how many girl here want this kind of men

The man who is really kind to her and when he love her, he treat her with the kindest way and sweetest way ever,and don't treat her as if he don't like her. what he really shows is love only. and act with her like that.

Sure, sounds good.

but his personality will be not very strong or too weak it's medium

sounds good, but also a sense of humor included..

As long as he knows how to sex it up.

This pretty much describes my sister's boyfriend. He's a Pisces and she walks all over him. I used to feel sorry for him but I lost all respect for him when he lost respect for himself and became a door mat

In general, women will choose an asshole who treats her like dirt over a pussy who treats her like a queen.

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
In general, women will choose an asshole who treats her like dirt over a pussy who treats her like a queen.

Perhaps they think a man who treats them like a queen is too good to be true and most women want a man not a boy.

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Posted by BlueSandCacoon
In general, women will choose an asshole who treats her like dirt over a pussy who treats her like a queen.

Always thought those statements were pushing it a bit. We appreciate a bit of mystery, someone who doesn't lay all his cards down at the very beginning. Giving us time to childishly dream and wonder. Not everything has to be neatly placed on a golden plate before you to seem perfect. Simply keeping us interested, to sum it up. Someone who does everything you say and tells you how much he loves you 24/7 is just not interesting.

Surely there are those who take a liking to assholes, but than again there are those who would appriciate a man descibed by the OP. There is always a middle ground.

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That makes sense to me.

Just to be clear, I don't think most women love assholes more than they do unicorns. However, from my experience, most women will choose an asshole over a doormat any day if only given those two choices.

Posted by Torro

Posted by BlueSandCacoon

Posted by Torro

Posted by BlueSandCacoon
In general, women will choose an asshole who treats her like dirt over a pussy who treats her like a queen.

Always thought those statements were pushing it a bit. We appreciate a bit of mystery, someone who doesn't lay all his cards down at the very beginning. Giving us time to childishly dream and wonder. Not everything has to be neatly placed on a golden plate before you to seem perfect. Simply keeping us interested, to sum it up. Someone who does everything you say and tells you how much he loves you 24/7 is just not interesting.

Surely there are those who take a liking to assholes, but than again there are those who would appriciate a man descibed by the OP. There is always a middle ground.

That makes sense to me.

Just to be clear, I don't think most women love assholes more than they do unicorns. However, from my experience, most women will choose an asshole over a doormat any day if only given those two choices.

Fine, Unicorns > Assholes > Doormats. 😛

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Pretty much, lol.

Posted by abdoolly
but his personality will be not very strong or too weak it's medium

What's this strong/weak/medium business? Are we talking about a coffee or a guy?


Just because someone isn't pushy does not make them weak. Usually the opposite.

So abdoolly... I think we can sum it up here that you cannot be a 'yes yes' guy. Next time she asks for help on her homework... say something like "I'm sorry... I can't tonight... already have plans". She will shocked I'm sure... because you would have actually said 'no' to her... I would bet that you have NEVER said 'no' to her. It is nice of you, yes... but it will only keep you in the friend zone with her. Like I told you before... talk to ALL the girls... not just her. 'Practice makes perfect !'