Leo Male Aries Female

Anyone who can read charts and know if this relationship is doomed to fail or a match made?

Me: April 2 1977
Him: July 24th 1980

It seems a roller coaster of ups and downs sometimes and makes me feel off balance and thats not normal for an Aries woman. I dont mind not being in control 24/7 so thats not it.
Any help would be great. :-)

There's always threads on dxp regarding the head butting between Aries women and Leo men lol! I share your birthday but "my" Leo is August so can't give you a direct comparison, but a question EA... I though you and your Leo guy were ok in the main?

What's happened? :/

Posted by AriesGirl74
There's always threads on dxp regarding the head butting between Aries women and Leo men lol! I share your birthday but "my" Leo is August so can't give you a direct comparison, but a question EA... I though you and your Leo guy were ok in the main?

What's happened? :/

We are both control freaks, we butt there and there is no way a male lion will back down! lol

Leo's have this sense of needing to be adored and their ego stroked all the time. Which ok, thats fine I can deal with that. But he is soooooooo sensitive about how I come across: example :" he gets a hair cut and I see him after and say "wow you went really short" now he's all booty hurt that I am saying it looks like crap" REALLY!!!! I'm an Aries, if I thought it looked like crap, I WOULD SAY IT! lol

We are also from two very different worlds, which has been weighing on our relationship for a few weeks now.... I figured it was time to look to the bones of our charts—

Posted by AriesGirl74
There's always threads on dxp regarding the head butting between Aries women and Leo men lol! I share your birthday but "my" Leo is August so can't give you a direct comparison, but a question EA... I though you and your Leo guy were ok in the main?

What's happened? :/

Happy late B-day btw! 😉

Awe, and same to you! ——

Yeah a lot of sites say we can get on but the ego stroking is damn hard work. I think they are shocked at the directness of what we say. And yes they take things too personal! In the past I have got the ice treatment from mine and I find myself having to apologise a lot - something I never usually do- with other people I'm usually like "Pfft...get over it!"

I've looked at compatability sites before but basically it boils down to general Aries/Leo traits. An explosive combo, with lots of passion blah blah but issues with who's the boss and who's more stubborn and who will relent first.

Yes they always think they are right, and I'm too old to get into an argument about it! I have found that "there is more than one way to skin a cat" as the saying goes and you do have to think of saying things on a different way to a Leo to get the same point across.

We too are from VERY different "places" in our lives but it's only an issue if you let it be. Sometimes I have thought it an issue but for me it's down to my insecurity about it.

Posted by AriesGirl74
Awe, and same to you! ——

Yeah a lot of sites say we can get on but the ego stroking is damn hard work. I think they are shocked at the directness of what we say. And yes they take things too personal! In the past I have got the ice treatment from mine and I find myself having to apologise a lot - something I never usually do- with other people I'm usually like "Pfft...get over it!"

I've looked at compatability sites before but basically it boils down to general Aries/Leo traits. An explosive combo, with lots of passion blah blah but issues with who's the boss and who's more stubborn and who will relent first.

Yes they always think they are right, and I'm too old to get into an argument about it! I have found that "there is more than one way to skin a cat" as the saying goes and you do have to think of saying things on a different way to a Leo to get the same point across.

We too are from VERY different "places" in our lives but it's only an issue if you let it be. Sometimes I have thought it an issue but for me it's down to my insecurity about it.

^^^ I agree with everything you just said......

We Aries woman are sooo different from most, I think they are attracted to our drive, leadership, and independence..... But they need that ego trip all the time.
I love going out with him and letting him mingle with other woman so they can feed that for awhile and I can sit back relax and laugh about it. Maybe we need to go out more.. lol


The different world thing is hard.... Trying to work through it, I love Leo's to a fault!

I'm sorry my birth chart say I am very provoking could this be a turn off for a leo. I am currently going through the ice treatment. at times I'm turned on by it, that I make it worse intentionally. Anyway, he always comes back like nothing is wrong and lately I have been at fault. This is where we bump heads when he is in the wrong he apologizes and I get over it immediately but when I'm in the wrong he drags it for a long period of time and gives me a cold shoulder. Not only that he is allowed to bring up my past mistakes but when I do the same to him he doesn't want to hear it. I find the butter hilarious. Because the reaction never changes. It may seem like a game but I feed off of his energy which is weird. I do feel bad because he gets hurt, but we approach our perspectives differently.

Posted by aries89dc
I'm sorry my birth chart say I am very provoking could this be a turn off for a leo. I am currently going through the ice treatment. at times I'm turned on by it, that I make it worse intentionally. Anyway, he always comes back like nothing is wrong and lately I have been at fault. This is where we bump heads when he is in the wrong he apologizes and I get over it immediately but when I'm in the wrong he drags it for a long period of time and gives me a cold shoulder. Not only that he is allowed to bring up my past mistakes but when I do the same to him he doesn't want to hear it. I find the butter hilarious. Because the reaction never changes. It may seem like a game but I feed off of his energy which is weird. I do feel bad because he gets hurt, but we approach our perspectives differently.

Sounds about right! Feeding off their SUN, grrr... they have this hold over us, its the only sign that does!

Posted by GreyRobe
i can honestly say that leo men truly do love aries women. I know there are asshole leos but even they miss the aries women they were rude to. Aries girls can annoy me but there is a part of aries that is very dear to leo male. It makes me weak in the knees. I am not sure if it is the innocence or that frank courageous spirit but whatever it is it works.

aries women need to be destroyed in bed a few times and leos know how to do it......

Yeah it is a combo that has a strong hold over each other; I have learnt (the hard way) that you have to deal with a Leo in a completely different way. But they act so tough all the time they can make things hard work. I've seen my Leo vulnerable a couple of times and I now appreciate that he allowed me to see that, which makes me like him more if that makes sense. Their vulnerability is very sweet, especially when they can act so tough; if not a little dramatic. It's always more successful to be in the moment with a Leo rather than fret over the future and whether things will work out or not.

Plus this...?
aries women need to be destroyed in bed a few times and leos know how to do it......

Erm yep!!!!! 😄

Yeah but GR, as a Leo how do you feel when an Aries woman appears to have hurt your feelings somehow, without her realising she has done it? Like a couple of us have received the silent treatment and it also appears that Leos can forgive, but possibly not forget? How can a Leo/Aries combo get past that?

Posted by AriesGirl74
Yeah but GR, as a Leo how do you feel when an Aries woman appears to have hurt your feelings somehow, without her realising she has done it? Like a couple of us have received the silent treatment and it also appears that Leos can forgive, but possibly not forget? How can a Leo/Aries combo get past that?

^^^ All that and how do you get them to be less sensitive to what we say?

But tonnes of Aries (plus other signs) on here also have trouble dealing with their appearing/disappearing shit. Like when u try n contact them they've read whatever but they don't respond, it's like rude you know? Plus there's a huge difference with timescales etc; they are on the go slow when it suits them when we want a response but get ass-y if you don't respond. Aries always feel like they have to compromise too much in this combo...

Posted by AriesGirl74
But tonnes of Aries (plus other signs) on here also have trouble dealing with their appearing/disappearing shit. Like when u try n contact them they've read whatever but they don't respond, it's like rude you know? Plus there's a huge difference with timescales etc; they are on the go slow when it suits them when we want a response but get ass-y if you don't respond. Aries always feel like they have to compromise too much in this combo...

Very true... but there has to be a balance.... some way somehow

Leo's have us, like no other sign.. ;-(

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Posted by AriesGirl74
But tonnes of Aries (plus other signs) on here also have trouble dealing with their appearing/disappearing shit. Like when u try n contact them they've read whatever but they don't respond, it's like rude you know? Plus there's a huge difference with timescales etc; they are on the go slow when it suits them when we want a response but get ass-y if you don't respond. Aries always feel like they have to compromise too much in this combo...

Very true... but there has to be a balance.... some way somehow

Leo's have us, like no other sign.. ;-(

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Well you both need to want it to work, but I'm not sure if it can't be an equal balance between these two signs. It ends up with constant tipping of the scales, push pull all the time never seemingly getting that equilibrium.

They do have us, but only if you let them, coz they can suck the energy out of you if you're not careful. Fucking Leo kryptonite lol

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by EmotionalAries

Posted by AriesGirl74
But tonnes of Aries (plus other signs) on here also have trouble dealing with their appearing/disappearing shit. Like when u try n contact them they've read whatever but they don't respond, it's like rude you know? Plus there's a huge difference with timescales etc; they are on the go slow when it suits them when we want a response but get ass-y if you don't respond. Aries always feel like they have to compromise too much in this combo...

Very true... but there has to be a balance.... some way somehow

Leo's have us, like no other sign.. ;-(

Well you both need to want it to work, but I'm not sure if it can't be an equal balance between these two signs. It ends up with constant tipping of the scales, push pull all the time never seemingly getting that equilibrium.

They do have us, but only if you let them, coz they can suck the energy out of you if you're not careful. Fucking Leo kryptonite lol

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Yeah, we are supposed to feed off there SUN, andf I feel like its sucking all mine out!

the disappearing thing isnt good. for any sign. Any guy who pulled that with me, wasnt really into me. the guys who were never did that shit.

Posted by bkbella86
the disappearing thing isnt good. for any sign. Any guy who pulled that with me, wasnt really into me. the guys who were never did that shit.

No it's not good 😢 n now I'm getting the words back, but I'm not convinced at all until I see the action. Trust has gone see...