Scorpio win back stubborn Pisces?

I am a 20 year old female scorpio who has been with my 26 year old male pisces since I was 18. We were together for almost 2 years and he broke it off with me, I know exactly why he did it, I was really mean and cruel to him in the end and I regret it every single day. We have been broken up for about a month and I know he started seeing another girl the day after he broke up with me. He told me that he never wants to talk to me or see me again, and that there was no way we could be friends again because he doesn't talk to his ex's. I still stay in touch with his family because we were always close. Everytime they try to talk to him about us, he either changes the subject or leaves. He actually called me today to tell me that he had a terrible dream about my father dying.. and he saw me at the funeral mourning over him.. it shocked me and I started crying... but I didn't want to let it get to me too much, so we actually talked like we used to.. like we were together again.. we were even laughing together... but I ruined it because I started bringing up how sorry I was for everything.. and I started crying again... I even told him that I knew he still loved me, but he said he didn't.. and I believed him. He said that he's still in another relationship but our paths might cross again in the future. I told him how I am changing and how I'm getting counseling and even going to church, and he said that was good, but he kept growing even more upset because I wouldn't stop talking about how sorry I was. He told me that he does want to talk to me now, but not about us or our past, he mostly wants to talk about bills. He told me that he had to go and to call him if anything happens. I loev him so much and I would do anything in this whole world to get him back, I am respecting his wishes and giving him space like he wanted, he said that he is still angry with me but not as angry as he was at first. I don't know what I can do, I have tried writing him love letters of apology, I've even sent him sweet gifts, but nothing has worked. I know that I could've ended the conversation on a great note today, but I did the opposite and made everything worse again. I know how stubborn pisces are, and I've been told that once a pisces is hurt too much, that they never go back, but we had such a strong connection.. I mean there was a point that we could literally read eachother's thoughts without even realizing it.. what can I do to get him back? I would do anything.

I could really use a pisces input. Or even a scorpios on how they won back their stubborn pisces.

In my experience with just Pisces friends, once they're gone, they're gone for good. I don't even think I did anything wrong, they just seem to change over night or out of the blue. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.

WaterPhoenix, I've heard that many times too in fact. From my personal experience with my pisces, whenever someone would be really mean to him over and over again, he wouldn't talk to them for a really really long time, in fact he won't call them, but if they called him and said sorry he would come back around after a while. I am hoping that this may be the case with me, I was surprised that he actually called me yesterday, but I ruined that chance. I also have a male pisces friend that is about 2 years older then him, he said that if things don't work out with this other girl then he would probably come back to me. Do you think that this may be a possibility?

Males seem different from females with regard to this matter (and to sex, with females being more monogamous and loyal, allegedly, than the Pisces male). I've forgiven and forgotten more times than I can remember! But my former male bf also a Pisces simply stopped talking to me (it was mutual at the time) and we've not spoken in years. Probably never will, and I simply don't care....we both moved on.

Hey Ya'll,
I read all of the posts and Water Phoenix mentioned something that is so true. (By the way, you're username is so freakin' awesome!)Anyway, if you mis-treat a Pisces the first time around, don't even think that being regretful will bring him back. I know for me personally, "Once I'm done. I'm done and I never look back." This may be a totally different situation, but with my Capricorn father, my visits with him has been really scarce. When I was living with him in 1999-2001. It was like a dry prison. I had no kind of emotional understanding, he was materialistic, and my step-mom, brother and sister never really made any attempts to connect with me all because they were afraid that my father would become resentful and jealous. He could never connect with me. Like I said, he was materialistic and money brought that out of him. My independence was stifled because of that. He always wanted to borrow money from me just so that he could use it for recreation.Alot of times, I was trying to save my money for future plans, but whenever I resisted he gave me a guilt trip. Currently, I don't visit him very often because I don't want to go thru that with him anymore.I have other people from my past who've hurt me and are trying to come back into my life like as if I'm a fool. My thing is that if you hurt me once intentionally, I'll never let you get too close again. Once my mind is made up, you're out of luck.-Dreamy-Eyes, out-

Well, that's true, even when he did make up with his mom's ex husband, he was always guarded. But it wasn't just me who messed up, he made a ton of mistakes too, and there were things that he did that I should've left him over, but I didn't... when I saw him crying over what he did.. I knew that he was truly sorry for what he did.. and I expected the same from him.. but I didn't get that from him. I mean I was his longest and most serious relationship that he's ever had, and I know for a fact that none of his previous relationships cared for him or took care of him the way I did, so that's why I really don't understand how he could just be so cold. I've done so much for him, when he wasn't working, I worked 2 jobs and paid his bills, which were not cheap.. I alwyas remembered everything for him because he can't remember anything.. I mean I did so much for him.. and I feel like I deserve more then just to be dumped for some other girl. He did say that someday our paths might cross again, but I am just interpreting that as if things don't work out with the girl he's with then he might call me, which is fine, I don't care if he does, he knows that right now I would do anything to get him back, he knows that he can just call me up and I would come running back in a heart beat... but he won't do it.. and it hurts... because I always took him back.. even when I should've left him.. I guess that's just my nature... I think I might just be too loyal for my own good... there has to be in the history of pisces at least one instance where a pisces did take someone back... I just need to find out what that person did to win them back... I mean I'm going to leave him alone for a while, to let him stop being angry with me, and then I'll contact him just to see how he's doing. I actually want to do something crazy and romantic in a couple of months, like surprise him with something that no one has ever done for him before. Do you think that something like that could work? Come on, I know you're stubborn and hurt easily, but so are scorpios, but here I am making all the effort... so typical I suppose. There has to be a pisces out there somewhere who went through what my ex is going through but did take back that person in the end and ended up happy with them... there has to be.. I would do anything... ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING to get him back... there has to be SOMETHING I can do... right...—?? I really need your help here 😢. PrettyPisces24 has been a big help so far 🙂

Pisces love to be wanted and chased and so when you do exactly the opposite it reals us in...so leave him alone for a while as hard as it may be...and soon if he still cares, his fear that you may be gone, will slowly bring him back...but when he does start coming back don't jump into old patterns...just take it slow...