Help Advice about Scorpio Men.

I was seeing a Scorpio man a few months ago. We'll he shifted gears on me and became hurtful. USed the fact that his divorce wasn't final and has too much going on to be in any type of relationship. Well, he's back. Being super sweet and is trying to get me to spill my guts to him. Why is my skin crawling. He hurt me when he went away. The things he said did sting. Like it was my fault he wasn't ready for anything serious. I never asked for serious. Crazy. Should I trust him. Is he trying to get me to talk so he can use the way I feel against me? Why all of sudden out of nowhere and Super sweet?

You posted this..10 days ago..

Posted by my2grlz
I've been in a NSA open relationship with my Aqua guy for well over a year.

Maybe the Scorpio found out?

At this point I wonder why would the Scorpio trust you. Divorce or not.

I always find it funny how untrustworthy people are the first to ask if they should trust others?

It's quite ironic.

Posted by Rabbit
My advice is to forget about the Scorpio.

Cut ties and ignore him.

No way dude, she needs to know how to get his attention to play this against the Aqua she has feelings for.

That's what game players do.

Posted by my2grlz
The intrigue keeps us both coming back, It's not one more than other. It will be interesting. Stay Tuned for all who are curious. A little intellectual game of cat and mouse. I Love the chase less, chase. LOL Confusing...but I believe he'll be well worth the effort. IMHO

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^^Doesn't this sound like being open and honest with people?

I'll stay tuned.

Posted by Rabbit
The Scorpio is going to be the one hurt in all this. Best to just rip the bandage off instead of dragging out the misery.

That doesn't sound like fun to me.

Posted by arietteheart2
I hope you're not planning to use Scorp as an emotional filler bc Aqua is dicking you around.

I bet she plans to pit him against the Aqua so the Aqua finally claims her.

To clarify on my post 10 days....quote ". We've had a couple misunderstandings. One that pushed us in different directions, only to have us crawl back to each other." The Scorpio was well aware of my situation with the Aqua. In fact that's how we met. They also have friends in common. Annnd, Scorpio reached out to me. Aqua is also aware of Scorpio and I. From the beginning. I have never been dishonest. I am only trying to figure out. WHY after months of silence he has decided to talk to me?? I am confused. I am by no means playing anyone. I suck at games. I am just trying to understand how men think sometimes. They want NSA they wanna come and go as they please. But get butt hurt when they find out I'm not at home crying in my pillow. I still meet people. Doesn't mean I sleep with everyone I meet. As for judging me. I've been 20 years in committed relationship. I am just living my life the best I can right now. Being single does get lonely. I am hopeful the right guy for me does exist. But I also happy for the freedom....Also,I don't ask these guys for crap. After a year Aqua has NEVER even met my children. My choice!....I understand I wasn't very clear in my original post. But dang you guys are quick to jump to conclusions. Thanks for all the input. Think I'll stick with my intuition and assume the Scorpio has ulterior motives as to why he's contacted me again.

To clarify.. I do Love the Aqua. But I need more. As hard as it was. I walked away from that situation shortly after my last post. It hurt too much to continue. It is what it is. And that's what it is. The Scorpio got what he wanted and moved on. Someone said he probably wants a NSA. I couldn't agree more. Think I'll pass on that.

And YES... his divorce finalizes next month.

That's why I came here. I don't understand why be an ass, then be gone...then come back? Annd, If I want to be interrogated I'll just chat with the Damn Scorpio?

Posted by my2grlz
I was seeing a Scorpio man a few months ago. We'll he shifted gears on me and became hurtful. USed the fact that his divorce wasn't final and has too much going on to be in any type of relationship. Well, he's back. Being super sweet and is trying to get me to spill my guts to him. Why is my skin crawling. He hurt me when he went away. The things he said did sting. Like it was my fault he wasn't ready for anything serious. I never asked for serious. Crazy. Should I trust him. Is he trying to get me to talk so he can use the way I feel against me? Why all of sudden out of nowhere and Super sweet?

Ask yourself first why you care to entertain the idea repeating a poor choice? Answer that and a light might go off.

...and what the hell is NSA??

damn kids

oh...I see lol The new socially accepted with an attempt of respect for FUCK BUDDIES?

You gotta be kidding me! smfh

I like

He just went from being cool was good with the situation. Him going through a divorce and fighting for custody. I understand he had a lot on his plate. I never asked for more than he was willing to give. I was also looking for a better place to rent when we met. He offered me to rent his basement apartment. I thought it was a bad idea. Then he comes back with. "Yeah it is a bad idea. I don't want us to fall into some weird relationship I rather not be in. Besides I have too much going on this would never work." Etc... When I tried to talk to him to smooth things out he got more irritated and starting picking apart my character flaws. Which as a Pisces I wear my heart on my sleeve. So yes I get hurt. Something about him turns me into freaking a freaking sappy l mush ball. His logic in his arguments are hard for me to keep up with. When he's done making a point I am left speechless. So I walked away. Maybe the truth hurt. Who knows. I just want to understand. Why be so hurtful. Then come back like nothing happened? My nature is to forgive people. Take everything as a lesson to apply to my life to be better. I want to believe his intentions are good. I trust people too much. That's why I came here.

Posted by Damnata
I always find it funny how untrustworthy people are the first to ask if they should trust others?

It's quite ironic.

Wow, if this is the case, that's really messed up.

Posted by my2grlz
That's why I came here. I don't understand why be an ass, then be gone...then come back? Annd, If I want to be interrogated I'll just chat with the Damn Scorpio?

Maybe he liked you, got sick of your shit with the aqua, then was hoping you grew up a little.

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Posted by Damnata
I always find it funny how untrustworthy people are the first to ask if they should trust others?

It's quite ironic.

Wow, if this is the case, that's really messed up.

It is. People who are doing things always accuse the other person of doing that same thing. For example, if you are a big liar--you think everyone is lying to you.

Not YOU but in general.

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Wait... are you lying to me? 😛

Posted by LetltB
oh...I see lol The new socially accepted with an attempt of respect for FUCK BUDDIES?

You gotta be kidding me! smfh

I'm young and have had girls treat me with this, "well I can still see you and others because it's not official blah blah blah." They got kicked to the curb really quickly. I don't play that shit. If you're mine, you're mine. Period.

Posted by my2grlz I want to believe his intentions are good..

"We'll he shifted gears on me and became hurtful."
"Why is my skin crawling. He hurt me when he went away."
"The Scorpio got what he wanted and moved on. "
""Yeah it is a bad idea. I don't want us to fall into some weird relationship I rather not be in.""
"When I tried to talk to him to smooth things out he got more irritated and starting picking apart my character flaws. "

If you cave, it's not his fault. He showed his true colors once, the fact that you forgot is the problem.

Posted by Shruikan

I'm young and have had girls treat me with this, "well I can still see you and others because it's not official blah blah blah." They got kicked to the curb really quickly. I don't play that shit. If you're mine, you're mine. Period.

Applauds you! Every guy should do this! I see women string men around all the time until they think something better will pop up. Then when they realize it's a "wham bam see ya" they think they can run back tug on that ole string again. Burn that string! When they end up alone repeatedly, they may think twice next time.

Posted by Juicysbaby214
And this is exactly why i dnt create posts about my.personal.life. what one woman can handle.other women cant. I made that mistake once on my old sn and they tried to eat me alive. In the end i got no advice and called all of them solonely bitter internet bats. Youre choice baby girl. I wish i knew what scorpio man was thinking i.wld tell you!

Yea...I would suggest that if you are coming here to hear the truth it works. If you are coming here for answers YOU want to hear, you're going to feel that way. Understood. Think before you ask I guess..

FWB, Fuck Buddy... now NSA? Seriously?
How does one keep track of all the flag indicators of the various minefields we could be finding ourselves in?
Who started this shit anyway?

I quit. (for 2.75 more months at least) Lol

Posted by my2grlz
me?? I am confused. I am by no means playing anyone. I suck at games. I am just trying to understand how men think sometimes.

You say this..but the person saying this:

Posted by my2grlz
The intrigue keeps us both coming back, It's not one more than other. It will be interesting. Stay Tuned for all who are curious. A little intellectual game of cat and mouse. I Love the chase less, chase. LOL Confusing...but I believe he'll be well worth the effort. IMHO

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..is also you. and it's also how game players think.

I don't buy your act.

Posted by Shruikan

Posted by Damnata
I always find it funny how untrustworthy people are the first to ask if they should trust others?

It's quite ironic.

Wow, if this is the case, that's really messed up.

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Yes.

Cheaters will always be extremely jealous of their partner the moment they begin cheating. When my ex started being jealous, that should've been the cue for me that smthg was up. Instead of that, I really believe he just had some insecurities. Nope.

Posted by my2grlz
To clarify.. I do Love the Aqua.

Good. Stick with that.

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Lulz. The last post I see is mine. Bitter bitch posting!

You must be one of the stupidest Scorpios to come on this board.

Don't worry, you showed your stupidity a long time ago on the Virgo Board. Keep doing you.

I know you cannot read this but good luck. Maybe you can grow up one day?

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Bitch, I never posted on the virgo forum. You wish I did bitch. You bitter, ugly, hating, ass, trick. You ain't shit. And you will get eaten alive by a woman like me bitch. Fuck everything you do and everything you stand for. Youre a jealous aries moon mars you aint getting no where in life bitch. And this is the last address youll get from me. Fuck you and everything you do. Ugly ass bitch.

Psycho, you did.

I have an excellent memory. Btw it's hilarious how people who supposedly block others go back and read their posts. Coward much?

You're starting to descend into edenesque madness and that's sad.

Posted by my2grlz
........ USed the fact that his divorce wasn't final and has too much going on to be in any type of relationship. ............

Dude probably went back to his wife for some pre-finalized divorce sex.
Stay away from married men, nothing but drama.