Am I an Idiot ?

There's a guy ( I don't know his sign)that claims to have been watching me for about three years ? last November, he asked for my number, I declined to give it to him because I don't usually give my number out. Plus, I didn't know enough about him.

Over the past few months, I have a pretty good idea about his character because our conversations, I felt more comfortable.

So April 21 (this past Monday), I felt compelled to give my number to him my number, I thought about the whole weekend (LOL), so Monday, I decided to do it.

Since I knew he asked for it before, my excuse was, ?since we are transferring to the same area (for school), it would be nice to talk to someone I know.?

He seemed glad, to have my number, BUT its Wednesday and I haven't heard from him.

Is this a sign that he only wanted my number to see if he could get it? Or am I making to much of this?

"he is probably just waiting until end of week to call so he doesn't seem desperate"

I agree, especially the last time he asked for your number you declined to give it to him and that might have hurt him a little bit..
Be patient I'm sure he will contact you soon.

*rolls eyes* back at MercInAries LOL,

Okay, I will admit, I don't usually give my number out but when I do I get a call from the guy either a few hours afterwards or a day after.

I agree, especially the last time he asked for your number you declined to give it to him and that might have hurt him a little bit..

Hi Abbeyness,

I was afraid to give my number to him because ... if things didn't work out between us, then I still may have to see him -- I work for the Physical Ed. Dept on my campus and he worksout there three days a week. He seems like a nice guy, but I've been fooled before and I just had my guard up. Now, why did I change my mind? I'm still puzzled about that.

try not make too big of a deal out of this...he is probably just waiting until end of week to call so he doesn't seem desperate...even if he won't call, so what you gave him your number. i mean just treat it as you gave it out to make a new friend no big deal.

It's my astro twin, Hello Sagi 😄

Usually I don't make a big deal about these kind of things, but there's something about this man that's has my mind spinning around and around LOL!!! This all just happened like three days ago! He fell on my mind and something in my inner being pushed me to give him my freaking number. I just don't want to feel like an idiot because I didn't give it to him when he asked for it last semester.

Hahaha, my Virgo friend at work calls him a beautiful man LOL!!!!!!! and my virgo friend is a guy 😆. That's so odd because I didn't really think about the guy's looks today ... yeah, he's about 6 foot, has a stocky build, brown hair, and greenish eyes.

Hahah, I didn't even think about this until today .... wow, he is something to look at ... oh know, I gave my number to a man who looks like THAT! Oh dear ...

yes.

mr. scorp and i dropped by a club to dance last Fri night. he didn't know much about the steps/moves so i was leading him. 2 women (dance instructors) came by at the end of the night to teach us or rather to teach him cuz they just stared at him and held his hands lol. they told him "awww all you need to do is to get comfortable with your steps and yours moves and she (-->me) will follow you". he just stood there thinking and finally ulterred "but... the challenge is she usually don't just follow my lead..."... i was laughing so hard inside ... anyway i truely felt grateful that those dance instructors came to us and showed us (him) moves. donno what it is. he has a cute dorky way to make me feel not jealous at all.

Awwww Sagigoat, that sounds soooo cute!!! I don't know how to dance either so I understand what he was going through. It's wonderful that he makes you feel secure enough not to feel jealous, especially if the girls were flirting with him. I never had a guy like that ... the virgo was like that, but that relationship was a looooong time ago -- many moons ago.

You must be pretty good looking yourself if you had attracted such a guy for three years.

Hi Xun,

OOOOHHHH!!! Wait, yes he stated that he watched me for three years, but he didn't ask for my number until last November.

No way, I'm VERY average. Trust me, if I looked like Jessica Alba or somebody like that, he would have called me by now 😢 Hahahahaha, no pics, not yet, I WAY to nervous.

ok cappy, you made the move, the ball is in his court... enjoy the waiting period..

I'm really not good at waiting Archer LOL, not the typical cappy -- my patience isn't very high LOL!!! But I guess it will have to be. I felt compelled to give him my number ... after like three or four months LOL, and now I feel compelled to talk to him.

I have really intense emotions, it's like once I feel something, I have to feed it or else I will drive myself crazy. Keep in mind, I didn't use to be like this, I'm getting old LOL

Actually, I guess things started to change once we started speaking about our ambitions. I'm going into biology and he's going to school to be a computer Systems Analyst. I guess after speaking about surface information, I want to learn more about him ... YIKES

Oh for crying out sideways, I hope he's not scorpio LOL, it's hard for me to escape those guys LOL. What if he's a cancer .... AHHHHHH!!! I will run kicking and screaming!!! Yes I will!

well i think evolved scorio men are the best match for us cappy women!

Yes, I know Sagigoat, that's why SCARES me. I like being in control of myself and the last scorpio I was involved with made me lose it. As a matter of fact, the cancer guy I had trouble with came after I broke up with the scorpio. I had to or else I couldn't get away from him. Then that cancer guy gave me pure freaking hell. I guess I was on the rebound so I was weaker then usual.

Yeah, many earth guys go for PURE looks. Especially those virgos LOL, if you are not "HOT" then you are out of the equation.

Hey Sagi,

He's a virgo (leo/ virgo cusp) ... uh oh .....

Well:

Moon: Pisces/ Aries cusp
Mars: Scorpio
Venus: Virgo

I know this looks too good to be true, but there's something about him that draws me to him. I don't know why -- maybe it's the scorpio mars and virgo venus — And that darn more of his, how dare he have a moon that's on the Pisce/ Aries cusp —

Hey, I heard those with a scorpio mars like sex alot, is that true?

hmmm, speaking as a Mars in Scorp guy ..

Hey Buddy 🙂 I was just asking because the last two guys I was with wanted sex within a week's time of knowing me and that's a no-no-NO!!!! LOL. Now, don't get me wrong, I "like it" but will this virgo allow me to get to know him first before he decides to put me on my back? Since you are a Mars in Scorp too, you are just the one I need to answer my question 😄

My Mars in Aqua/ Pisces cusp so I can be very push-pull LOL

Of course a Virgo will allow for the relationhship to evolve slowly (could be real slow, depends how mature he is), but I'd be VERY surprised if he wants sex within at least a month of knowing you, we generally arent like that.

I suspected that, but with my luck (which is terrible) I could end up with a virgo with a sex drive EXACTLY like a Sun Scorpio LOL!!! That's what I was worried about LOL

...But then Mars in Scorp is a pain in the ass hahaha!

SEE WHAT I MEAN — Ha! If I get pass the first date with this guy, I'm so screwed!!!

Im no fan of one-night stands for instance.

That's nice to hear 😄

Something important to mention is his Venus in Virgo too, the way he manifests affection could be a bit on the "prudish" side

Oh okay ... well, I tend to have a silly affectionate side because of my Aqua venus 😉

Hmmm, so I should relax about the mars and venus -- hmmm, maybe I should start working about his moon, which is on the Pisces/ Aries cusp ...

Okay ...

I bought this back because the virgo guy has returned ... it's a long story ...

I have more questions now then before LOL!!!!! I think the fact that I didn't give him my number when he asked for it before is playing a role in why he's acting slightly distant ...

There's something that he told me, that has stayed in my head since we saw and spoke to each other. I'm not sure why he said it, but it's stayed with me. I asked three friends of mine what it meant, and all of them said the the same thing ...

Like I said, it's a long story ...

How Can U Be An Idiot?
Youre A Capricorn
If You Want Idiots Just Look At The Other 11 signs

If he's been watching you for three years then my bet would be he's a Scorpio. And if so, I'll pray for you!

No Klover Fish,

He's a Leo/Virgo cusp with a Mars in Scorpio 🙂

Thank you dogsbody, I needed to hear that, I've been feeling like an idoit lately ...

Okay, well to make a long story short -- I'll try ...

Wednesday was a difficult day at work (I even yelled at a co-worker accidently), as my co-worker was cleaning the weightroom, I saw the Leo/Virgo guy there and he looked at me and I said heloo but I continued talking to my co-worker.

The Leo/Virgo kept jumping into the conversation -- hahaha almost like taking the co-worker's said. since they are both guys, I accused them of tag-teaming -- because I was the only girl present 😄 I tried to block him out of the convo but he accused me of not wanting to hear the truth.

So the tag-teaming continued until I playful said that my feeling were hurt. The Leo/Virgo then said that he was just kiding with me, along with saying that "I" seem to have a big defensive wall up and that it needs to come down -- THE NERVE OF HIM.

Now he's what turned everything upsidedown ...

When I was living he mensioned something about 'a boy and a girl on the playground'

This is how he put it:

?"Do you remember when the boy on the playground that always picked on one particular girl? You know, he always pushed her around, hit her, teased her, sometimes he spoke to her, and other times he didn't -- just to drive her crazy. Do you remember a boy doing that to one particualr girl? Now, I'll let you figure the rest out ...".

After he said that, my co-worker shouted from across the room, "I know what he means by that!" The Leo/Virgo said nothing ...

I felt odd, but I told him that I would figure it out and he said good. I felt strange so went back to my work area. I had to go into the weightroom again because I needed something from my co-worker. He wasn't in there but the Leo/Virgo was still there, he looked and smiled as I walked out the door -- that was odd, I only said like five words to him.

Before he left, he stopped in the office area again (I told him that it was okay) to say bye. He said he wanted to stay longer but he needed to pick his daughter up from school. He said that we'll chat later and I agreed.

That was all ...

Okay, well I got my answer ...

Thanks to his libra friend .... OMG, the things that I heard today are out of this world. Leave to a libra to get things done LOL!!!!

But I don't get it ... if all this was the case, then why ... I don't know.

Oh my god, what about the Aries/Taurus guy, or the Aries guy I JUST met ——

I really don't like the waiting game, so I may do that. But that can get alittle messy and I would REALLY like a peaceful summer.

I'm trying to lose weight, I'm moving in like 14 days, I want to have my head on straight for the fall semseter, so having a crazy summer would be bad lol