Any other Sun Libras with scorp venus?

How do you process all the feelings you have? I feel tortured. I'm capricorn moon and always trying to keep my cool. I think it pushes people away because they think I'm not into them..

Yep, I have a Scorpio moon AND venus! LOL. I'm new to all of this so I will be interested to hear what people say, but I do feel emotion a lot. Sometimes acting on it has got me very negative responses and I am learning that favouring my libra approach seems to get a better response in the long run. For me, leaving plenty of time to process feelings helps them to subside and makes them easier to deal with.

I seem to attract the wrong people - married men etc. Not much success attracting someone available like me. Sigh.

libnicole84,I have an Aquarius Moon,and I do the same thing. I try to keep my cool and that messed up a lot of relationships for me.

Posted by Air
libnicole84,I have an Aquarius Moon,and I do the same thing. I try to keep my cool and that messed up a lot of relationships for me.

I,too, am Libra Sun - Scorpio Venus. I do not "play" it cool, but I come off that way. My 18 year old told me that if she did not know any better, she would swear that smoked marijuana because I am always so chilled. But, I do not know any other way to be because THAT is me being me. Now, I would love to change all of that and actually SHOW my emotions. I do not always have the emotions until AFTER the fact, when I am analyzing them. It seems I am meant to be a loner because NOBODY is ever going to understand me. I do not even feel bad about that anymore. Better to be alone than to be constantly misunderstood...I at least do not have to try to explain what I meant/intended.

I feel the same way too, I attract people that are taken and never the ones I want. Its funny cuz I feel so lonely its hurt. People want me to think positively and say that I would find someone but I dont think so. I believe Libra sun with venus in scorp are doomed to be alone.

Why do you think we r doomed to be alone

I like that. It's so true. When I like someone and care about them their happiness makes me happy and id do anything for them. I'm just not
Hmm.

Posted by oldskoolflavor
I feel like ..

people give a lot of credit to verbal reassurance,
and little to zero to your actions .. they care a lot about how you make them *feel*,
not that much about what you've done for them

if lucky enough,
you'll meet someone who's more about actions than words
someone with good intentions, hopefully

you won't have to justify your aloofness ..
he'll sense that behind your cool exterior, your emotions do run deep
he'll get that you don't wanna be too vulnerable too soon ..
you won't feel like you have to play a parental figure figure too often
(assuming you go through all of this)

there's a libra sun, venus in scorp I used to live w/
so far, only person I've met who truly gets me

I'd like you to read that post in 7 or 8 years time again. See how hard you're going to laugh at how unaware and selfish you used to be, needless to say you wont believe in a word of your current life philosophy.

We all go from a ME ME ME, -the world is against me- kind of phase to a "LOL LOL LOL -we are all imperfect therefore we better put ourselves in other people's shoes- philosophy.

Posted by oldskoolflavor
ps: how come lots of people are 'stuck' in a self-centered life approach ?

Its called growing up, some people never get to that stage, sadly.