Girls flirting w/ my Gemini/Cancer bf.

I'm not a jealous person but, this is getting hard for me to get over. Lately a lot of girls have been throwing themselves at my guy. Saying things like, "If I was your gf we would be cute together"-Facebook "What your gf doesn't know won't hurt her"- To his face. "I can do better than her, you know what we used to do"- His Ex in person. He tells me when girls do flirt with him, which I love. I respect him for it, because some guys wouldn't bother, but it bugs the crap out of me! How do I get over this without being irrational? I want him to be a bit more of an asshole when these girls flirt with him, so they will get the point. Then on the other hand I want to sit and laugh at them for looking so desperate. Help!

Posted by CluelessCancer
chicks are so thirsty man, they Sahara deserting it out here.

Haha. Yess, they are. And I will try and do that. I knew water signs like to test you but, I didn't know that some would purposely make you jealous.

uote>Posted by EboneJay

"What your gf doesn't know won't hurt her"- To his face.
"I can do better than her, you know what we used to do"- His Ex in person.

heresay ^^^

Posted by EboneJay

He tells me when girls do flirt with him, which I love. I respect him for it, because some guys wouldn't bother, but it bugs the crap out of me!

So, first you say you love it when he DISrespects you, all the while, you say it's respect while it's actually disrespectful and even make an excuse for him disrespecting you by making the insinuation that you should be grateful that you have a guy who will taunt other girls to you.

Posted by EboneJay

I want him to be a bit more of an asshole when these girls flirt with him, so they will get the point.

What point is it you want them to get, exactly? You've already stated that you love it when he tells you that girls flirt with him ... below you even say you want to sit and laugh at them .... but, in the quote above you completely contradict yourself by inferring that there is a point that differs from what you encourage him to do.

Posted by EboneJay

Then on the other hand I want to sit and laugh at them for looking so desperate.

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The only person looking desperate is you.

whatareyou 12?

I have read your comment on my post about my Gemini/Cancer Boyfriend. And may I just say good grief. Why are you being so incredibly rude? All that you said could have been stated a lot differently.

I would explain in detail what I wrote in that particular post, but I don't believe I should explain anything anymore. Elders and those from generations before mine are suppose to be full of wisdom. People that give you amazing advice not harsh insults.
Would you talk to your children or grandchildren that way?
I understand that when you post things online you are subjected to any type of criticism, but I will not be talked to that way.

Thank You for your time. 🙂
God Bless.

Posted by CluelessCancer
chicks are so thirsty man, they Sahara deserting it out here.

LMAO...you know I'm stealing that line right? 😄

Posted by EboneJay

Why are you being so incredibly rude? All that you said could have been stated a lot differently.

Would you talk to your children or grandchildren that way?

I will not be talked to that way.

Why are you so incredibly stupid? All that stupid shit you've done and said in here, you could have done a lot differently.

Hell yeah, I talk to everyone this way, you moron.

Of course, you'll be talked to this way ... because I'll voice my opinion and goddam time I feel like it.


Bottom line: You're an idiot.

The guy tells you things to make you jealous of him, and you're so young, stupid and na??ve that you think it's being respectful of you. When you grow up, you'll realize that you're suppose to have standards, and you're suppose to teach men how to treat you.

Or maybe not ... maybe you'll always be this stupid.

Posted by EboneJay

He tells me when girls do flirt with him, which I love. I respect him for it ...

I want him to be a bit more of an asshole when these girls flirt with him, so they will get the point.

Then on the other hand I want to sit and laugh at them for looking so desperate.

Again, I will reiterate ...

You love it when girls flirt with him, then you turn around and state you want him to play you up to the other girls, because I guess that attention you will love also.

That makes you with a maturity level of around 12 .... and then you want to sit around and laugh at them.

Seriously, you have no clue how fucked up are you, do you?

Posted by P-Angel


Bottom line:
The guy tells you things to make you jealous of him, and you're so young...and na??ve that you think it's being respectful of you. When you grow up, you'll realize that you're suppose to have standards, and you're suppose to teach men how to treat you.

+1 Instead of telling you about what these girls say as some bogus way of "establishing trust", he should be putting these women in their place--that's if he actually respected your relationship that is.