Men being Visual

Question for the men..women you can chime in about if you feel it's acceptable to you....

Have you settled for a beautiful Susie homemaker yet followed every half naked woman on Instagram or Facebook? Has a need for visual stimulation ever make waves in a current or past relationship?

Ladies, do you feel it is okay for men to follow half naked ladies on these social networks? Confidence aside..you can have tons of it but feel that such acts are cheating. Some women settle for it saying men will do it regardless. But is this truly a reason to allow what some say is disrespect?

A mature man would go beyond what his loins wants and not disrespect the one he loves. Everyone looks at others. It is human nature but there is a line..that one should not cross. I feel liking and following such women on social networks puts a large strain on a relationship.

Just wondering I was having a debate about it..I said I would ask others. Pisces men have been the only ones I know who are highly sexual in a visual perspective...Porn, Instagram..Facebook you name it they over did it in an obsessive way. Yet stated they were in love with their partners.

Couldn't have said it better Tiz. The only reason why'd I'd get with those half naked women or shall I hos is simply to bang em. I'm not their partner nor will I be their husband hell no. I have a lot more decency and better standards than those hos.

Posted by tiziani
This question is so easy. Just marry a woman you find on Instagram. Case solved.

LOL

So I am to assume that so far the answer is no..you don't go trolling sexy half naked women on Social networks and commenting how hot they are. You guys visual at all—??


Porn—?? what about that?

"Ladies, do you feel it is okay for men to follow half naked ladies on these social networks? Confidence aside..you can have tons of it but feel that such acts are cheating. Some women settle for it saying men will do it regardless. But is this truly a reason to allow what some say is disrespect?"

So what if he looks at naked women on instagram, porn, playboy mags, etc. It's no different than looking at the swimsuit edition of sports illustrated, ok maybe a tad more skin and other bits pieces involved but /shrug

imo NO it's not cheating. Actually going out & touching a REAL female now that is cheating. Dude making comments about hot attractive someone is, still IMO isn't cheating, hell I point out hot girls to guys I have dated. Now, if he makes a move to try to pursue said women, then it's on and yes THAT is cheating.

Man are visual period, they ARE going to look. To me looking at hot women is not disrespectful, it's the actions that come into play that are or could be.

Social media is seriously destroying male/female interactions. Way too many females read into what guys do or say on those sites.. "OMG he liked my picture= he is into me". No, he liked your picture because he LIKED the PICTURE.

Posted by SpinCycle
Question for the men..women you can chime in about if you feel it's acceptable to you....

Have you settled for a beautiful Susie homemaker yet followed every half naked woman on Instagram or Facebook? Has a need for visual stimulation ever make waves in a current or past relationship?

Ladies, do you feel it is okay for men to follow half naked ladies on these social networks? Confidence aside..you can have tons of it but feel that such acts are cheating. Some women settle for it saying men will do it regardless. But is this truly a reason to allow what some say is disrespect?

A mature man would go beyond what his loins wants and not disrespect the one he loves. Everyone looks at others. It is human nature but there is a line..that one should not cross. I feel liking and following such women on social networks puts a large strain on a relationship.

Just wondering I was having a debate about it..I said I would ask others. Pisces men have been the only ones I know who are highly sexual in a visual perspective...Porn, Instagram..Facebook you name it they over did it in an obsessive way. Yet stated they were in love with their partners.

It depends. Do they know them? If not and there's no way they're going to have a chance with them, then what's wrong with it? If they follow Jenna Jamison? Who cares. It's not like they're going to cheat with her.

Posted by justagirl
"Social media is seriously destroying male/female interactions. Way too many females read into what guys do or say on those sites.. "OMG he liked my picture= he is into me". No, he liked your picture because he LIKED the PICTURE.

+ 1 million trillion!

Then again, I have a cancer friend. If her husband even peeks at porn, she goes into panic mode thinking she's not good enough and he's not attracted to her. Geesh!!! I just tell her maybe he's watching porn trying to find a new position or technique to bring into their bedroom to try to please her better. She should view it as an instructional video, be glad he's trying to learn something new and quit freaking out. Men are gonna watch porn. No big deal! (ok, so I threw a twist on it, but it calms her down).

I could only imagine what she would think if he were commenting on pics on social media....