scorpio and virgo

I have a very close friend whose a Virgo and hes very cautious and I've never known him to rush into anything but he met this scorpio girl (who I dislike but I'll not go into that now)and he just told me they got engaged but they've only been together a few months.

I was just wondering if any of you have experience of a virgo/scorpio relationship and how well they work.

According to a couple people here they work out very well and is a marriage type material relationship.I don't know I'd be concerned about the few months thing too though but I guess it's one that works out very well so guess they have to see what happens.I will agree with what some of the others will say about virgos and scorps being very similar when it comes to personality and wants in thier relationships,never dated one myself though but picturing myself with one of the virgos I know and yeah they would most likely work out with me in a "love" type relationship.Never been seriously interested in one is my thing mainly,they are really good friends.

I know that in theory it should work. Maybe I just don't like her much and I'm being biased.

I can see why he(virgo)likes her though.Shes like the opposite of him in a lot of ways. He has social anxiety and shes a complete party girl, really sociable. I'm just not keen on how she acts though.Shes 21 and hes 25 and she just takes loads of time off work to make out with him.She doens't even really lie about what shes doing...she just goes "I don't feel like working right now" and goes and stands outside and makes out with him infront of everyone. I feel liek shes showing him off and he'll do anything for her so shes taking control over him.

This is all just probably my paranoia cause hes one of my best friends and hes the single nicest person I've ever met.I'm not kidding.

Scorpios may feel the company of virgos soothing. But virgos may not match them in emotional intensity, caring and above all passion. Scorps may find many loopholes in their behaviour which they may find disturbing.

"I feel liek shes showing him off and he'll do anything for her so shes taking control over him."

Maybe so(what relationship doesn't start with alot of anticipation to see each other and pride in each other;the showing him off part) but don't think it's control,sounds more like it's still in the freshness,passionate stage in thier get together,or in other words the lust and desire stage.Astrology aside cause she is the opposite of me too except I am social with people(astrology wise thats supposed to be odd),I just don't like morons so avoid the party scene.She would be written up,sent home or let go of if I was her boss and both of them especially him would be told to stop loitering,and do think they are going a bit fast.But even with all that in mind,I think you should worry more about why this is bothering YOU instead of how bad she might be for him.Cause in all honesty if I were to meet the two of you I'd be more likely willing to trust her just for the simple fact that theres very little I know about this chick.

Your first post was the "virgo" girlfriend wasn't deep enough for the pisces guy you were already making out with behind the now ex's back and now a scorpio your worried about treating a "virgo" badly and the only difference is it's a dude.

The things that are coming to mind is;in a more positive way:
a)You work with her and are really upset about having to pick up the slack.
b)Mr.pisces aien't doing his job in that department and your missing the passion from him therefore it bothers you to see other people enjoying it.

The not so pretty thoughts:
a)You want him for yourself.
b)Your not too good of a friend and expect him to view you as his center of attention instead of his girlfriend.

I think you may want to look in the mirror first to figure out what it is cause this post is giving me the impression your Mr.pisces has a reason to be jealous if theres an alterior motive for your not liking one of your "guy" friends getting married.

'Virgos is one of the few sign that complete knock Scorpios on their ass.'


Whoa, stop talking. Those are not friendly words. Why would you want to say that I wonder? Do you know Scorpios that way?

Oh you mean in terms of being cold-faced!?
Well, Virgos are impressively blank faced under everyday circumstances. But I think that Virgos are clear wrecks under pressure, which is where Scorpio actually feels more alive. Correct me if I'm wrong (I'm not).

Haha I have to admit, Virgos are good - just about perfect lol. Ever since I first recognized Virgos for being experts at hiding their emotion, I have always strived to make them show it; and actually, as of right now, I'm pretty sure I understand what it takes to do so - to get under their 'perfect' face!

But I like all my Virgo friends, they've never done me any wrong. EXCEPT, speaking of behavior loopholes... hmm

Brahn, i did not mean to hurt you or any other virgo for that matter - am only expressing my views from my own experiences with my virgo mother, virgo sis-in-law, two virgo colleagues and a few virgo friends - all females + three virgo male first cousins. I feel that these experiences over a period of forty years on a daily basis ranging from the most intimate (mother) to the other lesser degrees of closeness (ranging from childhood to the teens + adult stages) would be ample to form an idea on a general basis regarding a sun sign.

One can argue that there are exceptions to each sign characteristic. and then again there is the influence of the moon, ascendant, venus, mars, mercury etc. + chinese sign + numerology. But I have been VERY MUCH interested in Astrology since my teens and have known the zodiac of almost every person whom I have been in contact with. These experiences have taught me that whatever be the apparent differences between two people of the same sun sign, they share quite a few distinguishing features which may be outwardly observable or NOT!!! especially the INNER feelings - the emotions, passions and sensitivity + responsiveness etc., all of which are of prime importance in any relationship...especially in a romantic one to a scorpio.

virgogotme thanks.You make lots of sense.
I know that I get possessive of my friends and hes a really close friend.He does still make time for me though.We spend a lot of time together just the two of us and he always pays attention to me.I really just don't want him getting hurt.

And Tiamat damn your memories good! Gotta point out though I only made out with Pisces guy behind his gf's back ONE TIME!And she was a libran actually.

Brahn is pretty much right on the mark with Virgo/Scorpio. I am a Scorpio and my SO is Virgo -
We don't seem to have too much of a problem - we compliment each other pretty good. And learn from each other. I like his logical methods about things and he likes my openess and yes emotional side. We seem to bring something different to the mix even tho' our thought patterns are similar. It's a good match if Scorpio learns and allows Virgo to bring a leveling force to them. And that Scorpio can teach Virgo to lighten up - Virgos look at the literal surface of things - but Scorpio will bring a degree of depth to Virgo. It is not a combination that is riddled with conflict as Scorpio will gently smile at Virgos attempt to take charge, also, Virgo is not really afraid of Scorpio - he's curious and is brave enough to step up and try to pull the insructable mask to see what's underneath.

The Virgo that I see we have known each other almost eight years - we have been together almost four. It is a friendship based relationship....
and sexually it clicks also. Scorpios passion is what Virgo would like for himself. So that Virgo is in pretty good hands with a Scorpio - if she is mature and evolved. She will teach him and he will love to teach her.

I'm a virgo female who quickly became well....fascinated....by a virgo male. There was something about him (the scorpio mystique) that made me want to find out more. And he didnt' really appreciate that. After I had calmed down and he opened up a bit we've become really good friends and now i've decided that it'll be only friends. He and I were unbelieveably similar...he's basically an extreme version of me (didn't know that I was so annoying until I met him....LOLOL)

I think it really depends on the virgo and scorpio in question and their whole astrological placings as topazwoman mentioned. But when it works, it really is a worthwhile combination where you can be constantly surprised by finding new facets of each other even after years of being together. It is a nice combo and can be quite a strong bond.

Cancerkitten, it's really nice that you are looking out for your friend. I think virgotome is spot on...... be a friend cause that's invaluable....and let events unfold. Time will eventually tell what's the right thing for you both.

"And Tiamat damn your memories good! Gotta point out though I only made out with Pisces guy behind his gf's back ONE TIME!And she was a libran actually. "


lol,I took a test and my learning style is visual,so basically all I had to do was look at the screenname and remember everything I read by you.But anyhoo,SO libra,scorpio,cancer,pisces,virgo bl_ah still the same moral,lets just say it's part of karma when you mess around like that in any and all cases.Im a b/tch so I say im a b/tch theres no excuse for it,im a b/tch!😉

CancerKitten - I believe you will have to allow nature to run it's course with this one. Granted he maybe a friend and of course you don't want him to be hurt, but I am afraid there is nothing you can do. On the other hand - she might not hurt him. If you try to tell him about her - he's probably not going to listen. Virgos have to find things out on their own. They can be stubborn as a Scorpio at times. And headstrong. As I posted previously - if she is mature and an evolved Scorpio - she will be good for him.

In my experience with Virgo - you can only let them sort through things on their own - since their key phrase is "I analyze".

It will free you up from being in the middle of something that might backfire on you in the end.

I've decided you guys are probably right (don't let it go to your heads). I never really planned on saying anything to him anyway but I guess I just have to put up with it. Hes sensible and I trust him to do whats right.

PS.Happy new year! Mine was spent inside with a cold and a very nice piscean boyfriend and lots of blankets and hot chocolate.

What's dancing bread?

All I can say is SCORPIOS rock. I bet you'd never see a fucking virgo or pisces Bill Gates or Hilary Clinton. Beat that! All scorpios have immense driven energy to suceed in anything they partake in, whether it be a relationship or a career. That is why we are the most powerful signs in the zodiac, NOBODY can beat a scorpio.... not in any aspect of life.
-Aly-
"Don't mess with Scorpios"

They let thier egos get in the way too and thats coming from another scorp.Piss em off and they won't let themselves admit they're wrong when they are and end up acting dumb when that happens,they will find out by chilling out and thinking over reacting more often is where they'll find a truer version of "strong".Im a little more concerned with Bush's wife then Hilary actually shes a scorp too...

Hi Dancing Bread!
Hi Aly! ("Don't mess with Scorpios!" lol, that's great)


Yes I agree Tia, if you can piss off a Scorpio before they've managed to figure out how to piss YOU off, or how to not take you seriously, then you can make a Scorpio a complete asshole just because Scorpios would rather go from positive to negative in order to accomplish what they Desire, than to settle and concede to someone who they feel a need to damage lol.

But also, you others wouldn't really want to play around in that arena, by trying somehow to wound a Scorpio. Tia said a little while ago that all water signs (in general) are softies, and I agree - which is exactly why the most susceptible sign, Scorpio, is the most dangerous -- because, as the saying goes, a wounded animal is a dangerous animal.

I think that's why some people look at Scorpio's and despise us before they've even seen or heard of us doing anything wrong. People 'know': okay, either I comply/surrender to the Scorpion, get ignored/suspended by the Scorpion, or risk having the Scorpion as a long-term bitter foe...

I believe that even the renegade types who don't like to constantly hear how 'dangerous' Scorpios are supposed to be are wary of their steps around Scorpions, definitely the louder ones, but Especially the quieter, reserved ones.

I mean, we clearly represent Desire and Dread - what I mean by saying that is, whether people are involved with us or trying NOT to be involved with us, we're always about, we're being noticed, we're always there, we're thought of and felt, and we are not bypassed - which makes it hard for the people who try, cunningly, to 'beat us' (been through it all before, plenty of times, various scenarios, messy situations, you know the deal).

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PS - I love how all these new Scorpios are coming and infesting the board.. good stuff - we're growing a nice little nest hah. How fun..

lol,good thing you pointed that out,yeah its another scorp girl I know that post was refering to.Shes a really big sweetheart but she is more of the "c0cky" types who gets herself into some messy situations with men and then goes kooky when shes hurt by these same men.She needs to slow down and think things through before just feeling her way out with guys alot of the time,shes uh very,very passionate to say the least.🙂

Actually dancing bread,I think a scorp with a pisces would like that to be honest lol.Pisceseans like the chase game so yeah,I think thats the pisces and then scorp on top of it intensifying it so it's a mindfcuk for you so no your not completely normal,some would be pissed.I have a boring taurus moon so im lazy in that department and likes stablity and upfrontedness more than anything:/

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Haha oh, interesting, (and good to hear, i hafta admit lol)

But I also advise Scorpios to take it easy... just because.. we're too good at getting things done the way we desire them to be. I think other signs really just DO NOT understand the scorpio way lol.

Whenever I do things the way you just described them DB, I am mostly successful too, although I regret to say that in the process of all of it I usually end up making people who I really like, and people who formerly really liked me, waaayy too cautious of me. Escpecially Leos and the Rams who are just soooo outright and extrovertedly bold, that they can never really understand the psychology of a situation -- they take one look at me playing the 'obscured controller' and they start stepping around me. And, being me, I just don't like that.

So that's what I mean - Sometimes Scorpios, because we're so 'out-standing', are noticed simply because we move like we shouldn't be. We are good to blend in, but people still recognize the sparkle in the eyes.

Your moon is basically your emotions department:


The sign of Pisces is the essence of giving and self-sacrificing, and the Pisces Moon is one of the most naturally compassionate signs. It is not just a matter if a mental or intellectual view of suffering, but rather something they feel as personal, almost physical in themselves; they have the ability to actually feel the pain and discomfort of others. This is another side to their mystical nature and allows hem to truly place themselves in another?s shoes. This can apply not only to people but almost any living thing, and thus the Pisces Moon represents not only self-sacrifice but also a tendency to non-violence. It is rare to find that a Pisces Moon will actually be aggressive or hurtful, except in cases where the rest of the chart strongly counters their exceptional compassion.

ROMANCING THE SELFLESS SOUL

In relationships, Pisces Moons are therefore able to empathize and share their feelings and affections delicately and thoughtfully. In fact, they are ultimate romantics. In some cases this is strong that their capacity for fantasy, deep feelings and dreamy desires cloaks them and their partners in an intoxicating romantic opiate. This can create a private insulate world, where both partners feel safe and secure, shielded from life?s petty realities. When they love, they love intensely, and they are able to give themselves to their partners in a way that defies easy description. They are creative in their expression of love and while generous with little gifts, they love to receive them even more. Flowers, perfume, fragrant oils, anything exotic touches their heart and sets their romantic imagination in motion. They are sensitive lovers who are quite giving and thoughtful when it comes to satisfying the needs of their partner. They are able to create wonderfully conducive atmospheres for amorous exchanges. When they give their heart, it is accompanied by all the lofty feelings and ideals associated with selfless and divine love ? a good example of this being Joan of Arc?s Pisces Moon. Their love can be very deep, so deep that even their partner may fail to understand its depths. ?Still waters run deep?, never had a truer subject then the Pisces Moon.

Ideally, their partner should share an interest in their desire for adventure, personal growth, spiritual or mystical interests and, on a more mundane level, good causes such as charities. Their nature is to make a contribution ? to their own inner life and to the lives of those around them. In a real sense, self-improvement is a cornerstone of their being, and the theme of enlightment and growth through contribution, sacrifice and sharing is an idea that will ring true to most Pisces Moons. Their key word is ?belief?, based not on dogmatic statements, but on real, inner-life experiences. They are often content with the reward of virtue itself and tend not to strive for recognition or kudos from those they help. Their partner will certainly benefit personally from such a giving nature, but will also have to share something of the same interest to ensure harmony of purpose in the relationship.

Pisces Moons may be even more giving than they should be, as they tend to feel the needs of their partner even when they haven?t expressed them. This is a special trait that makes Pisces Moons desirable partners, but if their partner is selfish, it is possible that the Piscean will find themselves giving to someone who takes but who doesn?t give back. This can be especially challenging to them, as they are usually tolerant and can continue to give well past the point where they should say something to bring some balance to the relationship. This also comes from an insecure part of their character that values the other person more than themselves. In time, they often learn that this is not a good way to manage their relationships, but it takes regular effort on their p

I'd say the same.

Of course, Pisces and Cancer have very similar reactions when involved with Virgo. All 3 different water signs are pretty good for the conscious ol' maiden, in very varied ways, whenever they get their chance.

Do Virgos actually have any emotions..they are so godamn bland!

Virgos? Bland? The Virgo I know best is anything but bland. I don't think you can describe the Virgo guys up here (Branh, Shaka, and QBone) as bland either.

Maybe your Virgo friend is just disinterested?? That would be more like what I see in Virgos. They are polite but don't let you close if they aren't interested or don't trust your motives.

Scorpgal

No, don't get me wrong..I am not interested in a virgo guy..its scorpio men all the way for me..but I am just saying, they never really respond to any kind if excitement..its like hmm..whatever..

I have made a new virgo friend. A male. Let me know him better. Then I can have a better perspective of him.

Nah not really..I have 2 virgo friends male and female..both just don't get very excited about anything..whats life without passion..come on guys..take a lethal injection of fun..

Hi people, now all I can say is that scorpios like to think theyre better than virgo. thats all. they got this high-class ego that wont quit. virgos have quite egos but at least they get more respect from thw world in the end. virgos like to help people, scorps like to hate people. scorps just end up being bad mouthed by people bec theyre so toough like beef jerky. in the end theyre screwed.

All the virgos I know except for my crackhead aunt are generally very funny and regular little comedians for my group of friends.About the only difference is that its not "lets see how funny it is to drink tons of alcohol and puke first" dumb stuff that most people consider fun.Im not interested in virgos simply because it was never that type of friendship,we just hang out and stuff...normal,everyday friendships in short.

Branh..I respect the privacy cos Scorpios are private people as well..but you just gotta laugh every now and then..let ya guard down..life isn't all doldrum!..Yeah I am a drama queen, hell I thrive on drama..my two virgo friends are very nice people..they prefer the home environment rather than going out and having a blast..get drunk, make a prat of yourself every now and then..stop it with the perfection already!..lol...life is all haha hee hee..Peace out!

A scorpio and virgo is a good match.(i know from a long ago relationship)everything between the two is extremly .....no words...lol.but i can tell you to tell your friend this.

1.dont stay mad,never stay mad...
cuz she wont back down from a fight that easy,and she wont come and say sorry so easy.

2.always say you love her,they like hearing it 24/7

3.never ever ever shun her ever!make her feel left out or unwanted and you got a deep wound that takes long to heal

4.if she is mad at you and walks away from you just let her cool down,dont go instantly and start saying sorry or fighting more.THATS A BIG NO.it will just get her more upset.

5.anyman thats brave enough to cheat is diging his own grave,cause thats something that never goes unforgoten, if you cheat once its something shell neve EVER NEVER EVER EVER EVER forget.NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!and even if it all is oky in the end shell still remember be super obessiverererer and distrust with every bit of her and will remind you for the rest of your being....

6.alway kiss and hug her taking her by surprise is the sweetest>.

Yeah I have a scorpio friend whose girlfriend cheated on him. She was kinda cool and we hung out a bit but then he found out she was cheating so I did the sensible thing and hid under a table for the next few weeks until he'd calmed down.
I almost felt bad for her but then again you shouldn't cheat.

I've kinda gotten yused to this virgo/scorpio relationship tahst going on now. I know her a little better. I think we're both probably starting to let our guards down around eachother now.

A scorpio virgo is very complex relationship. Many stupid arguments on this board are based on the fact that nobody realizes that before Libra came along Scorpio and Virgo were ONE sign. Thus are very common and yet very different because they represent two sides of the same coin. No scorpio can top a virgo nor can a virgo top a scorpio. To put it better there is always going to be a better stronger scorpio than a virgo and a better stronger virgo than a scorpio. As with any other sign.

Quit arguing

When you get a scorpio and virgo match... think Allie and Noah from The Notebook.
They don't get along 100% of the time. They criticise and analyse eachother to the point that they can't take it anymore, and soon you have a huge fight over the tinniest thing. However, there is an unspoken bond between the two of them. and despite their pointless fights, as long as they know they truely love and care about eachother, they will always find their way back. In order for this relationship to work, they have to agree to disagree, and try to see things through eachothers eyes every once and a while. It will require both of them to bend their backs and meet eachothers needs halfway. The fire will last as long as they provide it with some TLC.

"think Allie and Noah from The Notebook."

Or Mac & PC from the those Apple commercials.

Hope you guys can figure out who the cool Mac is, and who the nerdy PC is.

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Indeed...because the characters and the actors themselves, are somehow one in the same.

Man! This thread is a golden oldie! I didn't find DXP until FEB 2006. It is weird to read stuff like:

"I have a very close friend whose a Virgo and hes very cautious and I've never known him to rush into anything but he met this scorpio girl (who I dislike but I'll not go into that now)and he just told me they got engaged but they've only been together a few months."

"According to a couple people here they work out very well and is a marriage type material relationship."

"I mean, we clearly represent Desire and Dread..."

"Id say Scorpio is the only sign that can awake emotions and feelings Virgo never thought he had.." [Shaka2, of course!]

"My dad is a virgo and he was seeing a scorpio woman for a few months too and they got married pretty quickly...It was weird, he usually doesn't do stuff like that either...hmmm there must be something to the virgo/scorpio pairing huh!"

Some of these comments make my own experiences with a Scorpio seem, well, typical. Hmph! And I thought we were special!

Anyway, maybe Debra wasn't setting the "fast pace" during our courtship like I claimed she was...

this is interesting. I'm a virgo girl and am currently with a scorpio guy. our personalites definitely mesh well together and we share comfortable silences which I find soothing :] however, he's on the cusp of scorpio/sagittarius but posseses the qualities and characteristics that scorpios own... especially that hypnotiq gaze ahhh he's sensitive at heart and will retaliate when he feels threatened. so mysterious I feel like he keeps dark secrets from me. I don't like showing emotion and he relies on nothing but so I learn a lot from him. scorpio guy + virgo girl = true love :]

Roxi: "scorp/sag cuspers are sooper dooper sexy."

Ooooooohhhhhhhhh yeah! Got one of those myself - November 20th ScorpGal with bits of Saggy here & there to make it really interesting...

She possesses some of these Saggy traits...

* can be deceived in romance, but is rarely misled in other areas of life
* enjoys taking risks, both physical and intellectual
* is often unconventional in relationships
* sticks by her own very clear moral standards

When she's with my original Scorp daughter (an October 29th version), it's fairly easy to see both the similarities and the differences. Can't wait to see how our Scorp Twins turn out -- how close to the Typical Mold they'll be...

I miss my scorp dearly 😢

***Boy, you sure don't know Virgos do you. Virgos don't need emotional intensity, since they are imprenetrable to begin with anyway. Scorpios can't outplay Virgos. Virgos is one of the few sign that complete knock Scorpios on their ass.***

Hmmm, my first love was a virgo and years after we broke up he still was crazy about me. I loved him, but there was a lack of passion and I was a young scorp so I guess the grass looked greener. It was for awhile, but the virgo and I stayed close even after the breakup it was a soothing relationship during and after.

***I like November Scorpios better than the October ones ***

😢... Sooooo....

***I miss my scorp dearly***

Awww... Virgos always do... LOL!!!

Best decision I've ever made after a string of psychotic morons.

We travel, we screw and we make ribald jokes.

Virgos will be the facilitator to the Scorpio in most cases.
Scorpio will have ideas, Virgo will make plans.
Scorpio will have a doubt, Virgo will evaluate.
Virgo will have an identity crisis, Scorpio will have insight (as will most Pisceans).
Virgo will have stress, Scorpio will engulf it with a shock absorber (and vice versa when Virgo dissects Scorpio's fears without making them feel attacked)

Atlantic Myst: Hmmmm... I'm a Virgo/Libra Cusper with Taurus Moon and Scorpio Rising. My Scorp/Sag Cusper has a Leo Moon and Taurus Rising. Crazy!! You're a Gemini/Cancer Cusper with a Scorp/Sag Cusper... Crazier still!

What's with all these Cusper Romances??

generald...

Amen!! to your first statement. Uh.... — to your second statement. (My Scorp is way to dainty for the ribald jokes.)

Your Scorp & Virgo bullets are right on target (I know, bad pun!). This really is an amazing pairing -- and one that doesn't seem to get as much press as it should. Not flashy. Just sincerely passionate and enduring.

Queenscorpio: "Hmmm, my first love was a virgo and years after we broke up he still was crazy about me."

I'm not surprised. Us VirGuys can get really obsessive & possessive of our ScorpGals. (We know a Good Thang when we got it!)

Dyar: "I'm not surprised. Us VirGuys can get really obsessive & possessive of our ScorpGals. (We know a Good Thang when we got it!)"

Psssst.....c'mover here, we need to talk.....tell me mistakes to avoid during the courtship?

::extends secret handshake::

DS: A little backstory is in order.

I have a very aggressive father- Scorp with Gemini rising and Mercury in Sag. He has always been a sucker for bold & dirty jokes.

My Scorpio is on a cusp with Sagittarius to begin with (Sun nearly the exact degree of my Moon).
His moon is 1st house Aquarius/Pisces. Top it off with a dollop of Mercury 9th house Scorpio, and Venus 10th house Sag...

You do the math!

***I'm not surprised. Us VirGuys can get really obsessive & possessive of our ScorpGals. (We know a Good Thang when we got it!)***

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