My scorpio man is acting weird towards me! HELP ME

he has been acting shady towards me for no reason he doesn't call me back or call me at all i have to call him but he says he's not a phone person....he makes me think that he doesn't care of like me anymore....but then when we see each other face to face it's different why??

Well, I'm not sure if it's a scorpio thing or what, but here's what I can say... I do it too, and really what it boils down to, if I'm keen to someone I usually won't contact them because I like to see how into me they truly are. Plus I'm shy, I really hate to be the one to make the moves simply because it gets nerve racking for me. Now you might think that's silly, I dunno, but here's the deal I usually make up for what I don't do with what I will do. If you prove to this guy that you are, without a doubt, interested then I can tell you slowly but surely he'll come around. We simply initially just don't trust folks, most especially relationship-wise because we feel things really deeply. What he's doing is making you work for his trust, and effort. If you choose to, it will definately be worth it in the long run. If not, then, he didn't allow himself to get emotionally attached so it will be easier for him emotionally if you walk out of his life. Again, this is what I do so I'm only talking by experience. Put up the effort, and you'll definately be rewarded. That and, strive for more one on one time with him, the more he's comfortable with you, the more he'll be keen...
Good luck!

Hi Storm,
I find your post interesting, as I have a feeling that my Scorp sometimes tests me in this way (i.e. lets me call first) to see if I truly care. The only difference w/ me is that we've been dating for 6 months. Is this something that doesn't only happen in the initial stages?

Well, I did it with my ex cancer, and he and I were together for ten months. Mainly because everytime I tried to contact him (which was far and few in between) he had such a busy life, I always felt like I was interfering.. So initially it was my testing him, but then it became so that I would text message him, and then see what would happen... So yes, it is possible that it doesn't only happen in the initial stages...

hi storm!! Well thanks...but this is the thing i call him but he doesn't call me back!! i mean i'm trying to figure this out...he doesn't answer my phone calls but when i leave a message and say call me back he doesn't!! I mean what is it!! He tells me he likes me but i don't see it. When i tell him i am about to see him then he will answer my phone calls but when i just talk to him over the phone it's different! But he did say he was a face to face person!

damn he sure is makin me work too- i never thought bout it like so - i guess i'm more stubborn bout givin in cus he said he's gunna have me whipped and i'm determined to prove him wrong

Oof! He said he would have you whipped?!?! Wow! What an ego!!! Was he serious or joking!?!? I typically tell guys that I'll make them my b-tch, but I am always joking and I only do that with friends, never the object of my affection.... If he wasn't joking, then I would have to say, use your stubborness, I know you've got it 😉....

see dats the thing- i'm not sure if he's jokin or not - but i ain't lettin nodoby think they got me whipped! lol

That's the spirit! 🙂

where there is confusion , there is not love. like , love , knowing your role is not confusion. if u have to ask , the value is to high , let it go..