
Narcissistic boss's use triangulation a lot. Always trying to create instability and make you feel like you're not good enough.




Posted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?

Posted by Stensco21pretty much - just don't let it get to youPosted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?
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Posted by tctaNarcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate itPosted by Stensco21pretty much - just don't let it get to youPosted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?
have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always
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Posted by Stensco21it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...Posted by tctaNarcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate itPosted by Stensco21pretty much - just don't let it get to youPosted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?
have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always
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Posted by tctaExactly what are triangulation tactics?Posted by Stensco21it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...Posted by tctaNarcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate itPosted by Stensco21pretty much - just don't let it get to youPosted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?
have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always
when I stop being nice, it's all over
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Posted by Stensco21I was asking if you had looked into anything to counter what is happening to you at work. I don't know any off hand. And, I would suspect that anything you tried would be out-maneuvered - it's how narcissists are ...Posted by tctaExactly what are triangulation tactics?Posted by Stensco21it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...Posted by tctaNarcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate itPosted by Stensco21pretty much - just don't let it get to youPosted by tctaYes it's all I can do
so what are you or can you do about this ?
can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?
have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always
when I stop being nice, it's all over
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