Cheater characteristics?

What are the common cheater charicteristics in men and women?

Posted by s4nd
insecurity in the natal chart.

In addition one or a combination of self-hate, self-loathe, lack of self-esteem, minimal self-confidence, manipulative, boredom, possibly anger, baggage (including traumatic past experiences), was once abused, or an abuse, a user, egocentric...and so forth.

It could be one and a million possibilities really.

how he treats him mom

how he was raised

extremely jealous

narcissistic behaviour

excellent liar

cheated in the past

he/she

Posted by aquapiscescusp
how he treats him mom

how he was raised

extremely jealous

narcissistic behaviour

excellent liar

cheated in the past

Highly possessive as well, please add gas lighting to the list too.

Really pay attention to the following:

How they speak about/treat:

-Their exes (Look out for the stories about victimization and how their exes were so terrible but never take responsibility for their part in the breakup)

-Family (Especially their Mother/Father)

-Animals

-Children

-Strangers (Especially people that work in the service industry)
I know the one above may seem strange but you can tell a shit ton about someone and how they treat people in the service industry.

There are several reasons I know that some of these might not be a direct qualification for cheaters but you would be very surprised. One of my best talents (through an ass ton of trials and tribulations) is learning to listen/communicate/investigate (Gemini's are awesome at that) and reading people very quickly. Normally one of these above points to something much more. Like a domino effect.

I think cheaters have a deep void that needs to be filled. They might spend a lifetime searching to fill it unless they come to understand the motives of their actions/behavior.

yea its hard to say as ligeia mentioned....anyone can be capable...even if they had a great relationship with their parents or love animals or all that good stuff

I think they get so distorted they believe their own lies...