Narcissist and triangulation.

Profile picture of Stensco21
Stensco21
@Stensco21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
so what are you or can you do about this ?

can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?


Yes it's all I can do
pretty much - just don't let it get to you

have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always



click to expand

Narcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate it
Profile picture of tcta
tcta
@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 3706 · Posts: 7112 · Topics: 18
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
so what are you or can you do about this ?

can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?


Yes it's all I can do
pretty much - just don't let it get to you

have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always


Narcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate it
click to expand

it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...

when I stop being nice, it's all over



Profile picture of Stensco21
Stensco21
@Stensco21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 40 · Posts: 2507 · Topics: 212
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
so what are you or can you do about this ?

can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?


Yes it's all I can do
pretty much - just don't let it get to you

have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always


Narcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate it
it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...

when I stop being nice, it's all over



click to expand

Exactly what are triangulation tactics?
Profile picture of tcta
tcta
@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 3706 · Posts: 7112 · Topics: 18
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by tcta
so what are you or can you do about this ?

can you just ignore it and do your job best you can while seeking another ?


Yes it's all I can do
pretty much - just don't let it get to you

have you tried to look up any de-triangulation tactics ? not sure anything would work - narcissism is difficult to deal with - always


Narcissist always gravitate toward me. Fucking hate it
it's because you are "nice" - they can smell nice from great distances - like a great white can smell a drop of blood in the ocean from many-many miles away - it's what they feed on ...

when I stop being nice, it's all over




Exactly what are triangulation tactics?
click to expand

I was asking if you had looked into anything to counter what is happening to you at work. I don't know any off hand. And, I would suspect that anything you tried would be out-maneuvered - it's how narcissists are ...