My virgo isn't a good kisser.

It doesn't really bother me that much cause I love him, but he seams to think that it's me who is the bad kisser. It defiently is not, it's totally him! It doesn't bother me but sometimes I wish we could just passionately be able to make out, but he's just a terrible kisser. What can I do or say to make him improve? Hahaha

Really— Ughh I cannot get pass that 1st bad kiss, that 1st kiss tells me if we have chemistry and how the sex would be, if he is a bad kisser then he is gone lol

How do you teach them?? You say something or you just teach them while kissing them... Virgos have a very high opinion of themselves so I don't see my "hey dude you are a horrible kisser, come over here I teach you..." going very well lol

I feel that way too! It's not that it is horrible kissing him, is that it feels mechanical/ forced on his end. A lack of passion or too much thought behind it. I have definitely scored passionate kisses from time to time, but not too often.

it's annoying cause he honestly thinks its ME thats doing it bad, but i know for a fact that it is not ME it's him.. im gonna try change the way he kisses and hopefully he listens.

Posted by scorpio24
it's annoying cause he honestly thinks its ME thats doing it bad, but i know for a fact that it is not ME it's him.. im gonna try change the way he kisses and hopefully he listens.

Just a thought...but maybe it is you. How can you know for a fact? cause someone told you to spare your feelings? he might not be a bad kisser at all to someone else...I think hes just not your style .

Kissing comes from the heart, if there is passion, there is passion. No reason to over-complicate.

i have thought, maybe it is me, but then i realized it's not because he just kisses so forcefully and squishes my face with his face and his tounge movements are just all over the place. haha i like to kiss more passionately/gently.. but thats impossible when my face is squished.

Neither of you are bad kissers. You just have different beliefs about how to kiss. I go crazy kissing women that kiss hard, explore with their tongue, and bite, nibble, or suck on my lip. To me, that is a good kisser. Luckily for me, my virgal kisses the way I like. Maybe try and compromise. Communication is so important. Acknowledge that you are both good kissers, but sometimes you can kiss your way and sometimes you can kiss his way.

@scorpio24

I'm so sorry... How horribly frustrating. You'll probably get bored, I know I would. Probably a nice guy, but maybe inside he thinks kissing is gross & it has nothing to do with you, you can't teach around or fix that.

okay its probably not as bad as i made it seam... its OKAY its just not GREAT. but apart from that our love life is good

Posted by Nemesis

if i nit-picked about my relationship as much as you do - i would beg my boyfriend to break up with me.

concluding from this thread and the others you made regarding your virgo - if you wanna see obssessed you might want to look in the mirror.

i don't understand the other girls who are actually even patting your back and saying "well done" "way to go".

I've thought this for some time now.

This tearing a relationship apart with exhausting obssession seems to be an inherent Scorpion trait .... for this reason, one would run away crying from me because the moment they pulled this obssession shit, I'd hurt their feelings.

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Posted by scorpio24
it's annoying cause he honestly thinks its ME thats doing it bad, but i know for a fact that it is not ME it's him.. im gonna try change the way he kisses and hopefully he listens.

Just a thought...but maybe it is you. How can you know for a fact? cause someone told you to spare your feelings? he might not be a bad kisser at all to someone else...I think hes just not your style .

Wow do Virgos all go to some kind of "how to sound like a broken record" class
Trust us LIMM it's him and nothing you say will change that k k

IT'S NOT ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE REST OF THE WHOLE DAMNED WORLD, MOST OF THE TIMES IT'S JUST YOOOOOUUUUUUUUU

I know it's pointless but at least I feel better knowing I tried.

Ok onto the OP um this is a big problem people have with Virgos and like Dafna said as per above and below
Virgos are blind to their own flaws or (at least pretend to be). Idk what you can do but uh I'd say to go with CC's advice and each away

May the force be with you

Posted by Dafna79
How do you teach them?? You say something or you just teach them while kissing them... Virgos have a very high opinion of themselves so I don't see my "hey dude you are a horrible kisser, come over here I teach you..." going very well lol

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Oh well I didnt realize that you are in the relationship with the scorp and the virgo...my bad 😉

Posted by Jackstobo
Neither of you are bad kissers. You just have different beliefs about how to kiss. I go crazy kissing women that kiss hard, explore with their tongue, and bite, nibble, or suck on my lip. To me, that is a good kisser. Luckily for me, my virgal kisses the way I like. Maybe try and compromise. Communication is so important. Acknowledge that you are both good kissers, but sometimes you can kiss your way and sometimes you can kiss his way.

+1

Maybe you just need to brush your teeth.

Posted by scorpio24
okay its probably not as bad as i made it seam... its OKAY its just not GREAT. but apart from that our love life is good

Virgos like to please, BUT they don't like to be CORRECTED.

Use your tongue, and guide his how/where you want it. He'll get the hint.

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Posted by Nemesis

if i nit-picked about my relationship as much as you do - i would beg my boyfriend to break up with me.

concluding from this thread and the others you made regarding your virgo - if you wanna see obssessed you might want to look in the mirror.

i don't understand the other girls who are actually even patting your back and saying "well done" "way to go".

I've thought this for some time now.

This tearing a relationship apart with exhausting obssession seems to be an inherent Scorpion trait .... for this reason, one would run away crying from me because the moment they pulled this obssession shit, I'd hurt their feelings.

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Luckily for the Scorpios, you're not a Virgo.

Virgo gets Scorpio - whether they like it or not (and, secretive as they are, they tend not to) - and, more importantly, Virgo often respects Scorpio. We DIG the obsession, so long as we're the Object. Makes us feel loved. As for nit-picking: Virgos are the Poster Children for White-Throated Nit Pickers. Pick away, but make 100% sure you're RIGHT before you do, or we'll remind you of your transgression until you shut up about it (which Virgo realizes is Scorpio for "you're right"). Ain't romance The Bomb??

from all your posts you seem restless, not sure about your feelings for your virgo. does he want to breakup with you, is he obsessed with you, does he like your dressing style , is he not a good kisser. what is it about the virgo that you really like or love. what is it that makes you want to be with him? if you can answer that you will know what you want. i believe chemistry and physical compatibility are very important, but is there anything about him that makes you want to make it work with him? it could be you are right and also maybe you do not feel mutual love and are in the relationship just for the sake being in a relationship. what is that special thing that you two share?

what is that special thing that you two share?

I can't speak for the OP, but after 7 years with a Scorpio woman, I really couldn't define it. It just IS...

Posted by memyself
from all your posts you seem restless, not sure about your feelings for your virgo. does he want to breakup with you, is he obsessed with you, does he like your dressing style , is he not a good kisser. what is it about the virgo that you really like or love. what is it that makes you want to be with him? if you can answer that you will know what you want. i believe chemistry and physical compatibility are very important, but is there anything about him that makes you want to make it work with him? it could be you are right and also maybe you do not feel mutual love and are in the relationship just for the sake being in a relationship. what is that special thing that you two share?

There are soooo many things i like about him, i love his work ethic, how well put together he is, i'm extremely attracted to everything about him, his voice is so attractive to me, how he carries himself, how he is with other people, his independence, how USEFUL. he's just so MANLY to me i cant get enough of it. Hoenstly, MOST of the guys i am friends with or know who are around the same age are just all over the place.. which i think makes me respect my virgo's good qualities even more. he can be super generous too and i LOVE it when he's affectionate out of the blue.

I know i am probably coming across like a pshyco/needy girl, but honestly, i have NEVER been like this EVER with anyone else. i have had 2 other long term relationships with guys and a few flings here and there but i got bored/wasnt interested in ANY of them and could easily walk away.. but with this guy, wow. i dont know how to describe it, it's not ALL about physical attraction but i feel like there is SOMETHING there which i cant quite pin point...

sometimes i do feel as though we might not be that compatible cause i'm alot more loving/affectionate/want to give him the world.. where he shows emotions differently i guess.

Posted by scorpio24

There are soooo many things i like about him, i love his work ethic, how well put together he is, i'm extremely attracted to everything about him, his voice is so attractive to me, how he carries himself, how he is with other people, his independence, how USEFUL. he's just so MANLY to me i cant get enough of it. Hoenstly, MOST of the guys i am friends with or know who are around the same age are just all over the place.. which i think makes me respect my virgo's good qualities even more. he can be super generous too and i LOVE it when he's affectionate out of the blue.

I know i am probably coming across like a pshyco/needy girl, but honestly, i have NEVER been like this EVER with anyone else. i have had 2 other long term relationships with guys and a few flings here and there but i got bored/wasnt interested in ANY of them and could easily walk away.. but with this guy, wow. i dont know how to describe it, it's not ALL about physical attraction but i feel like there is SOMETHING there which i cant quite pin point...

sometimes i do feel as though we might not be that compatible cause i'm alot more loving/affectionate/want to give him the world.. where he shows emotions differently i guess.

sounds like you more admire him, are in awe of him, than in love with him. nothing wrong really. i could feel strongly about someone i admired, found attractive. that was mostly when i was your age. now i can control my attraction if there is no reciprocation. that is key for me now. but seems like you guys are close in age, so must feel the same way about each other. maybe it is love too, maybe.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Lol I'm the same way, hella obsessed and mad critical... maybe a tad bit much cause I'm getting it thrown in my face. I called him selfish, now he's like I have to focus on me, I have to be selfish. I have to live myself first before I can love anyone else. Oh go suck it already.

LOL I love you CC... BUT he is right and you should do the same 🙂

Try me instead: I am a Virgo (obviously) and I love to kiss (if I get the chance and with somebody worth having!)

Virgo's are persistent. Not really a fast learner but once started we finished everything with flying colors. It might end up him a greater kisser than you. HAHAHA
Trust me, I was once. But my ex Scorpio man was the best teacher. Virgo's are very curious but really conservative at first.

scorpio24 --> y'all are young. IME, Scorpio Woman + Virgo Man works best when he's had a chance to mature. We may look like we have it all together; but, honestly, it takes us years to get a handle on feelings...

Watch a movie together and when there is a kiss scene say...' wow what a kiss, lets try that' , make sure its not porn...lol.

And if that fails then say...'why do you kiss me like you are giving me oral....slow down a bit , so i can enjoy you even more.'
And if that fails, write him a poem about kissing....i wrote one called 'Delicious Raindrops' its probably bouncing around in here but dont look because it was a while ago, if i find it written down somewhere, i will PM it to you. No promises though.

So anyways Its all about how one takes constructive criticism -----so hopefully he will want to get better at it....good luck.