my first virgo romance. Needing advice....

Okay, so I've been crushing on this dude for a while (I'm a chick). He and I worked together for almost a year. I had a HUGE crush on him like soon after I started working with him. But I was with someone else (we weren't right for each other), and his best friend really really liked me. So, he never even showed any signs of being attracted to me. But we got along really well. Then, me moved to California (I'm in Arkansas). He's been there for over a month now. He sent me a text two nights ago.

He sent me a text to ask me about selling something (I wont mention it in this message). After we were texting for a few minutes he began to get flirty. This came as a shock to me. But the conversation escalated into quite a romantic one. He
told me that he has liked me for quite a while. But he never said anything because he "knew" I would say no. He also said
he wants me to come visit him.

I asked him if he had found any girls he liked there. Maybe that question was too personal,
but I was really confused as to why he'd wait until after he moved to tell me about his feelings. He said, "of course I've seen hot ones, but none that I'm interested in."

I did a swell job of forgetting about him after he moved, but he abruptly reminded me how much I have liked him. I have toadmit that I was elated to find out he had been feeling the same way. We've been texting almost not-stop for about 3 days. He's actually kind of demanding of my attention, which is surprising because he hardly talked to me when we first met. Last night I had to go to sleep early, and when I said goodnight he said "Night, I guess. Whatever." He seemed irritated. This concerns me a little because that's not really something to be sensitive about. And so far I haven't heard from him today. I've been studying astrology for a while now, and he is the typical virgo. His personality is definitely true to his sun sign. I don't know anything about the rest of his chart, though.

Well, I'm not sure exactly what kind of advice I need. Lol I have no one to talk to about this. Should I make a trip to
Cali? I could totally pull it off, because I can afford it. And it's not like I'm going to stay with a stranger. I know
him pretty well. Should I take all this flirting seriously? He contacted me as though he had been considering it for a while. But he never made any effort before to show he liked me. Now He says he likes me a lot. I'd also like to know what it's like to date a virgo guy.

Posted by AriesandProud
Last night I had to go to sleep early, and when I said goodnight he said "Night, I guess. Whatever." He seemed irritated. This concerns me a little because that's not really something to be sensitive about. And so far I haven't heard from him today.

In my experience with my virgo ex, he would say rude/cold things when he was hurt/thought I didn't care. I guess it's their way to serve back what you made them feel...even if you didn't mean to hurt them. Basically, he's being immature.

Posted by AriesandProud
Should I make a trip to
Cali? I could totally pull it off, because I can afford it. And it's not like I'm going to stay with a stranger. I know
him pretty well. Should I take all this flirting seriously? He contacted me as though he had been considering it for a while. But he never made any effort before to show he liked me. Now He says he likes me a lot. I'd also like to know what it's like to date a virgo guy.

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I would wait for him to come see me, but that's just me. As for why now, maybe once he got to Cali, he began to think "what if" and regretted that he never said anything before. Also, his best friend really liked you, so that could have stopped him if his best friend said something first, etc.