Men and Cap Women

Why is it that the men want to stay with them even when they only want to use the guy & treat them bad? I find a lot of men weak who even rides that roller coaster. It's not just to dump it all on Cap women but they're the only women I know who treat guys bad and use them and the guys still hold on to hope thinking that things will change? My ex was with a cap and the guy now "so called" ex is a cap and I'm soon about to move on because if a guy can't believe that true luv can exist drama free & wants to put up with that well surely there is more fish in the sea. I just want to understand the lesson in this being the 2nd time I know it's something to learn from it but what? I mean why would u choose hell over heaven? & why r the guys I encounter ex's or significant others cap women?

Yeah, we're just evil and thrive on hurting people - and your guys are masochists.

No offense to u guys they just make it bad 4 sum1 who is able to give them what they claim they r looking for & thx that's tru

My guess is that we mostly appear "bad/tough" or whatsoever to people who aren't sticking as strongly to their boundaries as we do.

I have 6 planets in cap - I don't take any BS and I have very very high demands only a strong man with a strong heart and even stronger mind can fulfill. If he doesn't than I'm on to someone who does.

Sounds cruel and selfish. but caps are about the real deal.. no time for things or people who can't meet our demands + we have very high demands about ourselves!

for example, if a guy wants to date me he has to pay for dinner/cinema etc etc he gotta show big effort. if I approve him to be worthy of my time and love I'll give back 10x !!

but I'd never use a man for money

plus men stick to women who have selfrespect and boundaries like glue. I'm not talkin about abusive cap bitches but I'm talkin about cap ladies who won't settle for less and those are the ones wo get the big effort from a man who respects her and really wants her.

Oh ok

Where these guys at?? I have yet to meet one, although I'm not a user.

Anyway, you don't know the details and you are only hearing their side of the story. I NEVER completely trust a males side of the story smh.

Caps can have both extremely bad and extremely good qualities imo. I could see how someone could miss the good from time to time. For a long time I didn't think my friend was over his Cap ex, and he told me a couple of crazy things. With some guys, maybe the drama make things more memorable. Idk.

Posted by P3n3lop3
Why is it that the men want to stay with them even when they only want to use the guy & treat them bad? I find a lot of men weak who even rides that roller coaster. It's not just to dump it all on Cap women but they're the only women I know who treat guys bad and use them and the guys still hold on to hope thinking that things will change? My ex was with a cap and the guy now "so called" ex is a cap and I'm soon about to move on because if a guy can't believe that true luv can exist drama free & wants to put up with that well surely there is more fish in the sea. I just want to understand the lesson in this being the 2nd time I know it's something to learn from it but what? I mean why would u choose hell over heaven? & why r the guys I encounter ex's or significant others cap women?

Why do women stay with men who treat THEM bad?

Posted by P3n3lop3
No offense to u guys they just make it bad 4 sum1 who is able to give them what they claim they r looking for & thx that's tru

So some guy you like is seeing a capricorn instead of you? A little butt hurt here maybe?

See, here's what you DON'T see: you don't see how things are behind closed doors. You don't see the inner mechanisms of their relationship. You're on the outside looking in. You're only getting the outer view of their relationship. Cap women DO know how to take care of their man and our men know this and experience it first hand.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
plus men stick to women who have selfrespect and boundaries like glue. I'm not talkin about abusive cap bitches but I'm talkin about cap ladies who won't settle for less and those are the ones wo get the big effort from a man who respects her and really wants her.

yep

A cappy made me into the man I am today. My business, my approach to life, live outside your comfort zone. Strive to be better than the best. Those were traits she chiseled into my brain. Before I met her I was kind of all over the place. Jack of all trades, master of none type guy. Just watching life pass me by. She pushed me to achieve major goals in my life, and she backed up the talk with her own life examples, and by being hands on with me.

I really cannot say anything bad about my cappy experience. There are two type of ppl in life:

Those that strive and those that settle. The two are not compatible either.

Posted by LynxSA
A cappy made me into the man I am today. My business, my approach to life, live outside your comfort zone. Strive to be better than the best. Those were traits she chiseled into my brain. Before I met her I was kind of all over the place. Jack of all trades, master of none type guy. Just watching life pass me by. She pushed me to achieve major goals in my life, and she backed up the talk with her own life examples, and by being hands on with me.

I really cannot say anything bad about my cappy experience. There are two type of ppl in life:

Those that strive and those that settle. The two are not compatible either.

Wow! A few months ago someone said something similar to me. He told me that I was the one who encouraged him to see what he was made of. He thanked me and said that he always considered me as the one that got away. It was sweet and meant a lot.

Yeah, we had a very good relationship. We had a lot of fun, and we both learned a lot from each other. I can't recall a single time I ever got mad at her, or that we had a single argument. We were like each other's rock, but with all that said, I don't think there was ever love in our relationship. There was admiration, and respect for sure, but at least me, I can't say I loved her. Nor would I say she loved me. We were just right place, right time, at that point in time, in our respectful lives type deal. She saw a guy with potential, and took me on as a project. I saw a woman who I admired for her work ethic, and commitment and approach to life. We motivated, and pushed each other, and accomplished a lot, but eventually things just fizzled out. Actually finished is a better word. Once we got what we wanted out of each other, the connection wasn't there anymore, so we both moved on. We stayed friends for a while, but once I got into another relationship she quickly distanced herself. Which I understand. To her that would be improper, and to an extent I agree.