Compatability - Sun Sign Vibrations

This is one of the most personally accurate descriptions of compatability between the signs. I am a Gemini and my boyfriend is a Pisces. Therefore, we have a 4-10 vibration. The article shows how to figure out your vibration. This is what it says about my #10 sign. My biggest grievance with my b/f is that he treats me like he's my father.

YOUR # 10 SIGN

Your #10 sign wants to take care of you, but for a price. The price is, you do what #10 says. (To find your # 10 sign, label your own Sun-sign # 1 in the horoscope column below, then count down the signs until your finger hits # 10. For example, Aries'# 10 is Capricorn. Capricorn's # 10 is Libra.)

# 10 represents your boss, your parent (usually the father) judges and other authorities, and all those childhood instructions that you've internalized. (This isn't the same as your conscience, which is always good. These childhood instructions can be good or bad, depending on who imposed them on you, and how.) # 10 also represents your ambitions and desires for status. This sign governs your sense of propriety, of superficial right and wrong, and how you relate to society's power structures. Ultimately, it determines your place.

A #1- #10 relationship can be passionate and intense, but it doesn't leave a lot of room for romantic playfulness. Often, your attraction is filled with friction and power struggles, so your love might resemble a competitive wrestling match. The pecking order must be established. You might become obsessed with making this person respect you. This is a natural child-parent or boss-employee relationship: one nurtures and one obeys.

This combination (# 1-#10) can work as a marriage, especially if respect outweighs criticism, and if both partners highly value security and ambition. (Bill and Hillary Clinton had this relationship.) In essence, you'll be mothering/nurturing your # 10, and he/she will be fathering/directing you. (You're your # 10's # 4, so read that relationship, too.) Some door-slamming can occur, but so can deep loyalty, acceptance and respect, along with strong practical accomplishment...

Here's the link...almost forgot.

http://www.astralreflections.com/html/comp.html

Hmmm I think I understand, Its quite interesting. I am a Aquarius ( His #8) and My Boyfriend is a Cancer (My # 6).

YOUR # 6 SIGN

To find your # 6 sign, take any horoscope column, label your own sign # 1, then count down the signs until you reach # 6. Aries' # 6, for example, is Virgo. Taurus' # 6 is Libra.

Your # 6 sign rules work, health, machinery and services. (Many astrologers say dependents and pets are ruled by # 6, but I don't think that's true. I'd better explain: Your # 6 sign does rule dependents if they serve you: for example, employees, farm animals, guard or herding dogs, etc. But pets and beloved children are ruled by your # 4 and # 5 sign.) People born in your # 6 sign make natural employees, co-workers and service people for you. If you're going to repair your house, or need someone to work with you on a mechanical or routine project, look for # 6. Often, # 6 is willing to do you favors, and is eager to invest with you.

In social situations, # 6 can feel a compelling sexual pull toward you, because you're his/her # 8 (sex) sign. This makes it easy to fall into a relationship with your # 6, especially if you are feeling a lack of self-confidence, and prefer to have someone "choose you." The sex is often quite good for both partners, because it is both exciting and gratifying when someone is sexually smitten by you.

In addition, you might also light up your # 6's marriage house. (This occurs because signs and houses are not the same thing. For example, for someone born in the middle of the sign Virgo, the marriage house extends from the middle of Pisces to the middle of Aries. But the entire sign Aries is Virgo's sex sign. So anyone born in the first half of Aries will be in both this Virgo's sex sign and marriage house.)

So # 1 - # 6 relationships quite often lead to marriage. However, some subtle but deep turns occur when the # 1- # 6 relationship veers into lover's lane. For one thing, you feel a natural urge to put your # 6 to work, to "utilize" him or her. Eventually, # 6 can get tired of running your errands or washing your floors. More importantly, you are # 6's # 8 sign, which means your # 6 finds you a mystery, and has trouble defining and wholly trusting you. Your # 6 will never feel wholly "in the groove" of your marriage. This psychic and emotional uncertainty can create health problems that seem to have no cause, and therefore little cure. If this occurs, the cure lies in separation. Sometimes an extramarital urge lurks in # 6-#8 pairing. This couple needs to enjoy a long engagement.

On the plus side, # 6- # 8 couples (he/she's your # 6, you're his/her # 8) often accumulate money or expand their net worth over time. Often, they can run a business together, and are naturally co-operative work-mates. You and your #6 will often form a great business partnership - one that seems to arise naturally, without formal intent. However, if the relationship breaks apart, a fight over assets is more likely than not.

"you and a particular person from this sign could also have moons in trine between your charts, and Venus conjunct Mars"

Moons in trine is having the same moon signs?

That's interesting, thanks for the reply. Do trines matter with any other planets - Is it considered better than have "Venus conjunct Mars" than the same Venus/Mars signs?

"Venus conjunct/trine/opposition(which is the most powerful)Pluto"

So if your Venus is the the same element/sign, or even the opposite (pisces/virgo?) of Pluto - that's an important factor?

How does the degree make a difference if you're in the same trine, ect?

Here's an updated link. The one posted above didn't work for me.

http://www.astralreflections.com/website/html/comp.html