Fucking Pissed

This is all gone be a stupid ass venting thing cuz I'm honestly about to rip my hair out or just go fucking crazy

Went through this bad break up with a pisces girl (me being an aqua girl). I'm not gona explain the whole thing, cuz its too long and its all crap. I have other threads with it in more detail. It was 3 1/2 yrs together. broke up w me, next day went w a guy.

So im just fucking pissed, even though Im a calm ass person, but she just managed to get me all raged up again. I following her suggesion that we dont talk. And she manages to say we can be friends again soon, and now she says no we cant, all I do is annoy her blah blah. And she doesnt have the fucking decency to not do crap in front of me with her new boyfriend. Its sickening to me. She's over here kissing and cuddling and stuff. I know thats what couples do and that I cant control her, but she seems to do it as soon as I'm in eye sight.

She's fucking two faced for telling me we can be cool, and then telling other people no. I probably shouldn't even care. I was just used and led on and shit.

UGHGHGH I'm making no fucking sense

Oh Hun...I wish I could give you a big hug. 😢
I have been following your story. I can only imagine how hard this must be for you.
Passive-aggressive people are the worst. Unfortunately, I hear water signs (pisces, cancer, scorpio) are notorious for that.

you sound just like my best friend. she is also an aquarius.
not only that, but she's a double aquarius, and I am double pisces! woah
I guess it's a frustrating combination, we are on and off and on and off and on...
she HATES that she cannot hang out with me, and tends to blame it on me having a boyfriend all the time, which is 50% true, but then when she gets a boyfriend and spends every day with him, it's normal. the problem we have is that I am fickle and she is hypocritical. and yet we are both stubborn. I always seem to need a break from her because she exhausts me. I'm sure I exhaust her too. I love her... absolutely, she is my best friend. I have known her for 17 years! but I just don't think water and air mix very well, and it makes communication-- let alone relationships-- very complicating.

pisces put on different personalities with every individual they meet. we are constant mimics, which makes it very difficult for us to understand who we really are. pisces are so good at imitating everyone else that they do it automatically, even without thinking; we constantly react to the emotions of those around us, and in this way, we save a bit of everyone within our own makeup. empathizing with others for pisces is therefore natural.

If I were you, I would do your own thing. allow the separation to occur between you two, because it is most likely needed-- for your sake. you need to focus on yourself right now, and stressing over your relationship with her will not solve anything. she will not come back to you, pisces hate to be chased.

Posted by aquaj

Posted by HazardousWalk
This is all gone be a stupid ass venting thing cuz I'm honestly about to rip my hair out or just go fucking crazy

Went through this bad break up with a pisces girl (me being an aqua girl). I'm not gona explain the whole thing, cuz its too long and its all crap. I have other threads with it in more detail. It was 3 1/2 yrs together. broke up w me, next day went w a guy.

So im just fucking pissed, even though Im a calm ass person, but she just managed to get me all raged up again. I following her suggesion that we dont talk. And she manages to say we can be friends again soon, and now she says no we cant, all I do is annoy her blah blah. And she doesnt have the fucking decency to not do crap in front of me with her new boyfriend. Its sickening to me. She's over here kissing and cuddling and stuff. I know thats what couples do and that I cant control her, but she seems to do it as soon as I'm in eye sight.

She's fucking two faced for telling me we can be cool, and then telling other people no. I probably shouldn't even care. I was just used and led on and shit.

UGHGHGH I'm making no fucking sense

You are an AQUA. Why are you not sucking face with someone else right now like she never happened? That is what an AQUA would do.

Exactly what my fellow aqua aquaj said you should be tongue dueling someone else right now.

I knew something was fishy (no pun intend) about that girl and "being cool". She doesn't deserve it, considering how uncool she's been. Pffft to her, you're awesome, just like the others have said.

Posted by doubletrouble


pisces put on different personalities with every individual they meet. we are constant mimics, which makes it very difficult for us to understand who we really are. pisces are so good at imitating everyone else that they do it automatically, even without thinking; we constantly react to the emotions of those around us, and in this way, we save a bit of everyone within our own makeup. empathizing with others for pisces is therefore natural.

Very insightful.

If I were you, I would do your own thing. allow the separation to occur between you two, because it is most likely needed-- for your sake. you need to focus on yourself right now, and stressing over your relationship with her will not solve anything. she will not come back to you, pisces hate to be chased.

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Agree with everything except she might well come back. She sounds like the type (bratty and spoiled), especially if you leave her alone, and things with her new boyfriend don't work out well. To the OP: in no way am I saying that's a good thing, though. She showed her true colors, and while I'm sad this happened to you, I'm glad you're starting to realize what sort of fickle person she really is.

Posted by HazardousWalk

She's fucking two faced for telling me we can be cool, and then telling other people no. I probably shouldn't even care. I was just used and led on and shit.

GHGHGH I'm making no fucking sense

The only sense you don't make is how it pertains to you having your own life decisions as to what you will react to, and what actions you will take.

The above quote is in essence saying ..... you await for her approval, or disapproval, so you can live accordingly.

That makes you seem very unAquaie ...

She has total control here. She knows you await for her lead and so she is only further srewing with your head, and that is a very Fishy thing to do. We do those things if we feel resentful.

You have the power within yourself to decide that she can't effect you, that you are above that shit ... so please tell me why you chose to ignore your own personal power?


It really ticks me off when people do this. You want to be approved of, to be validated .. instead of looking inward where your personal power lies, you reach outward and want another person to approve of you ....

.. for you.


What about approving of yourself, for yourself?

Has that thought crossed your mind?

I like replying to everyone so I will do it, some maybe tomorrow though, it's getting late and I'm getting lazy haha

But before I do, I guess I should further explain why it's hard for me to go on.

We were close friends for a long while, before we even dated. As we dated, we each taught each other things. She taught me how to dream, to wonder and imagine possibilities, be more open. (which I know some of your will see it as being "weak")And well, I did believe we would actually be those high school sweethearts that make it through it all and live that life they wanted. I know our relationship wasn't perfect. Now, I see we had communication issues, things that troubled us that shouldn't have did, and we never talked about it as in depth as we should have. I'm not sure how to say it really, but I know I'm an independant woman, I don't need a relationship to be happy. I can fend for myself, I was taught a lot by my mother and father. However, how messed up and broken I became with the situation, no one will ever understand. I was torn down to the extremes. Losing weight, (lost 6 pounds within the week), not eating, not sleeping, being sluggish, not feeling anything and when I did feel, I was either extremely upset or angry. Being crushed when I had the highest hopes in the world, it made my psychologically ill, I'm sure of it.

@ risingabovethemasses
I've been thinking of that, that it's a blessing, some thing that will end up leading to something better in the end. Or just a stepping stone to some greater height.
I really am starting to focus more on me though C: doing things I haven't done in a while, fixing bad habits etc. It's really a good thing I don't have to split my focus on two people, I need some rebuilding done on myself haha

@ CherryOnTop
ohh hugs are nice :C
Have you really been following? I bet I sound like some psyco crazy chick, but it's nice to vent/ask for advice on here.
I have to admit, passive-aggressive is pretty intense. But I'll be ok!! I'll only get stronger!

@ aquaj
I'm not one to just kiss other people and stuff lol If you ment dating, it's too soon for me too. It wouldn't be right to the other person. And I honestly can't see myself having any short of relationship right now haha. Just focusing on making myself happier and building a stronger me.

@ doubletrouble
Oh no, I hope I don't sound like your friend in a bad way lol
But I understand what you were saying, you see the best in eachother, yet you realize things and argue easily. COMPLETELY understand the stubbornness, jeez. We're both the most stubborn mules in the herd.
I realize the no talking thing right now is the best for the both of us. Give each other space, let the negative connotations go away, or at the very least, let them go down a few notches. I respect that, though I don't agree with how she "handled" the break up at all, I still want her happy, with good luck and good health. And hey, maybe she'll feel we can at least talk some day.
I need a bit of clarification though; You say pisces hate to be chased... So if there were ever a chance that we were to become acquaintances again, would it happen because She would want it too? She isn't one that really takes on the initiative.

You were in high school and are very young! Nothing is set in stone, not even your (ok maybe yours, but not everyones) sexual preference. It looks like she pulled an Anne Heche on ya. Anne Heche was old enough to maybe know better so how can you blame a young girl who isn't sure about her orientation? Or maybe that had nothing to do with it and she could have just fallen out of infatuation and moved on. That is typical of what happens in high school. Don't expect a life time commitment with anyone for a long time. Learn from it and move on just like millions have done before you.

It's not healthy to be angry about a partner using their right to leave when they want to. It's your right too. Anger is hurt so feel the hurt. Eat a tub of ice cream, cry, whatever you need to do but get in touch with your feelings so you can get over this. She doesn't owe you anything, no one does in a relationship. It doesn't take away the pain, but you need to feel the pain in order to get past this. Focus on you rather than what she is doing or on how you can win her back. Let it go.

Posted by HazardousWalk

I need a bit of clarification though; You say pisces hate to be chased... So if there were ever a chance that we were to become acquaintances again, would it happen because She would want it too? She isn't one that really takes on the initiative.

yes, most likely. I cannot speak for her, I think every pisces is a bit different. but as I said earlier, I have an aquarius friend; we are extremely close, like sisters. we haven't spoken because of things she did that upset me, and vice versa. when my emotions had cooled (which was sooner than hers) I made contact with her, to which she blew me off.

it was recently her birthday, and I sent her a card that came a bit late in the mail-- and she contacted me, saying we should get a drink sometime.

I think our relationship will slowly rekindle once more, as it has done in the past (we have had our fair share of break-ups). our friendship is like a warm blue flame; it is subtle but burns vividly, and can reignite over the longest spells of silence.