Can you trust a cancer man

I have had a read and seen an alarming rate of people who have been cheated on by cancers. so with the below placements would this suggest that this person will be that way, As he also has gemini in Venus. Which tbh does concern me. As im dating one and at the stages where could get serious so now doing my homework as unfortunately i explode with cheating.. so just looking to avoid the dramas it could bring lol. His are

Sun - Cancer
Moon - Taurus
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Libra
Jupiter - sagittarius
Saturn - Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Chiron - Taurus
Juno - Sagittarius
Lillith - Capricorn
Fortune - Cancer
Acending - Libra
MC - Cancer

mine are:

Sun — Sagittarius
Moon — Libra
Rising sign — Capricorn
Venus — Scorpio
Mars — Capricorn
Neptune — Sagittarius
Uranus — Scorpio
Mercury — Scorpio
Pluto — Libra
Fortune — Scorpio
Midheaven - Scorpio
(True lillith) — Libra
Saturn — Libra
Jupiter - Libra
N. Node is in 13 Degrees Leo.
MC - scorpio

LOL we no need for that. Ive been hurt a lot and this is a big deal for me, but ive had a think and its probably best i just stayed single and removed myself out the situation. The signs just dont match if im honest and i think its stupid of me to even try if im totally honest, Nothing wrong with scorpio. We go mental if someone cheats so i must make sure hes not one of the sorts that do it, and lie.

Ive never cheated once, but i wont emotionally commit myself until prooved trustworthy. And none did. I only with i was the liar and the cheat. At least my life would be a lot more fun lol.

Let me just speak from personal experience here - I had a brief fling with a Cancer sun, Venus in Gemini and NEVER AGAIN!!! He was a manipulative liar, a flirt, a player, a douchebag... I'm not saying you should write this guy off immediately but if it were me I wouldn't even think twice. Cancer sun Venus in Gemini in a male especially - huge red flags for me personally after the emotional MESS of this Cancer guy that strung me along for 6 months. Whatever you do decide to do, please be careful and remember to put yourself first no matter what!

My experience with my past Cancer relationship was a memory I want to forget. He was sweet and caring at first but then he got very jealous, sneaky and downright stalking type behavior. Slashed my tires a few times because he was jealous I would do things without him. Would sneak in my house and go through my things to find evidence of other men (which there was none), check my mail, phone messages, follow me. EEK!!!

I ended up getting a restraining order on him and also had found out he DID cheat on me because he was mad at me for ignoring him one night. WTF!!

My ex of 5 years has been in my ( and son's) life for now 11 yrs. We dated for 6 years, and 5 yrs ago we broke up due to his never ending drunkiness. He has been around all these past 5yrs bringing bday gifts, xmas gifts and just hanging out. he's been to 2 of my son's bdays ( 1 at Disneyland for 4-5 hrs) and we have been intimate a few dozen times, recently 2 months ago- he's been trying to be back with me for the past year. All this to say, I JUST found out about his GF of 4 years on FB. I did a lil investigating and found alllllllllllll the pics taken of them over the years, all the posts ( past and present) of them thanking each other for the party or fun time. MAN, he's been lying to her and me these past 4-5 yrs. Funny thing is, he NEVER once mentioned her to me or when I asked was he with someone or seeing anyone he told me flat out NO every single time. Even after I downloaded all their pics, BEFORE I sent them to him, I asked him one last time, DO YOU HAVE A GF, he told me no, so I sent him the pics and he still tried to tell me she was insignificant and had cheated on him 6 months ago and he's trying to find a way "out"...UM, NO! All these years they looked happy in the pics ( about 200 pics of diff events, diff times over the yrs) so Yeah, CANCER MEN LIE! what's the motive, well he finally admitted out of GREED he wanted to keep us both close! WHAT EVER! Worse thing is, about 2 wks ago he took my son and I out to lunch and ice cream and bought him a video game, then told my son, " if your !!! 😢

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Its all done and dusted now, But he was very similar to what Taurean goddess said.

After he knew i liked him, and i didnt profess love or anything silly like that. I just honestly said that i liked him and what his intentions were. Just to see where i stood.

So he goes quiet ignores me, fair enough. No interest returned i got over it. Was only a crush. And then he started asking for sex, I told him that i did not do sex without a relationship, might sound odd but i really not into all this f**k buddies and one night stands. But still for the next 2 weeks he carried on. Sending me sex texts which i ignored, then he put his user name to god so i changed my number as im not dealing with that. lol I need a real man. Not a boy with issues lol