Pisces and Scorpio - Negative aspects?

Is it just me or has anyone else experienced the Scorpion sting??
Maybe it's just me (female Piscean)and I bring out the worst in them!
I had a best friend for nearly 10 years, and she was a Scorpio. It was pretty intense as friendships go. It was like we bonded totally, had the same sense of humor and could talk about anything under the sun - our deepest fears and our deepest desires and passions. There was a period in her life, just after school, when she was directionless and became a bit disillusoned about this, and we would talk about this. She eventually got through it and became successful and I was delighted for her. I on the other hand, went to college, but after college it was my turn to drift a little and become confused as to where I was going, and I would relay my fears and insecurities to her at times.
However she soon started to ignore my calls and exclude me from her life totally. I felt like I was too much and being too needy and felt totally guilty about this. When we did talk she would bring up my insecurities and kind of throw them in my face, when I had often sat with her when she was really upset about something and wouldn't think twice about it. She treated me fine when we were on our own,it was like we were so intune with each other, but in her other friends company she would act like seh didn;t really like me. I just felt it was very manipulative, as now the friendship is dead and gone. The thing is I confronted her about it and she started to turn it atround on me. Anyway I don't care because, I knw that I was only being truthful, ansd if someone has something to see to me, I know I can take it on board, look at my faults and apologise for them if necessary and move on. I don't think scorpios can do this at all!!
I also have a scorpio brother who I got on really well with. I moved to the city he lived in as I had got a new job. I stayed there a year and he was great. He would ring me all the time to see I was ok or to meet up. Then I had to move out of my place and asked if I could move in with him for a while, like a week or two. The thing is I HATED my job so I felt it was now or never and I had to leave, which meant living with him longer than planned. But he took this as some sort of mass deception, and that I had planned it all along but just didn't tell him. It was simply that I couldn't stay there anymore and saw this as my chance to get out and didn't think he'd mind me stayng on until I sorted myself out.
I think he is a typical Scorpio in that he is extremely probing and penetrative i.e he asks a million questions about where I've been even if I had just gone to the local store! Being a Pisces I found it difficult to answer his every question. Like if I said I'd be home at 7 and didn't arrifve until 7.30, he saw this as some form as deception also. When I probably just stopped to read a magazine in a shop or something!

Am I the only one who experienced this with Scorpios??
I feel like things will never be the same between us again, as scorpios do not forgive or back down, and once they've struck you off their list thats it!

I am a Pisces and I have a had a love relationship, work relationship and a friendshipw/three different Scropios over the years. The love relationship was okay, the work relationship turned sour because she was a psycho just in general, I dont think it has anything to do with her sign. The friendship is different, I have a similar friendship to yours for about 4 years. And it is the same thing they feel like you let them down all the time and then can be very hard on Pisces or anyone I think, because we are sensitive as it is so when someone makes us feel bad or guilty all the time it can do a number on a person. I had to set boundaries with this friend about 3 months ago, and things are not the same really, if Im not "there" for her the way she wants me to be it's like Im this "mean" person, which is totally not true.We are still firends, but I find that I have to be extra careful with her. What Im trying to say is its not just you, sometimes people go through changes. good luck.

Just my thought's on Scorp's. I love them... A-lot! They are extremely independent and if they feel invaded they will cut you out of their lives. If they love you and want you to be with them- that is totally different. Control of their independence is not easily taken over. They will resent you for not being your own independant person. Much like the Virgo. They take words very literally and if you say something, you hed better do it and mean it! That is the bottom line to gaining a Scorp's trust. They are very afaid of being or feeling like they have been fooled. By anyone. They do however have a great capacity of love to give for a mate who has what they need deeply.

Hi there,
I'm a Libra and I'v ehad nothing but mostly trouble from Scorps. Yes, they are distrusting--sometimes for the wrong reasons but, to put generalizations aside, your friend was very inconsiderate and selfish to the core. Sure, she gets her piece of the success pie, but when you need a little emotional lift, she ditched you... Well, sometimes we have to end frienships and BELIEVE ME, it's for the BETTER! I think you will come out of this a much stronger person if you tell her EXACTLY how she treated you-maybe in a letter--that way you have her full attention. And then, you never call her or see her again. Time proves the strongest of bonds and your gut feelings are usually right on the money. Good luck--and don't get your heart hurt dear Piscean. Especially by a Scorp--sheesh.

Hi Libra
Thanks for your positive vibes! I did write her a letter and said exactly how I felt at how I was treated. At the end of the day, she did do a lot for me in terms of emotional support in our long friendship. But I think it was just the way she ended it that was very hurtful and manipulative. I mean I would have preferred, and would have been better able to deal with it, if she had told me she hated me and never wanted to see me again, rather than be friendly one minute and completely exclude me the next! Anyway, I said what I've had to say, and I know that she couldn't give a rat's a** - but at least I know deep down that I was being totally upfront and honest about her failings AND MINE, and that what I had to say was true.
Anyway 'all things must pass' as the great man once said, and this too shall pass.
Here's to the future and happiness!!
all the best
Pisces

Dear Pisces ...
Good for you!!! Pat yourself on your back! That ex scorp can go make someone else's life miserable. Godd, she reminds me exactly of a former co-worker of mine--a scorp with a lot of baggage and she too didn't give a rat's a** about anyone--just like your ex friend. Good bye and good riddance is all I can say for you. Don't you feel good to have written that letter? If she calls you-DO NOT respond. You have severed the ties having the last word--KEEP it that way.

Can you say "ditto"? I am in love ( I think ) with a Scorpio male and he does all that you mentioned. When we are with his friends, he is totally different...aloof and macho. When we're alone, he's sweet and loving. Which is the truth? The lie? They are known to be cunning liars. Manipulative to the max...I mean, Pisces are known to stretch the truth now and then, but not to hurt someone. These people love to hurt others. Why? I've experienced the same with two females I know. Insecure and devious. Powerhungry. All Scorpios I know are loners and have few friends, while Pisces have many friends and are liked by many people...strangers or not. Perhaps they're jealous of our easy going natures? I'm a positive Pisces female and this male Scorpio is miserable. So, join the club...I'm a victim, and still am, of their wild mood swings and unpredictability. I thought "we" were bad ( and we can be ), but these water signs take the cake. Get a grip Scorpios, we love you, so stop being immature, insecure bullies and smile once in awhile. Keep the faith...Good Luck (smile)

Kimairborne--

Don't get your feelings hurt! It may be a good time to have a real talk with this guy--find out exactly how he feels about you. See if he looks you right in the eyes with his answers too. If it doesn't work out with him, just remember, there are plenty of other men that are better. Hope this helps. Good luck.
Sloane

The problems I've encountered with my (now long ago) Pisces boyfriend were things like his tendency to be clingy and slightly smothering, and his sensitivity was just a little much for me. Not that these are traits I don't like, in fact if they had been present but not to the oppressive degree that they were, everything would have been great. I like being around Pisceans, but sometimes feel that they aren't as...I don't know, loyal to me as I wanted them to be. I usually get the feeling that at any moment, they could change and go with someone else, whether on a friendship level or not. So I tend to hold back from them in an emotional sense, because I realize that I tend to connect with them really fast but I don't want to get hurt by this tendency they have to change and go off in a new direction and so therefore I end up keeping myself from getting as "deep" with them as I could.