IS MY SCORPIO MAN GONE...HELP

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LadyT29
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ok, so i am new to this site but i need help regarding my scorpio man. We have been dating for a year...Friday would have mark our one year anniversary. Long story short. Everything seem fine. The last i heard from him was almost a month ago in june the 12th, he called to come over, we had a casual conversation after we made out. He left and i haven't heard from him scinc...this was 3weeks ago on june 12, it is now july 7. I express how i feel via text and email but no response. I try not to bother him much. On Thursday i sent him an "I miss you" poem, the next day (our anniversary) friday 4 i sent him another txt poem for our anniversary....no reply. I left him alone and haven't text him at all after that.. it is now Monday and no contacts. Please help. I miss him.
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tiki33
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Why do you want to be with someone who is deliberately ignoring you? He don't even deserve the "my man" title if he's not being a wonderful available man towards you.

Send one last text, keep it short and to the point. Let him know you're not text messaging him anymore and if he would like to reconnect he'll have to contact you then save your dignity and don't text him anymore or he'll see that he can ignore you and get extra extra attention for his poor behavior.



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Undine
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Do not ever text without a reply to your previous one. If you haven't got a reply after several days, just call him, to make sure he's OK. You need to speak to him (do not leave voice mails).

Ask him calmly, but directly, why he didn't reply and if you two should call it a day. Prepare yourself to face your fears, and imagine a good life for yourself, without him, long before your call. It is probably the last time you speak with him, but at least you've got closure.

If you are more daring, you could pay him a surprise visit at home. Again, keep your cool and prepare to say fare well in a friendly way. Also, prepare to meet his new squeeze, without making a scene (everything is possible). If it's clearly over, keep your dignity and walk away.

Don't tell me you don't know where he lives, after dating him for one year.
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Posted by tiziani
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Posted by tiziani
Maybe he uses the 12 month guideline.



What the hell is that, Tiz?



You get to know one another for a year so that you can decide if you want to move onto a further commitment. Although obviously if you decide after that period to continue or not, you should clearly communicate that with each other.
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Alright, I heard about the 6 months "trial" 🙂.

It depends how often they've seen each other, though.
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Posted by ScorpioHarmony
Your Scorpio man is not interested in you as you think he may be. He's keeping his distance as a way to slowly fade out of the relationship. Do yourself a favour and take charge by asking him what he wants. Don't allow yourself to play 'helpless victim' or else he'll continue to toy with your emotions and walk all over you.


+100. Sounds like you've been accepted scraps off his table for a year now. Maybe it's time to realize you're never going to get your needs met in this relationship and let him go. Why hang on to a man who sees you infrequently and doesn't respond to your messages, let alone initiate them more frequently. Sorry but you are Miss Right Now in his world and if that hasn't changed after 1 year, it won't ever change.