Posted by bricklemark
I cry a lot...it's a really butterty butterty time....


I don't know yet. So far, I just haven't been able to focus on my work and I'm swamped with assignments.
Posted by ScorpG
Next week my first GF is geeting married. Today two of my friends, in a relationship for some months, moved together. All my friends are in serious relationships.

Is it usual for people at this age to be in such stages of commitment?

Plus I'm feeling like losing everybody.


It is most definitely normal for a lot of people. But that doesn't make you "not normal" for not living their normal.
Posted by Caroline93
Should I trust an Aries man ? They seem kinda shady to me.


The one Aries male I know is a total slut.
Posted by Distilled
Bad timing, Retrogrades, whatever.

Have you had one?

Did you ever see them again?

Heart broken- broke theirs?

Thanks for sharing.


Virgo

We met at work. He was the brother of my best friend's fiancé. I fell for him, but he moved out of the country for school. We got closer over long distance. He fell for me. It got too hard for both of us, but especially for him. He began to feel guilty about my waiting for him. He ghosted me and broke my heart. I was hurt and told him, which I know only added to his pain.

The most painful aspect of that relationship was that there was moment he came back to visit his family and he wanted to see me. I overthought it so much that he ended up canceling it. I used to think that was the turning point in our relationship - the breaking point, rather.

It took me over a year to really begin to move on.
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Posted by Lilianni

This person who's been messaging me isn't answering my texts or calls.
What scares me is that I was at Target the other day and had 2 Target gift cards. They were enough to pay all except $ 2 for the items that I was purchasing. I didn't tell anyone that I spent $ 2 at Target, nor was anyone shopping with me.


Tell them you have reported them to the police and the police are working on tracking the number

That should do the trick.


I'm thinking about going to the police station later and asking if they could track it
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Do it.

Too many crazies out there to not be proactive.
Be safe. It is most likely a coward with a complex, but better to be overly safe than sorry. 👍🏽
Posted by Lilianni

This person who's been messaging me isn't answering my texts or calls.
What scares me is that I was at Target the other day and had 2 Target gift cards. They were enough to pay all except $ 2 for the items that I was purchasing. I didn't tell anyone that I spent $ 2 at Target, nor was anyone shopping with me.


Tell them you have reported them to the police and the police are working on tracking the number

That should do the trick.
Posted by notsosure
when you first meet someone new (romantic), but you let it slide and don´t ask much about it, ´cause it´s all new and you don´t know, where you want it to go yourself.
But after a while you want something more, but that one thing keeps bothering you.
Do you just forget about it and put it in the past? Or do you ask about it? Even if it´s a long time since you met the person?


If you chose to got batshcit crazy - and he survives, then it's all uphill from there.
Posted by StrawberryJam
It's not about social media it's about ppls negativity from here. Some of you already knows that you've been wrong since the previous post. I'm out of here. Keep commenting base on your assumption all your want.


🙄

#dramabum
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Strawberry,

It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.

The FB photos was an issue for you.

He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.

Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.

Please don't take offense.


I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.


@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.


I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.


Calm your ego down - him calling to apologize means he cares enough about you to try and make it right. It absolutely does NOT mean your actions are still not unreasonable.


ok another person who didn't actually read it before preaching.
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I'm not preaching. I'm simply responding to your comment and disagreeing with the logic "well, he apologized, so that must mean I'm not being unreasonable."

Are you always this defensive?
Posted by Deedee86
Is it possible? I'm going on vacation in 31 days and just noticed that I gained 9 lbs over the winter! I'm tall so it takes awhile before the weight creep up becomes obvious.

Any tips?


Drinks LOTS of water and get out there and MOVE! Do yoga - the stretching will help tone your body and you will mentally feel good about yourself. Cut out soda, animal products (meat and dairy), refined sugars and bread - eat more veggies and fruit. But most of all, don't worry about it. I'm tall, and even a bit of weight gain doesn't show, especially in clothes.

Enjoy your trip!
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Strawberry,

It was insecurity on your part.
Due to past experiences in your previous relationships.

The FB photos was an issue for you.

He told you he valued his privacy, and it was still an issue for you.

Different stories, but the base premise of it all is pretty much the same.

Please don't take offense.


I'm not offended, your post just proved that you didn't actually read before commenting. it wasn't even a FB photo.


@taurusbull1977 is right though Strawb. Although she got the fb mixed up her analysis is correct and she didn't mean it in an offensive manner but you got very defensive over it. It's clear from mentioning your excess that insecurities from your past play a part. However you are learning to take this guy on his own merit and not tarnish him with the same stick. Continue to embrace it and hopefully it will work out well.


I'm not over defensive or insecure. You don't know us and may be you didn't get the OP. You think for a smart guy like him he would be calling right away to apologize if I was being unreasonable? No way. anyway you don;t know us and you are free to have your opinion.
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Calm your ego down - him calling to apologize means he cares enough about you to try and make it right. It absolutely does NOT mean your actions are still not unreasonable.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Most Caps barely wanna touch a telephone, much less have our private lives plastered for all the world to see. What you're describing isn't necessarily a red flag.


LOL @ not wanting to touch a telephone - because it's SO TRUE!

OP, when a couple's life is publicized, it becomes less about the couple and their relationship and more about everyone's perception of the relationship.

In my opinion, wanting to keep your relationship private is a sign of respect. My Capricorn, whom I've been with for one year and three months, has yet to post one photo of me on his Facebook. His family knows me, his closest friends know me, his family friends know me...that's enough.

Enjoy things between you two, not between you two and social media. Go on a trip with him - the rest of the world doesn't have to know to validate that you had a good time.
Done!

I can't wait for the results.
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For this to work, does the couple focus on the same mantra during meditation?


I have no idea, how I became interested in it was because I was asked to join. I haven't researched it or anything. But I think if I research it I might get different answers b/c every instructor would be different.. right?!


Yes, that makes sense. Personally, I have always enjoyed a home practice. The one time I decided to stray outside my living room yoga space and venture into an on campus yoga class was also the time the instructor pulled my arms back and then announced aloud how tight my shoulders were. I had begun weight training at that time and that was the reason I decided to go from the gym and into her practice. Her comment really bothered me because it's the antithesis of what yoga is supposed to be about - centering and finding your personal comfort in the asana as well as acknowledging any pain and accepting it - she made it about competition and how "good" you looked in the poses when she then praised those who couldn't touch hands.

I swore to never go into her class again after that.

Anyway, I have to do more reading about it. I've only hear if couple's meditation today, twice now.


😳😳😳 see that's what I'm afraid of, I don't want to enter a competitive atmosphere.. where it feels like the other couples are watching to see who's doing better. I really want to connect on another level with my partner...

So I think I'll try it at home first and then try it in the class setting. So that I could compare the two and choose which one is the better option for my future sessions...
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That's sounds like a great way to go about it 🙂. Do keep us updated on your experiences!
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I got Isis King.

I am officially D.E.A.D.



seraphlight's black sister
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LOL

When you put it that way, it isn't so bad...❤❤❤
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Posted by LillyPetal
For this to work, does the couple focus on the same mantra during meditation?


I have no idea, how I became interested in it was because I was asked to join. I haven't researched it or anything. But I think if I research it I might get different answers b/c every instructor would be different.. right?!
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Yes, that makes sense. Personally, I have always enjoyed a home practice. The one time I decided to stray outside my living room yoga space and venture into an on campus yoga class was also the time the instructor pulled my arms back and then announced aloud how tight my shoulders were. I had begun weight training at that time and that was the reason I decided to go from the gym and into her practice. Her comment really bothered me because it's the antithesis of what yoga is supposed to be about - centering and finding your personal comfort in the asana as well as acknowledging any pain and accepting it - she made it about competition and how "good" you looked in the poses when she then praised those who couldn't touch hands.

I swore to never go into her class again after that.

Anyway, I have to do more reading about it. I've only hear if couple's meditation today, twice now.
I ATE (because I wasn't about to be on DXPnet while my food just sat there) homemade vegan spaghetti and "meat" sauce that my Sea-Goat made while I just kept him company in the kitchen. ☺️ #LittleThingsInLyfe
For this to work, does the couple focus on the same mantra during meditation?
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Posted by LillyPetal
So strange you would ask this.

A synesthesic guy I met on campus asked me today if I wanted to meditate together.



Wow, 🙀🙀
Are you thinking about doing it??
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I don't know. I was at work when he asked, then I had a jazz and opera production to go see with my Sea-Goat, so I told synesthesic that I couldn't.
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I got Beyoncé too. Wtheck, I'm a snowflake. Haha.


These results have officially f**ked me up.


I did the other celeb website they posted and got Irina Shayk... it's a little bit better considering we have some similarities. I just need to allow myself to tan, and maybe it would be closer haha.



Well, that's good.

I need a new face to have similarities to my result.


LOL. Well yeah, I don't look anything like Beyoncé. You should try the other website, see if that one gets you better results.
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😩 It's such a mind cuss that I will need therapy after this.