Cheater characteristics?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Cbo on Tuesday, May 14, 2013 and has 8 replies.

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@TheLadyScorpio
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by s4nd
insecurity in the natal chart.

In addition one or a combination of self-hate, self-loathe, lack of self-esteem, minimal self-confidence, manipulative, boredom, possibly anger, baggage (including traumatic past experiences), was once abused, or an abuse, a user, egocentric...and so forth.

It could be one and a million possibilities really.

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@Xin
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Really pay attention to the following:

How they speak about/treat:

-Their exes (Look out for the stories about victimization and how their exes were so terrible but never take responsibility for their part in the breakup)

-Family (Especially their Mother/Father)

-Animals

-Children

-Strangers (Especially people that work in the service industry)
I know the one above may seem strange but you can tell a shit ton about someone and how they treat people in the service industry.

There are several reasons I know that some of these might not be a direct qualification for cheaters but you would be very surprised. One of my best talents (through an ass ton of trials and tribulations) is learning to listen/communicate/investigate (Gemini's are awesome at that) and reading people very quickly. Normally one of these above points to something much more. Like a domino effect.

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@aquapiscescusp
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I think cheaters have a deep void that needs to be filled. They might spend a lifetime searching to fill it unless they come to understand the motives of their actions/behavior.

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@bkbella86
15 Years5,000+ PostsAries

yea its hard to say as ligeia mentioned....anyone can be capable...even if they had a great relationship with their parents or love animals or all that good stuff

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