libra vs. scorpio

I'm a libra female (I started the thread "lovers to strangers").This past couple of weeks my ex a pisces (who btw is not even legally divorced yet but seperated) has been paying me alot of attention and approaching me(I work with him) but 90% of the time our conversation has been mostly about work. I've been taking most of the advise from the wonderful people here on dxp which is to not communicate with him on a personal level and move on with my life and that's what i've been doing.I've been working out, eating healthy going out and having fun, I bought myself a new car. I can actually say that I'm feeling good and beautiful inside and out,I threw most of my clothes and change my whole wardrobe and been getting alot of attention and compliments and lets say i'm becoming very popular at work. Yesterday gf of my ex who is a scorpio(who btw is married with two kids)approached me and her exact words were "you want to compete with me? i'll give you competition" I was caught off guard, I was speechless, I was so shocked, I know nobody knows that her bf and me had an affair everybody knows we're just friends. I want to say something but I don't want to stoop to her level. I was trying to move on for crying out loud!! I can definitely compete with her if I want to but I won't like I said I won't stoop to her level. Should I tell her bf what she told me? I don't want to be part of this mess!! But i'm just curious libra vs.scorpio who do you think will win? lol. I know we're very different.

scorp will - they're relentless and she'll be fighting long after you've given up and walked away...or someone else has caught your attention 😉

Is it a sign of weakness though if i don't fight back?Should I just turn the other cheek all the time.

Why fight when you don't want the prize?

this is where I don't get it , if you're over him and want to move on then why bothers what a PSYCHO SCORP said ? If she bothers you , just call polices !
Revenge , fighting , manipulation , games playing aren't LOVE . I don't understand how can people keep getting hook in this dark instinct when we can do better !!! Show little mercy for yourself , remember how you were ... a little baby ... coming out from your mother's wormb ...you're pretty and innocent... 🙂

I dont want the prize anymore.They deserve each other. I'm a much better person than the two of them combined.

Is that typical of a scorpio woman though when they are insecure or when she loves someone? I know my pisces ex is not very confontational.

Frankly , I think it depends on various factors like education , tradition , people you interact with rather than just a star sign or a few planets . I'm a Scorp but I never do this type of PSYCHO ACT ! I truly believe that if you do game playings and revenge , you only hurt yourself and noone else. If a woman acts irrationally towards me , I usually feel pity for her but I know she's just a human being so I never hold a grudge towards her or judge her. However , if she actually hurt me physically (which I find impossible if it's hand combat since I've learnt quite abit of martial arts myself!) then I'll tell her to get some help or give her a warning that polices are coming !Fortunately , this never happens to me so Thank GOD 🙂

* Yesterday gf of my ex who is a scorpio(who btw is married with two kids)approached me and her exact words were "you want to compete with me? i'll give you competition" I was caught off guard, I was speechless, I was so shocked, I know nobody knows that her bf and me had an affair everybody knows we're just friends. I want to say something but I don't want to stoop to her level

Rise above.

* Why fight when you don't want the prize?

OMG! This is possibly the best advice I have read on these boards. I love it. So true.

You aren't in competition with anyone but yourself. If she is jealous and weird, let her be. It has very little to do with you, it has to do with her relationship to her bf and herself.

Just keep on keepin' on.

BTW, I am totally envious about your new wardrobe. 🙂

She may be a scorp but I don't think that's scorp behavior. It must be some other influence. It's definitely a sign of immaturity. Scorps usually don't start conflicts, as a matter of fact we usually try to avoid them because it takes so much out of us, because the conflict isn't over until we feel we have sufficeintly gotten "revenge" which could mean months or years of conflict (who has that kind of time), we basically have to feel like we were attacked first and then watch out. And even this is a sign of a immature scorp. Although, I definitely admit to been there/done that.

However, I think in this instance, you can remove astrology and just deal with the fact that you're dealing with a very insecure person and I agree with everyone else that you should just forget about her. Eventually, when she sees that she's having no effect on you, she will begin to look and hopefully feel stupid for this childish behavior. One of you will have to be the adult and it's clearly not going to be her. Also, never compete for any man.