you can find out his natal chart and possibly get these questions answered - I mean if a Scorpio can get along w/ a Cap romantically and a Virgo not being much different from a Cap - I don't see how things couldn't work out between you both.

Thanks again guys. I've been checking in on responses. I truly appreciate the info. and advice. This has been a really rough week as my Scorpio lost his brother -- it was sudden and unexpected. I'm really trying to be there for him--ya know, Virgo's are great at "servicing" but I'm rough around the edges with emotions. I have to say, I'm proud of myself in that I've been more affectionate with my words and hugs, caresses etc... THanks all.