Please help! Can't figure out libra woman

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kurioz344
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ok, so i've been knowing this Libra woman since i was little. she's 7 years older than me, and she hung around my older brother and his friends; i always felt since i was 16 she liked me. so about 2 years ago, im in the casino and i saw her from a distance, but i remember thinking I wasn't going to talk to her due to the fact i thought she was married. so a couple months later im in the casino again walking to the bathroom and she's playing the slots right by it, and she looks up and notices me while fixing her hair; i looked at her but walked right past her thinking she'll be a waste of time because i thought she was married and i was really desperate relationship wise. so a couple months later im looking for a seat in the casino and i see her playing the slot but i tried looking away fast trying to avoid eye contact, but she looked up at me and i got the feeling she caught me trying to look away by the look on her face; so i sat kinda by her in the next row of slots, but got up like 10 mins later to go eat. i walked to the bathroom a little later on and she was still there and when she noticed me at the corner of her eye i can see her take a deep breath sigh. after that i found out that she wasn't married or seeing anybody, so i made a mental note to try and talk to her if i saw her again. a week or two later i walked into the casino and she was sitting by the entrance playing the slots. about a hour later she sat right in my view in a couple rows down facing west direction. as soon as she looked my way, i gave her a hand gesture(a friendly/flirty one) but she just glared at me for about 10 secs, checked her phone then got up and left. a couple months later im in the casino, and i noticed her thru my slot machine's reflection; when she noticed me looking at her thru the reflection she looked away acting as though she was focused on something else. she walked pass me again. i saw her again a couple months later but i saw her before she saw me and i started talking to the person i was there with. recently, a couple months ago I was looking for a seat in the casino again and i walked past her playing the slot. i didn't see her looking at me, but her body language showed she was uneasy. about a hour later i walked to the bathroom and she was sitting by playing the slot, but she was acting like she didn't see me walking up to the bathroom. i was only in the bathroom about one minute, and when i came out she was gone. i remember getting the feeling she got up because of me. i saw her from a distance cashing in her ticket. my question for you Libra women... and those that know about Libra women, did i make her uncomfortable? does she think i don't like her? please, i have been really thinking about this heavy lately... thanks
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This probably would have made any woman uncomfortable, not just a Libra. Is there a reason the two of you are always in the same casino? She clearly knows that you've been watching her quietly from a distance. Showing up in the same place "coincidentally", looking at women, and not saying "Hello" like a normal human for weeks/months at a time would creep most women out. Just a heads up this is how stalkers act. Fortunately she knows your older brother, so she probably just assumed you were weird. If this woman was interested in you, I don't think she is any more.

Next time you see a woman that you like, go up and literally say, "Hello" and start a conversation. Don't state at her from a distance. She's a normal person just like anyone else, not an exhibit at the zoo.
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Posted by Chuckcem
This probably would have made any woman uncomfortable, not just a Libra. Is there a reason the two of you are always in the same casino? She clearly knows that you've been watching her quietly from a distance. Showing up in the same place "coincidentally", looking at women, and not saying "Hello" like a normal human for weeks/months at a time would creep most women out. Just a heads up this is how stalkers act. Fortunately she knows your older brother, so she probably just assumed you were weird. If this woman was interested in you, I don't think she is any more.

Next time you see a woman that you like, go up and literally say, "Hello" and start a conversation. Don't state at her from a distance. She's a normal person just like anyone else, not an exhibit at the zoo.

Thanks for your reply, Chuckcem. we 'show up' at the same casino because it's the only one by my house,and they have a drawing every weekend; I haven't been focused on her. I go there and talk to other girls; this was just something i noticed about this particular one...
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"Yea, you're super awkward tbh. I don't think she's interested. Stop stalking her".
Thanks for your reply pinkbird03. what made you think i'm stalking her? like replied to the first comment, i wasn't focused on her, it was just something i noticed...
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Because it's a very repetitive pattern. Did you really need to use the bathroom every time she was playing on a machine right next to it. Did you really need to look at her in the reflection of the machine? You might not be doing it on purpose, but it's coming off that way. That's probably why you notice her trying to keep her distance.
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Posted by pinkbird03
"Yea, you're super awkward tbh. I don't think she's interested. Stop stalking her".
Thanks for your reply pinkbird03. what made you think i'm stalking her? like replied to the first comment, i wasn't focused on her, it was just something i noticed...
"Because it's a very repetitive pattern. Did you really need to use the bathroom every time she was playing on a machine right next to it. Did you really need to look at her in the reflection of the machine? You might not be doing it on purpose, but it's coming off that way. That's probably why you notice her trying to keep her distance."

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i used the bathroom because i 'had to go'. i didn't know she was there playing the slot by the bathroom; and i looked at her thru the reflection of the machine because i saw movement just like i would anybody walking up that part of casino aisle...