Libran man giving mixed signals to Scorpio woman.

How does a Libran guy's mind work? "Commitment Freak" is the most common and most definitive answer I gather. Great.. But worth a try?? You tell me.. Read on!!

So before i start with the longish account.. here's some relevant background info:
I'm an Indian woman(29), single and very Scorpio. In india most marriages are arranged by parents (yes! i know!!) But its not all that bad - you meet up suitors online and the families fix the marriage provided the children agree and in some cases like mine the astrological compatibility is thouroughly checked on a 36 point scale (called "gunas" just in case).

So anyway, last week this Libran guy (29) approached me online. We exchanged our numbers and he called up promptly. I was pretty happy with the way our conversation went and he seemed to be a nice guy (he fared far better than the other guys on the matrimonial portal). He seemed honest and at ease with himself. The horoscope match was half done on his side apparently so he kept saying that he would call before leaving for the USA this weekend.This meant he wouldn't be available on his current number and I would have to wait on him to call me. ( I must admit here that there was no way he was goofing around as most of the conversation was very serious in nature.)
next day i texted him asking about the horoscope match verdict. His reply was curt - " I just tried checking it on my own on some websites and it looks like it matches. I will let u know as soon as i hear from our professional astrologer though."

4 days and counting, he hasn't gotten in touch. He must have reached the US now and i don't have his number. Not that i would have called but i feel a lot more helpless this way.

In the mean time, the Scorp in me has been hissing for immediate attention. I don't like waiting around. Period. At the same time i found this guy quite nice and wouldn't wanna let him go without an answer.

And day 5 (Today), i tried the hackneyed procedure to stop obsessing about someone you cant seem to make yours. Yes!! Make a list of the things that he sucks at 😄

So here goes.. the reasons why I shoudn't wait for a Libran guy giving mixed signals:-
(PS: its more like a note to self, not intended to hurt anyone.. read on!)

1)Libran guy - Really? Haven't you always warned your gals pals against them?? You didnt have luck with the so called safe water signs (Piscean and Cancerean men) in the past but this guy you fancy!! NICE..

2)Flirtatious by birth (and i

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1)Libran guy - Really? Haven't you always warned your gals pals against them?? You didnt have luck with the so called safe water signs (Piscean and Cancerean men) in the past but this guy you fancy!! NICE..

2)Flirtatious by birth (and i mean clinical levels).

3)Overtly social by default (Scorp says opposites attract but this is one's a stretch!)

4)Charming but in a Superficial way.

5)If you the Scorp can't make small talk - rest assured the Libran will more than make up for it in your life!

6)In his quest for "balancing things out" he will have NO TIME FOR YOU. in a Scorp's diction, this means WAR!

Having said so, I was still toying with the idea of adding him on Facebook (hey i'm attractive and popular, maybe we could be friends first 😉

But I made a final note to self :
How things could turn worse if once i add him on FB.

BTW, if you have been with me so far - thanks! Don't stop yet .. m almost done 😛

~ You send him a friend request. Libran takes 4 whole days to accept it.. "Busy much??" you are a little bummed.
~ Next coupla days you spend hoping he will message you on Facebook. But he doesn't. So you have basically made an ass of yourself - he didn't need to explain himself plus he gets to jerk-off learing at your pictures. Mezel Tov!!
~ Uh oh!! Should I message him instead and say hello?? WOW! this is starting to get real Boring and Insulting for the Scorp. (Bumming hard now, BTW)

So lets speculate what could happen if message him in full despair ( my last attempt to "win" him, if you will). Now one of the two things happen ( Relax, even the Scorp's clairvoyance can fog-up under obsession :-P )

Option 1:
Libran guy acts like an ass and deletes your post. So thanks to an upgraded feature on FB, you can actually see that he read your message but never replied to it.
Hmphh!! Silver Lining? Well, at least you didn't waste more time waiting on him! Typical nonsense!!

Option 2:
Libran guy takes ages to reply. and when he Finally does, all he manages to say is " ... I'm not in a hurry to settle down yet.." (Please read.. "Hey clingy!! I'm done here, please take the hint and leave"). So in this case, you mail him an acidic goodbye and block him..!

Either of the above options leaves you High and Dry! You are now officially fuming - talking to acquaintances about how he was just not good enough for you and how you deserve someone more special.

Phew, so it probably makes more sense to take

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Phew, so it probably makes more sense to take the High Road and wait till he calls. or not? 🙂