Is it normal

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After a date, you wait a few days before talking to each other/set up another date? Leo male and I(Aries) hung out for hookah, talked, had fun. During the hangout, he would get close to me and put his head on my shoulders, of course my dumb butt didn't respond to that because I was nervous, but overall, great. I was going to pay, he insisted. As we're leaving, he offered to take me to my car. As we approached, he gazed into my eyes while hugging me hard that later turned into a makeout session in the back of my car. He wanted to go further, I stopped him because I wanted to take it slow. He understood. Found out he was boxed in as soon I was leaving. Helped him out and he requested another kiss from me. I'm a little smitten over him. I texted him yesterday about not relating to the date, but another topic. I guess I should just ask him?
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After a date, you wait a few days before talking to each other/set up another date? Leo male and I(Aries) hung out for hookah, talked, had fun. During the hangout, he would get close to me and put his head on my shoulders, of course my dumb butt didn't respond to that because I was nervous, but overall, great. I was going to pay, he insisted. As we're leaving, he offered to take me to my car. As we approached, he gazed into my eyes while hugging me hard that later turned into a makeout session in the back of my car. He wanted to go further, I stopped him because I wanted to take it slow. He understood. Found out he was boxed in as soon I was leaving. Helped him out and he requested another kiss from me. I'm a little smitten over him. I texted him yesterday about not relating to the date, but another topic. I guess I should just ask him?
I don't understand the question...is the question should you ask him on a date? If so, I say why not? Although personally I wouldn't though because I'm old fashioned. If a man wants you he will make sure he sees you again as soon as possible. If he doesn't contact me for another date first then to me that means he's obviously not that interested in me..
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Basically that and should you wait a few days after hanging out. It's hard because, well, it seemed we hit off great. After all, he did ask me for another one before ending the night. He could be busy, but just like you, I would personally wait until he says if he wants to see me. I was the one that asked him first.
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Not necessarily, but nice try indirectly calling me desperate. If you looked up Aries profile, we're hunters. We don't have time to sit and wait, we go after what we want. Leos love attention. It takes two to tango just not the man's. Both genders need to participate and show interest. I apologize if it never works for you, but your rules in life doesn't apply for everyone. Thanks, but no thanks for your advice.
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@Op- IF you have not made it past a few weeks of friends or wanting to know what a person really wants or needs, usually you need something not want it. Then it won't progress for awhile and you have to take what life brings you challenges and all, work it out, talk about. And if he or she is out of your league then suck it up as experience and loss or gain from it, and evolve and adapt to a much better situation.
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What is "normal" for one person or couple might not be for another. You and him need to create your own Normal. I believe this will happen over time as you get to know one another better and communicate more and spend time. Between two compatible people, Normal is somewhat established and you just continue to discover more of that together.

Don't compare to others. What you have is for you and him.

Am I making sense?