can somebody help me figure out my taurus boyfriend's behaviour?

We've been dating for exactly a month today. He chased after me like nuts even when I rejected him, he's still tried hard to get me so I ended up agreeing to it.

Things went sooooooooo very great. I'm shy pisces girl and he's funny not at all boring like most taurus (or so I heard) so we connected just fine. Anyway, last Sunday we went on a date. Movie and dinner. He was so affectionate. He cuddled me a lot during movie, he'd pull my arm and kiss my hand softly. On our way home, we even managed to talk about this plan we had. We plan to go traveling together so we both currently savings some money for that. It was all good. He dropped me off my house and kissed my forehead and told me my hair smells so good.

That same night he texted me, we talked about stuffs and I laughed so much because he's hilarious like that. A moment later he told me he had to leave out of town for work and I never heard from him since.

Just FYI, his job does require him to leave out of town for once or twice a week. It's so far away in the suburb area. But usually he managed to call me once a while just checking up on me or simply sending me short text but this time there isn't any. I tried to call him twice on Wed but he didn't answer, didn't even return my calls.

I really didn't know what to do, I'm so afraid if something awful happened to him or something so I contacted his friend whom also my friend. That friend said he hasn't gone to this other friend's house (they hang out here most of the times) since Thursday so he hasn't see my bf and he told me he'd go there last night and will let me know if he sees him but even his friend hasn't get back at me. I tried ask one more time but he hasn't replied and then I tried to call my bf one more time this morning, I found out the phone was turned off. Now I'm kinda devastated here....

Did he just seriously bailing on me without telling me? Did he broke things up just like that? Or did I do something wrong that makes him pulling away? Or is it just taurus thingy..... will he comeback— I'm so lost here. Help me.

Im pisces female also with taurus man and in same situation! So affection were so close talk none stop he tells me how much he likes me etc always kissing cuddling me then out the blue went very cold didnt text me for 4 days then ended it? Soooo randomly it dont make sense. Weve been together 5 months. They do that apparently ” people say they disappear when there scared of their feelings or to see if uwill chase them cus they like to feel secure and like ull chase them

It is possible that he turned his phone off for work and forgot to turn it back on.

This is unacceptable behavior and I hope you don't let it slide. He should be cut off at once. Dump him!

Starts fast, rarely lasts.

Don't contact him again. He'll be back.. but you gotta teach him a lesson. Don't pick up the phone right away. Mirror his behavior exact and he wont do it again (meaning he disappears for 2 weeks 5 days, you don't pick up the phone for 2 weeks 5 days). It will drive him crazy and He'll remember next time.

How about both charts and a synastry?

You're not into him.

You had to be bothered, in order to get you to notice him.


so, why are you bothering to come in here and complain about the bad choice you made?

Thanks CocoKat! He came back exactly a week from the day he disappeared. I did ignore him a little. Then he called me in the morning and talked casually. I didn't throw any tantrum whatsoever though. I acted casual as well and asked him if he's doing alright, I also told him if it's possible to at least contact me once a while cause him missing like that made me worried so much so he agreed.

The next day he texted me letting me know he had to leave out of town again. I was kinda upset, I didn't even get to see him and yet he's leaving again but he sent me a not even remotely emotional msg but successfully made me bawl a little. He told me he's sorry and that he felt bad cause it must have been hard for me with him being away and stuffs. So instead of getting upset, I told him it must have been harder for him since he has to go back and forth to his work site which is pretty unpleasant place, literally. We had a pretty good talk and came to an understanding each other.

So I think I kinda figured out my taurus man a little. He has no intention of ignoring me or disappering on me or even getting sick of me. I mean he was always around before he had that job but now he's employed, he works really hard, he's really focused with his job right now which is good. The only thing I can do is to support him wholeheartedly and also not bugging him too much when he's away for work. This actually helps me with my clinginess issue as well. He didn't feed my clinginess but somehow I still feel safe and secure even when he's away.