Advice please

Hi. This is my first post in here and I am needing an advice..
I'm in a confused state right now.
My boyfriend has been so distant lately , we barely talk anymore unlike before and I don't know what's wrong or what's going on with him.
And while this is happening, I just found out that my ex is living together with his new girl (not that I should care about anymore) but if I were to be honest to myself, I must admit that it hurt me somehow
knowing that everything's going well with him and the girl. I don't like feeling this. I should be happy for the both of them and move on with my life.
To make my story more complicated, I just found out too that the guy I liked a year ago will be working with me in the next two months. We were really okay when we said goodbye to each other last year since we're going back to our own hometowns and then we just lost contact. I am really not sure how to react when he comes because everyone has started making a wry big deal out of his arrival in the next days. They've been teasing me about him..and I just put on my poker face.

But deep inside me, I am so confused because I clearly am in a relationship right now , and I think, I need my boyfriend now more than ever just to assure me that he's here for me. I wanna be with him. But I'm not sure what happens in the next days if he continues to disappear on me and the guy is always around again.. It will be tragic. Also, I don't know why I am hurting about my ex ..is it because he is happy and I am not??!

Oh God..when it rains , it just pours BIGTIME. 😢

Posted by geminicandle
Forget your ex, your present, and your future. Focus on you right NOW.

So, should I break up with my boyfriend? :/

I love him. I do..but I don't feel I'm getting it from him. He's hidden in layers and I'm feeling exhausted peeling each one by one.
He tells me he loves me and misses me but that's all. Then he starts disappearing again. Lol!

I really wanna make us work but it takes the effort of two people to do it..

Posted by whereami

.... I'm not sure what happens in the next days if he continues to disappear on me and the guy is always around again.. It will be tragic.

:::: raises eyebrows ::::

Posted by geminicandle
Forget your ex, your present, and your future. Focus on you right NOW.

yep.
spoken like a true diva.
when the boys get your head spinning, leave them all alone for a bit and focus on you.